sex..is a beautiful thing..it's supposed to feel great and stuff..
but is it rite? even before marriage?
i'm not gonna lie. it has crossed my mind..
but how am i going to continue being pure until i'm married?
is it ok?...is it worth it?

personally i think it depends on the person. im all for not having premarital sex but hey thats just me. maybe in a couple years ill feel different. but its really up to you. everyone person is gonna look at it differently.

I dunno... I'm to young to think abt that anyway

What's so unpure about sex?

I mean, casual humpidy-hump sex every day with multiple partners may be unpure; but there's nothing wrong with some good ol' loving.

Just be extra careful and know your partner well, it's not worth getting diseased/pregnant over.

...and in my opinion, marrying somone you've never had sex with is kinda creepy.

hmm... heh before marriage? hmm.. well i never experienced of the word "sex" but... if u love him and u think is right to have sex, then go for it.... but u prolly gona regret wen u marry someone in the next 5 to 10 years... cus that`z wat happened to my friend...she was mad and say stuff like "omg why did i ever had sex with that creep" so yeah think again before u go for it.
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i dont know if this is wat ur asking for, but yeah...heh

I don't think it's worth having sex before you're married. you put yourself in the risk of getting STDs and getting pregnant. I'm waiting. lol.

i used to be all "ill never have sex til im married" n all that.. but that was back when i was like 12.. im 15 now n still a virgin.. but i kno i wont make it til im married. i say if you care about the person, trust the person, and be careful and smart about it.. then its ok.

but for all these lil 13 year old girls.. around here goin out makin out w. random guys n havin sex n all that... thats jes not right...

Yeah, cause the risk of you getting STDs shots to 0 once you're married. And if you're married, your guy friend will most likely think it's a good time to tell you he's diseased.

And all married people are ready for babies.

*sarcasm sarcasm sarcasm*

As long as someone isnt trying to have a baby when they're not married, i'm alright with it all. But if a couple actually wants a baby and tries for one, those f00ls better be teh marriedz0rz.

i odn't think waiting till marrage is right actually. if its the right time, if the time comes i think you'll know it and it will be right whether you are 15 or 50

i dunno i think its better after marriage.. cuz thats when u know if u get pregnant u can support the baby and raise a family

whatever you want... your still young right? i say it is a great thing... it pulls the relationship closer too? as long as u think u've found the right one..

it depends on YOU! there is no right age to start having sex...when you feel ready and comfortable and have the RIGHT person to lose it too, all the power to you...if you decide not to wait until marriage USE PROTECTION! that way you can stay as pure as you want to for marriage lol...

yehh it depends on that person... but i choose to wait till marriage.. cuz to me.. its gonna be more special..

i'm waiting :]

Its all up to you... I personally think its worth it... I know im saving myself for marriage.... Im even staying away from oral sex because i want to be that pure... I was always told to think of my verginity as my gift to my future wife... Other then love, what gift represents more to a girl than you as a whole??? I cant think of anything better to give my future wife because she'll have me and she'll have me like no one else did... Thats just how i look at things...

you're human. you never had purity.

I guess it's better after marriage, cus then you really know you love that person and won't regret it.

well i am wating till im married (my ass!) im not even going to marry. so i'll stay virgin for liike... LIFE.

well, i guess everyone has their own opinions, but perosnally, i think it's better to have sex after ur married cause its like... intimate... and yea... i ono!! anyways
talking about lil 13 year olds macking with like random guys all the time. ew. i mean, theres little 12 year olds going around and macking/having some "fun" with old seniors in my city. worst part? they're hoes at such a young age. and also, they go to my damn school. good thing im out of middle shcool now!! im going to make their lives living hell when they get to highschool, i swear. jkjk

it's a wonderful thing when shared with someone that is special .. it would be nice to wait til marriage so you're still pure .. but if you feel the time is right and you're comfortable then there's no reason why you can't .. but just be very careful .. don't rush it .. it's something that comes naturally .. you should make sure you know that person very well in all different levels so things won't be different afterwards .. at least in a bad way .. you don't want to have that experience with someone who'll drop you the next day and you'll regret it .. you want it to be nice and memorable .. with someone you love and care about dearly ..

wow...good point..hahaa

u think that "making out" and "sex" is the same thing? hmm...

