if they had to, what would you want them to say/do. and dont respond as if the guy is gunna be ugly. or what are some expirences where u got creeped out or gave the guy a chance.

Walk straight up to me, look me in the eye, and introduce himself with a hand out.

^^^
I agree.

hahaha ill try it

I wouldn't want him to walk up to me with his tongue hanging out or anything. Thank goodness that hasn't happened.

I probably would like them to come up to me and be polite. I'm not too fond of strangers, so I guess I'd like for there to be a reason for them to come up to me.

okay, well..im not trying to be racist..

but i was at the mall a few years back and these really tall black guys were there. i walked past and they were like, "damnnn, guuuurl."
and..i was like..wtf? thats the biggest "diss" you can give a girl who actually respects herself.
i really dont like people who do that.


are you talking about a guy who likes me or just a random stranger?
i always thought that really cheesy pickup lines worked well. it's a nice conversation starter.

to want to get to know you duhhhh, cuz ur cute =)

its funny how u said really tall like it was some significance to the post.

thats not being racist at all tho, people of color seem to express themselves more.but anyrace is capable.

"I suck a mean dick."

^ that one gets me everytime, personally i just look them in the eyes until our eyes meet then i flash my best smile. Youll never get shut down that way, unless you happen to meet one that is with her boyfriend, then youre prolly in for some trouble

that might work but would the guy stop...?

I like pickup lines, as long as they're not perverted. I think I wouldn't be able to handle the whole introducing thing.

do you mean the chicks boyfriend? I usually dont go over right after she makes eye contact...
I make sure im somewhat welcome, but it isnt like the guy would wanna mess with me anyway unless hes just huge

I agree with the whole 'having a reason' thing.
When random people come up to you with no reason, aside from wanting a phone number, or god forbid, a myspace url, it's akward.

QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Apr 8 2007, 12:12 PM)

I probably would like them to come up to me and be polite. I'm not too fond of strangers, so I guess I'd like for there to be a reason for them to come up to me.

^me too.
i'm kind of shy... so strangers don't excite me.