My best friend told me yeserday that she had sex with her boyfriend and she wants to tell her mom but she isnt sure how, and i dont really know what to do; if i should tell her parents for her or something? Can anyone help?

idk.. i wouldn`t tell my
parents if i had sex with
my bf, wow.
like, if it really isn`t
that big of a deal to her
why doesn`t she just do
it?

Idk...shes weird...

I think it would be more right, if she herself, were to tell them.

But thats just my opinion.

it`s HER parents.. im guessing only she`d know how to not make them freak the hell out. so iunno.. its really simple haha. telling someone something isn`t something you ask how to.. really.. it's probably easier if someone else told her parents for her but if she`s the one wanting to tell, then she should be the one to do that

um... wouldn't you feel it extremely awkward to tell her parents that she had sex?

if she wants to let her parents know, she should be the one to tell them- directly. i mean, it's probably really hard to go ahead and do that but... if anything, she should be the one telling them. even if you told for her, i'm sure they'd have questions for her anyways.

Let her deal with the dirty work.

Is she afraid she's going to get in trouble?
SHE should be the one's to tell her parents...it'll just sound weird coming from you.

Are we sure this isn't.. someone else.. we're talking about? Even so, how much does she really want to tell them? How old is she?

lol its not me its my friend taylor and shes 14

Moved to Relationships.

I have no idea whatsoever. 14 is such a young age to have sex IMO.

You shouldn't do it for her. She's the one who lost her virginity, not you. I think she should just put aside time and beef up and tell her mom while they're having a private conversation.

think of the conequences..... well for me i rather tell my mom but knowing her.... ahhh i just keep it to myself, my boyfriend's mom knows... i think thats good enough lol

she should do it for herself... if shes that comfortable to tell her, then yeah go ahead

You shouldn't get involved in her problem.
If your friend is the same age as you, then that's a really young age to be having sex at.
If she's that open to let her parents know, then she should just tell them in the most succinct way...
But I guess the issue is how her mom would respond.

14? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Tell her I wish her good luck when she gets pregnat and/or starts regretting having sex while she's still a child.

she must think she's grown...it did say she did it more than once..O.o

:X Wow.. she must be a stupid child.

Don't tell it to her parents for her.

Leave the decision up for your friend. She can choose whether she wants to tell her parents about it or not.

But anyhow, just don't tell it to her parents.

considering it's her body, she should be the one telling her mom. 14 is really too young to be having sex though.

Tell her that you think she should tell her parents.
But, only when she's ready.
I still haven't told my Dad.
But, I did tell my Mom.

I wouldn't ever ask my best friend to tell them, either.
That's really weird.

y would she wanna tell her mom..? thts awkward already. Parents dont needa know tht much information..

maybe she wants to get in trouble for it.

That is so weird. If she doesn't know how to tell her parents, then tell her to sneak the boy into her room and have sex with him; then, you call her house asking for her, her parents answer and go to give her the phone and WHAM.... they know!

no.. don't tell her parents. have her do it herself. the only way i can think of is to just tell her to tell her parents and face the consequences [if any].

Okay, every single response you have to teenagers having sex is that they will automatically get pregnant or screw up their lives. Sex is not an automatic death sentence. I have been having sex for almost 3 years now, and hey no babies OR STDS. Get laid already. Sheesh.

lol does she have that close of a relationship to her mother that she has to tell her? i'm very close to my mother and i don't really think she'd be all that happy if i told her i was having sex with my boyfriend. there's just a line i guess? just tell her not to do it... ><

No don't do that for her. I'm sure a mother would rather hear something like this from their own daughter than from a friend of their daughter.

"hey mom"
"hello dear how are you"
"i had sex"

like that. exactly like that.

^ lmao, perfect.

Your friend should probably tell her mom. Her mom will send her to therapy to get help. She probably needs the help anyways, if she's having sex at FOURTEEN.

Don`t tell her parents for her. It would be pretty awkward anyways?
It`s her body, she should have to face the consequences for her own actions. Her parents deserve to know that information(?) She shouldn`t go through life having to regret anything.

hahaha thats funny lol

ummm my best friends mom told my mom about me having sex
but that was last year, and i just now found out that she told her.
i was actually really mad that she told my mom that.
my mom wasnt mad or anything at all. she was very calm about it and we actually started talking about it like it wasnt a big deal. my mom just doesnt want me to get pregnant [which is why i am on BC]
but i think you friend should tell her own mom, not her friend.
a mom would probably want to hear something like that from her own daughter.
if your friend is scared to tell her mom, then at least get her on birth control. you dont need a parent to do that
at least she will be staying safe.

I think she should tell her mom herself...why exactly she'd want to do that is strange to me, mind you my parents are very strict, but anyways...just tell her to sit her mom down and have a serious conversation with her and somehow tell her herself.