cheerupxemokid
Apr 4 2007, 01:17 PM
curiousss.
krnxswat
Apr 4 2007, 01:18 PM
Hm, I've still never said it to anyone. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 20 months and we haven't said it to each other yet. We're both perfectly fine with it, though. Just trying to make sure.
cheerupxemokid
Apr 4 2007, 01:23 PM
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Apr 4 2007, 10:18 AM)

Hm, I've still never said it to anyone. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 20 months and we haven't said it to each other yet. We're both perfectly fine with it, though. Just trying to make sure.
aw that's really cute :))
SimplicityGirl
Apr 4 2007, 01:24 PM
I've told him I loved him as a friend before we got together...
The first we said we loved each other in the serious way was...2 or 3 months after we had gotten together.
pinacoolada
Apr 4 2007, 03:08 PM
ahh.. after a few months of dating...well before we started actually going out, we dated a bit first.
y0urelectrikk
Apr 4 2007, 03:09 PM
about 2 or 3 months
Cujiine
Apr 4 2007, 03:24 PM
Well for me it was a month but I've known him my entire life so it;s kinda different. but now I wish I hadn't...
mishyerr
Apr 4 2007, 04:28 PM
A few months.
I was very reluctant to, at first.
AngelinaTaylor
Apr 4 2007, 11:33 PM
We haven't said it to each other yet, and we've been dating for about 8 months. But we're both crazy about each other, so we're happy :)
NgocQuyen
Apr 4 2007, 11:38 PM
he told me he loved me first and this was after a month or 2? i hesitated to say it back, in fact, i didn't say it back at all until i was for sure, and he even told me that he wouldn't force me to say it and that it was just how he felt..hehe :)
alysaphobia
Apr 5 2007, 06:17 AM
7 months.
it bugs me when a pretty new boyfriend will say he loves me after only such a short time of dating. i only say it when i mean it, so yeah.
cheerupxemokid
Apr 5 2007, 09:19 AM
QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Apr 4 2007, 8:38 PM)

