I get this all the time, when I "like" one guy. But then there is another guy that I really like flirting with. So there's two guys, one has a very good personality...and the other is really cuute, WITH a good charm....so my question is, has this ever happend to you or something similar? and how did you deal with the situation??

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yeah i have had times where i start off thinking i like 2 guys... but i always realize i only really like one of them in the end.... so kind of.

You usually, honestly like someone if you know their personality well, or are their friend. The other guy, based on looks, is just your infatuation. Maybe it's possible, but I think it would be difficult to truly like two people at once.

It's happened to me before, like when I first started dating my current boyfriend.
But, it's kind of slowed down, since we've gotten more &more serious.

lol!! all the time!!
but when i get with one of the guys..
i forget about the other one!! hahaha!!

i know both of their personalities, and they both have good personalities(:
its so difficult to explain...but idk...maybe it is just infatuation...

Yupp this happens to me all the time

Yeah definately. Like, right now. I like my current bf a lot but we're not serious really, however I think I'm still in love with my ex[who i dumped because I was really confused about our relationship]. Yeah...my ex was my first real bf[okay, & only my second] but yeah we were really close[we even lost our virginity together] and well....yeahh. I'm only 15.

It's natural to like more than one person! When you're growing up you start to realise things you'd never think of before. For example you start to realise certain things about certain people and you get strong emotions.

yeah i know all that, LOL i am 18 nearly 19, been through that first love crap, now its the "finding true love" phase...BUAHHAHA the situations get more and more confusing. i just wanted to know if i was weird..or if others were feeling the same...

im pretty sure ive crushed on 6 guys at a time.

theyre all too cute.

yuppp. i like flirting with alot of non-taken guys. it's really fun and i can since i'm single and so are they. but as far asactually dating them...i don't think i would.

Yes, all the time.
I'm kind of flirty by nature, so if a cute guy flirts back I get a mini-crush.
They go away, though.

Happens to me very often. A lot of the time, I'm infatuated with a guy (sometimes more than one xD), and seriously crushing on another.
I get infatuated wayy too easily, but I usually forget about it the next day. Unless I see him everyday or so.
But to like like a guy, it takes a while. For me to seriously crush on a guy, I have to know him really well.
I just try to get to know the guy I'm infatuated with (which usually doesn't go well).. And then I stop being infatuated and focus on my real crush.

Of course.

Yes.
It drives me nuts because I don't want to like two guys at once. I think about both of them all the time and then distracts me from other stuff.
The last time I liked two guys at once, one had a girlfriend and the other I barely talked to.

Yup! but hey, if you're single, I think you can like as many guys as you want. ;]

Yeah! Hahaha! That's quite normal, I think. I even have crushes even if I'm in love with someone else... but that's okay, it's a crush. A crush for me is just admiration, and I'm the faithful type anyways...

When I was in middle school, I liked more than 3 guys at a time sometimes. haha

Yeah, it's happened. It's not fun.

^ not fun, but adrenaline pumping!!

same here! it kinda happens a lot.

Gosh I'm sooo bad about this. I usually end up liking more than one guy. Always actually. Its weird. Or like when I finally decide I like one guy...another cute guy is suddenly extremely interested in me lol. Sucks...I usually just keep flirting and liking them until one decides to actually ask me out.

Yea, i've crushed two guys before....they were sitting next to each other, and I fell on both of them....I'm not exactly tiny :D


i'm kidding :P, crushed on more than one guy at a time? Plenty of times, unless i'm dating someone, it's all free game

yep its happened.... i learned not to mess w/ my exes anymore [if u get what i mean]... just to stay one one boy, my boyfriend, love of my life =)

hmm. i thought a bunch of guys were cute at the same time, but i don't think that really counts. lol. i mean, i'm in a relationship and i think other guys are cute, but they can never compare to my love :)