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kourtneyroxs
Ok, I have a friend named jordan and he always says he loves me and he wants to marry me, but i don't like him. He is so annoying and self centered it's crazy! What do I do to make him stop? ...Without hurting his feelings. :(
voguelove
you could always opt to stab him in the heart.
WHIMSICAL 0NE
Relationships?

You could be subtle about it. Don't give in to what he says? It might just depend on how close you are and how he is as a person. I have some guy friends that if I was blunt with them they'd get it and it wouldn't bother them all that much and then I have friends who are sensitive. You could always try the blunt approach. haha.
breakingdawn
Tell him to stfu because he's annoying and obnoxious.
salcha4u
Slapping a guy shuts them up.
babbbyycakes
ive done dat before but they alwayz play along rofl
Hey ma '


he must be ugly u no


tininja
Moved to Relationships.

Well, he can be joking, I guess. But if he's not, just.. talk it over with him.
angelrevelation
There isn't really any way you can do it without hurting his feelings in some way, if he's serious of course. Just tell him as nice as possible that you don't like him that way, and make sure there's no mixed messages.
NgocQuyen
lol, sometimes you have to be harsh to be nice? that's what i always say. my friend was just recently the same way. i mean, i tried to be nice about it and just tell him that i really wasn't feeling him that way you know? he didn't really get the picture, so i had to drag my boyfriend into the situation and what not, and i just like cussed him out and told him i didn't like him at all. lol i mean, you don't have to do that. just tell him that you really really don't like him and you'd appreciate it if he would stop nagging you and just be your friend. :]
mouse_3k
tell him to F off..screw his feelings he obviously dont care bout yours
Uronacid
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Mar 21 2007, 7:20 AM) *
tell him to F off..screw his feelings he obviously dont care bout yours


As blunt as this is... I would have to agree...
EddieV
Honestly the best way of telling him IS hurting his feelings, as bad as it feels to do so, sometimes it's the only way...
kourtneyroxs
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Mar 21 2007, 7:20 AM) *
tell him to F off..screw his feelings he obviously dont care bout yours




I wish I could but he is in half of my classes and It would be weird after that.
My Cinderella.
You just need to tell him how you feel. If it makes you uncomfortable, you should confront him about it--whether he's kidding or not.
Uronacid
QUOTE(Slushies_Blow_My_Mind! @ Mar 21 2007, 3:03 PM) *
I wish I could but he is in half of my classes and It would be weird after that.


Look, at first it's usually weird after a break up. When both your feelings subside then you can usually mend your friendship.
Kathleen
Dropping a piano on him usually does the job.
TehJusty
QUOTE(cup noodles @ Mar 20 2007, 3:56 PM) *
you could always opt to stab him in the heart.

No no, I think she's on to something here. Try that, then report back to us.
alysaphobia
if he isn't getting the hints, you should really be direct and tell him your feelings; whether it's going to hurt his feelings or not. i mean, sure, you'd prefer to be nice and subtle about it but it's been a while, right?

be direct and quick.
Candi x Heart
just tell him the truth, i think hell be thankful you did instead of being dishonest about your feelings and eventually hurting him
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