Everytime im dating someone they always ask "can i finger u" it gets kinda annoying anyway is this like the "in" thing?

I guesss.

Ew. That's a little desperate...

You must be like, 10.

Well do you do it? That's a little odd that they would ask you that. As long as they don't throw a temper tantrum when you say no... otherwise I'd tell you to stop hanging around the opposite sex.

yeahh that must be desperate..
freakin horny guys!! ughh!

They ASK you? what losers!!!

roooooooofl.

Actually, I think it's quite respectable that they at least ASK first before touching.

sometimes things like that are best left unspoken. like nike "JUST DO IT" hahaha

Wow. That seems kind of random if a guy just ask you. Espicially if it's a first date. Most girls won't kiss on there first date, so why the guys ask? lol. Maybe there just literally horny all the time.

AHAHAHA I love that!!! Its sooo true!!! I absolutely HATE it when guys ASk....wth...it totally ruins the moment...

thank you hahaha

I do believe this is NOT a "PG-13" topic.

^Does this topic offend you?

next time unzip ur pants and just suggest it...it sounds like they ask you a lot????

That is a young guy thing.
At least in my experiences.

I think, if you're 'in the mood', but you don't want to go too far, then it's not too bad.
Luckily, my boyfriend &I are passed that.

aha thats so weird thats like a guy asking " so you wanna do it"... its supost to just happen on its own if its ment to happen.

rofl.
rofl.

Im 14

whoa ur youngin...when i was 14, i was beatin up boys! LOL I was a homeboys, homeboy!! ROTFLMFAO!

lol

If you let that boy finger you that makes you a whore/slut/tramp or whatever. FOURTEEN YEAR OLDS SHOULDN'T BE HAVING SEX.

AGAIN... THIS IS NOT PG-13! XD

I never said i let them and idc if ppl call me a whole/slut/tramp im use to it.. and if its not PG-13 dont read it..

you shouldn't let people call you a whore/slut/tramp in the first place...

Hey now... Before i ever did that to my g/f I asked her. I wanted to respect her in every way. So i asked just to make sure that we as a couple were on the same page.

woah. fourteen. dangg.

Gah...

FIRST of all...who gave you the permission to tell people what exactly makes somebody a whore/slut/tramp? hmmm? You THAT wise in your old age? Hmm? and although I agree 14 is quite young to be havin sex...you arent her mamma! mmmk?

SECOND of all...

its pg-13 enough for EVERYBODY else...nobody else has really complained...
if your whole point is to go through the forums and be the pg-13 police...thats really sad. Let people talk, its a forum...k thanks.






Now, this is to the actual person who posted this topic:

Sweetie, you are a bit young...not that any of us can tell you what to do. Jus be careful k? Annnd...if you dont like the fact that these boys are askin you to finger you...dont let them. Bottom line. You are young, you will have TONS of time for all this sex stuff...stay an innocent little girl as long as you can because when its gone...ITS GONE.

ahaha how about "can i kiss you?" ahahaha now that would be funny

but if guys are asking to finger you than theyre gayyy
fingering is for looooserrrrsssss
(unless youre in it deep) lolololol

ohhh youre only 14??
oh my goodness
tell them no
and tell them youre not old enough to like boys yet

lol well I have actually had a guy ask...can I kiss you...lol. I understand that they are trying to be respectful and my old fashioned state of mind says...forgive him...lol. However, "can I kiss you" is just about the LEAST romantic thing I have EVER heard lol. Oh and the whole fingering thing...its just something you might do...like during other things...but its not something that you set as a goal and ask your gf about lol.

AHAHAHAHA asking yeah, really does kill the moment.
i guess it is.
my friend first got fingered when she was like 11 or 12 with her first bf and they've only been going out for like.. a week or two. haha.
horny bastards.