I know this is gonna sound really weird..and kinda stupid too but how do u make out...I mean everyone makes it sound so easy. And if I ask people they're all like "oh my god u don't know?!" I mean was I supposed to be born knowing how to? LoL..so anyone have any tips..suggestions..anything? =) Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now..and everytime he tries to make out with me..I pull away and make up an excuse. It's getting kinda out of hand...And he's starting to get annoyed.. So yeah someone help..please

I'm not the best person to give advice but i'd say..go with the flow?
yeah..wait for better advice

Nah I think you had it right on with what she needs to know Jocelyn.

I don't think anyone really knows how to, and of course your not supposed to be born knowing I think when I first made out with someone I just really went with the flow of things and you get use to it after a while. I think you have to do this when kissing anyone new though because everyone kisses differently.

Also if your not 100% ready or comfortable doing it, then don't do it because then you won't feel right and you will be tense.

Hope this helps?

Start off with lingering kisses.
Kiss his lips longer and longer.
And then, gently lick his lips or something; that will let him know you want to make-out. After that, let him lead, if he knows how to do it. If not, I'd say you should experiment from there. Making out is basically kissing with tongue; light or heavy. So... you can gently nibble his lips and taste his tongue, I guess.

have you kissed with tongue yet? because it's basically that but in an extended version of it. don't worry... just follow your boyfriend's lead since he initiates the making out in your situation. you'll get used to it. (:

The worst thing to do is be nervous.
Just take things slow.
Don't force your tounge down his throat, or bite him, or anything.
That'll happen if you get all nervous.

touch him while you start kissing

If you not ready dont do it.

It should come naturally if its the right person.
Unless youre a whore.

Just go with the flow and follow their lead. It's not that challenging.

well, for me. it was kinda like go with the flow... = = and yea, cant explain it technically. it's kinda hard to explain it. if ur boyfriend's getting annoyed by it, just tell him the truth of how you feel. hopefully that helped

Wellll, like everyone else said, go with the flow because that's basically what happens when you make out, you can't really plan it out, you just do what's natural and feels rightt. I think you should give it a try and see how you like it first? But you'd have to be relaxed.

I can give you some ideas of what to do when you're making out though if it helps any. >.>
You can gently nibble his lower lip or suck a little bit on his tongue, sucking the lower lip gently also works too. Umm... You can lick a slightly under his bottom lip and umm... yeahh that's all I can think of right now. o___o

Goodluckkk.

Well everyone thanks so much for all your advice. I guess all of you basically said..go with the flow..Thanks again everyone..ur advice really does help =) I think basically I nkow what to do but there is still one thing that kinda confuses me..This is gonna sound weird..but I don't get how our lips are supposed to move together..Does that make any sense?

lol no I undertsand what u mean..when i first told my Bf i hadnt ever really made out before..he began to call it "lessons" lol I made a few mistakes becuase are lips didnt move right. But just as everyone else has said, go with the flow and youll get the jist of it. Any little mistakes you guys make you'll probably just luagh about it later :P Other than that it really isn't too difficult.

gah.
aren`t there posts about
this already? just basically
do what he does. that way
you can`t really go wrong
&do something he doesn`t
"like". you`ll get used to
the feeling and develop
your own way of kissing
someone.



i know most guys like
it when i nibble on their
lips. but only try that
after you get used to
makingout. also, this
guy told me when i just
simply licked his lips, it
felt wayyy good.

well simply all u really do is jus follow the guy if your not quite sure wut your doing...and if you get nervous jus coress him while you two make out and he'll simply forget about if your kissing rite or not LOL ..jus go wit the flow

Hah well thanks for all ur advice guys....ehh I'm still nervous tho...Cuz he's had much more experience than me..so yeah I'm kinda scared he's gonna think I'm a bad kisser =/

Well, no offence, but at first you probably will be a bad kisser. ^^; I know I was haha. I had the same problem as you for a while. Hmm everyone kisses different, you just have to figure out how he likes to kiss & try to copy him. With practice it gets much easier, trust me! hehe. After awhile you won't even have to think about it.

Hmm as for how to actualy do it...haha well, I can try to explain how from my own experiance..

You just kinda tilt your head to the side, open your mouth slightly, lean forward & lock lips. Then you sorta press closer with mouth open, close mouth & pull back only slightly while still pressed together tho, open & press harder again...& so on haha. And if you're going for tongue...kinda flick your tongue around all over in his his mouth & play around a bit. Explore, lick each other's tongues & lips, nibble the bottom lip a little perhaps. ^^;

Hope that helps! idk if it makes sense to anyone else..but yeh haha. Have fun & good luck

Thanks for all the advice guys...and wow u guys were all rite...U just said go with the flow and I did and it's not as hard as I thought it was...LoL..now me and him can't stop doing it...hah...well I hope I'm not too bad of a kisser =/ Any more tips and suggestions..feel free to post them =]

^^ glad it went well

My only advice is always take it slow, and go with the flow.

Glad things worked out for you. I would've said just to be honest with him and let him know that you didn't do it before so he wouldn't think it was him. But glad to know you're gettin' some... tongue

just go with the flow.
you'llknow how when it happens.
or he'll do the work.

just kiss and either you or he can start the next move.
brush your tongue against his lips so he knows you wanna make out and he'll open his mouth
and justttt.. work it haha
go around his tongue in circles with yours or suck on his tnogue or his lip.
i dont konw be creative. do what you want

its fun