he told me he loved me first and this was after a month or 2? i hesitated to say it back, in fact, i didn't say it back at all until i was for sure, and he even told me that he wouldn't force me to say it and that it was just how he felt..hehe :)
aw well thats good :)
My Cinderella.
Apr 5 2007, 11:37 AM
I don't actually remember, I think it was a good 12 months before I could say it.
vietbabiiix3
May 5 2007, 08:51 PM
we both said it once to each other.. and it was really emotional.. hehe
cathylawlzz
May 5 2007, 11:38 PM
not long for me, i was a kid back then when i said it.
since everyone was saying it, i thought i'd say it to my boy
and he said it back.
i was really young back then. my boy and i were together for 2 1/2 years
and then broke off.
and this year, we finally realized that we really do love each other :)
so yeah.
childish love at first. (the word love, as it is, gets thrown around quite easily)
and now it's actually... real love.
xxx
Mystic Eyes
May 6 2007, 07:43 AM
Well it was strange cuz at the time me and my then gf were not in a relationship but we were crazy about each other. Then one night she texts me saying she thinks she's in love with me. The thing was at the time I was unsure but days later I knew I loved her, so After a conversation or two and actually hooking up, it took both of us abour 1-2 weeks to say it, since we already were head or heels in love with eachother.
EmoEyelinerx
May 6 2007, 10:04 AM
Unilke you guys i dont wait a month or two or whatever. I say i love you about a week into the realationship becasue well i get attached real easy i guess you could say. Well the guy always says love you too so yeah...
voguelove
May 6 2007, 10:48 AM
never
Detective
May 6 2007, 11:06 AM
After 5 Months.
LaStiNg4EtErNiTy
May 6 2007, 12:56 PM
four months now.
i said it once, i dont think he really heard it. i dont know.
but i do love him, i just dunno when is the right time to really say that.
mytangerine
May 6 2007, 11:10 PM
i never say i love you until i truly TRULY mean it; i don't want to give the guy the wrong idea, especially if he's already telling me he loves me & i don't feel the same way yet.
fcukxl0ve
May 6 2007, 11:30 PM
i dont recall how long it took...3-5 monthsz...?
PINAYSTER
May 7 2007, 12:05 AM
it took us a month and a week
he told me on my birthday
FoxLucky
May 7 2007, 12:06 AM
He told me on day one! Maybe before that... silly boys
1y55
May 7 2007, 09:35 AM
He said it to me first actually. It was funny, because he said it on the phone, and this is about 2 weeks of dating, and I was like, "What was that?" and he was like, "Nothing, I was just reading the television."
Lol. It was cute. But I didn't say it back that night. It took me a few weeks.
We're still together after 2 years & 4 months.
lalalalala12345
May 8 2007, 12:44 PM
iv been going out with my bf for almost a month now. we still havent said it eventhough we both really like eachother...
deplorable
May 8 2007, 02:23 PM
uh. i cant quite remember. i think it was shortly after we had gotten serious. but it was really nice when we did. we were on a park bench around 10 at night ( we were at a fundraiser) and i just got this reallly intense but calming feeling. and i knew at that moment that i loved him. so i said it and he replyed back.
whats really cute is that way before all that before we started going out he and i were working on a school project at my house. i live on a REALLY big property and there is a pond in the backyard (by pond, its more like a mini lake) we were walking around for a break, when he sat me down and said "claire, i like you. im not madly in love with you, but i like you." it was so cute, and he was so nervous. i tease him about that now...
teeners4
May 12 2007, 11:51 PM
neither of us had said it yet. we've just hit 5 months. in our previous relationships we've said it but didn't mean it. like my ex had said it to me 3 months in and i said it as a reflex response but i didn't mean it and it went downhill. same with him. we're both young, 18 (maybe it's not young to you but it is!) and we're still finding ourselves. we both haven't experienced love yet so we don't want to say anything we're not sure of yet. but we are going to university together next year so we'll see =)
i do love him as a friend and same with him. and sometimes i feel like yea i do love him but i'm not sure yet. i don't want to say something and regret it the moment i say it.
cupcakex
May 14 2007, 01:28 AM
We said it after about four months.
SyntaxIsSexy
May 14 2007, 02:38 PM
Well, we were dating for a couple months &then we made it official... I first told him three months after being official... so I guess five months?
Hamnah
May 15 2007, 04:09 PM
Urgh.
My ex said it to me..
About 5 minutes after he asked me out.
I said it back.
Which i regret deeply.
stephinika
May 15 2007, 11:38 PM
He said it first after a few days, which I know, soon, but there was a history beforehand in a way so yeah...and yes, I said it back. But generally I'd think that's too soon but it was under different circumstances. And we've been together for almost 8 months now.
scenebob90
May 16 2007, 08:23 AM
Probably about a month or so.
but i had liked her for a long time before hand,
and we were together all the time.
:)
steve330
May 16 2007, 08:32 AM
Psh the day before I asked her out. I had been spending 4-5 hours a day w/ her for the past 2 months though. Still, I shudda waited a lil longer lol, as I din get the response til a couple months later
dancingkait
May 17 2007, 10:56 PM
my boyfriend and i started saying it after just about 2 months and we've now been together for 5 and counting
Intercourse.
May 18 2007, 12:52 AM
Uhm half a year? Maybe not even that long?
It really differs from person to person and how much the relationship had progressed and how well you two know each other and how well you know yourself and what love is. Or what you think love is
AngelicEyz00
May 18 2007, 12:55 AM
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Apr 4 2007, 11:18 AM)

Hm, I've still never said it to anyone. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 20 months and we haven't said it to each other yet. We're both perfectly fine with it, though. Just trying to make sure.
SEON HO SEON HO SEON HO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My boyfriend and I said I love you just before our 3 months. It would have been later, but under the circumstances, it just came out. I wasn't sure when I was going to tell him

And might I add that I find it annoying when people say they love each other when they've only been together for like a month.
itsthatgirl33
May 18 2007, 03:32 PM
it was 4 months or so into our relationship. he said it first, i thought it was a joke ... then i said it back. i'd been feeling it for a little while. & we're still happy together at a year & two months.
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