i had pre-marital sex...i have to say i kinda do regret it....i mean when you have sex it is just like giving your bf/gf a cookie...and that cookie represents your virginity! and when you have sex after marrige it is like giving them a whole jar of cookies (or so i have heard) because sex is the number one sign of love and if you have sex after marrige it shows you wanted to wait so you could give your love 100% to your spouse...and i think that is a LITTLE more romantic...but it is up to the person

you shouldnt have sex until you are ready to take care of a child....whenever that may be....

i know a lot of teenagers who wants to have sex before marriage cus they know that even tho they marry... sometimes marriage doesnt last forever...so they think they can do watever they want, so they sex...thats wat most teenagers think today.. about 54% of my friends are like that... like me, i want to have sex wen i get married cus thats wen i know hes the one to stay with me forever.

I'm waiting. Sex is a gift, so why would you want to throw that away?

it will be worth it. if not dotn do it just for no good reason

ummz..not really..it's two totally different things..why you ask?

just think about it. you're only a virgin once, so save it for someone special. My friend once said: we're all pieces of paper. when you have sex with someone, he keeps a little piece of you, and you keep a little piece of him...but if you continue this process repeatedly, by the time you get married, you will no longer have anything to give to your spouse because you have already given it all away.

if u have enough trust, love for dat person u donn hafta be married to do it..juzz be careful

good point..trust..i guess i'll never get married..i gon't trust any guys..hahahaha..=D

I dunno i wanna hav sex before i'm married cus i just do i dunno but not once before marriage like at least 3 times

its worth it girl... when you think you fall in love at an early age..
and you lose it to that person.. later on when yall are over each other..
you'll regret it..

... it really does depends who you doing it with..
....a lover

ditto that. hey if he makes u feel RIGHT in your world and you are currently in total love and bliss, go for it.

Virginity is a gift, not sex. ... or maybe both =PPP But yeah, you're right.

if youre engaged i guess its okay... but if you've been with the guy more than a year or 2 i guess its okay... just as long as you know you wont regret it later on no matter what happens...

i like this topic.. because i can sort of relate. i hate this huge reputation i have here where i live.. of being very experienced, if you know what i mean.... and ive never even kissed a guy... even though im not like some people who wait till after marriage, im 13 and id do it now, if it were one guy in perticular. but i still feel like this image i have of being some.. slut.. its not "pure" so like it is a pretty good thing (for SOME people) to wait after your married... because now everyone wants to do it with me and i feel really uncomfertable....

so dont get in bed till after your wed!

well as long as u dont do it just to do it. and if you ever do it before u get married then oh well......at some point in time you wanted to and it was special to you. as long as you have protection and think ur mature enough too...

yea?? haha..good point..if he turns me on..then go for it rite?

do u really love that person? i mean dont just have sex and then have this huge guilt rght after it.... in other words dont let ur hormones take control.... a lot of ppl feel guilty after so its ur choice....

i dont belive in the marrage crap/ have sex when the time is right. you'll know it

i think u should wait till ur married cuz u mite end up regreting it if u dont

morally it isnt right before marriage. but its something you shouldnt do, noone who is a teen can be mentally prepared for it. and when you think youi love someone and you do it, it can really hurt, just my opinion

Same here. I mean, I dont see anything wrong with having sex before you're married as long as it's safe and with someone you really care about. If YOU think it's right you should go for it.

70% of all 18 year olds in america are sexually active. and many of them don't regret not waiting till they're married. i guess it's always nice to get a little experience down. but two crucial things are 1) do you love him? does he treat you with respect at all times? is he the type to not lessen your value after sex? 2) protect yourself. contraceptives are key.

so sex could be a gift saved for marriage. but for many people, marriage may be too early to think about. so if you meet someone who has an incredible impact on your life but for turns of events and time, you may not end up spending your life with him, when you still have him, go for it.

IDK bout sex. Im really afraid 2 get into a relationship wit a guy in h.s-all they think and breathe about is sex. Wut do ya do if they ask u nd ur not juss ready nd they dnt accept it??

I'm Straight Edge....

No Sex till marriage
No Drugs
No Alcohol

I made a promise to God about those and I intend to hold it up.

matt

wow..i envy you..and your goals in life..

my dad may be a pastor..yet i'm still a person..

wat can i say?

heh sex is cool lol but if ur too young then

how is that creepy?!?!?! cuz i think i thinkn yu should have sex with sumwun after yu married them i mean atleast a month or so