well...im 16 and my guy is gunna be 18 in july.

our whole relationship is a secret from his rents cuz hes mennonite and im not...even tho he wears the whole shady line clothing thinger...and his parents think i am young and vulnerable.

i dont know what to do...they are suspicios now, and he said his dad wont even talk to him anymore.

i dont want to be selfish, but i love him so much and he loves me back, and i jus dont think that it is right for his parents to be doing this if he is almost 18.

they are so strict that he hadnt even held a girls hand or kissed someone...till me.

plz help me...i dont know what to do...

wow this is HARRRD. well have you done anything to gain his parent's respect??? obviously dating their son behind their back, isnt rilli gonna help in that department

Yeah you will to earn their respect and trust.

agreed..you either need to stop dating until his parents approve or flat out tell them..they're not gonna like you any better if they find out some other way that you guys are secretly dating..

yeah that would make the situation between you two WORST if they find out some other way besides u two telling them... prove to them u guys are good for each other or something..

yeah...the thing is ive tried to meet them but they wouldnt let me come over and they dont even want us to be friends

wow .. that's a very hard situation .. nonetheless you should both do what you feel is best for yourselves .. if you care for each other that much then stay together .. it isn't right for the parents to be so strict and be angry for your boyfriend seeking happiness with someone .. sooner or later the parents will have to learn to accept that ..

i've heard of closed minded parents.. but this is beyond being closed minded. you might want to be careful.. since he's gonna be 18.. technically it'll be illegal since your still a minor. but if he's gonna be 18 in july it should be ok.. especially if he moves out on his own. if not.. then idk what to tell ya =/

u need to "earn" their trust an respect..but then agian thats not fair cause. u have to prove yourself to them! ughh i dunno..but if you really love him then ur gonna have to suck up ur pride and kiss a$$ i guess..

dating behind their backs will only make things worse, suck it up, and earn their respect... emphasis on the word EARN

yeah uhm...that could be a problem seeing as they dont even want to meet me.

eventually his parents will get over it juzz stick around pretend to be his best frn

how do you know that you really love this guy?
when you grow older you'll realize how much you LOATHE this guy. He could be full of b.s.. you'll never know.

wtf?? this is the nicest kid i know...if he was full of crap he wouldnt have been going thru all this trouble to see me when hes not supposed to

follow your heart, and pray about it!

er.. if she says she loves him then she must.. and how can he be full of bs when hes going behind his parentals backs to see//be with her..

no offence.. but i know u and your bf like broke up just a lil while ago.. and maybe thats how u feel about him so thats wut u think it will be like for everyone[since tht was your 1st bf right?] iunno.. sorry if im wrong.. its jus wut came to mind

but anyways

i think if you love him and he loves you then.. just stay together.. and if the parentals find out.. well.. iunno.. lol.. but i mean.. hes gonna date eventually so they will have to deal i guess? lol