basically the title says it all,

if u have a guy friend and u kno for a fact that he likes u or has feelings 4 u but u dont feel the same way bout him, do u act different around him?

nopes hes my friend no reason to act different around him. even if he does like me.

yeah i totally act different around him... i dont act like a human being lols im jk hehe newais i feel like i shud not be with him for awhile... like get away from him like ignore him...heh cus i feel uncomfortable i mean he was my best friend and now he likes me...it's so scary haha
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i would act natural...it would kinda through me off base...but they aren't that much different then be4....anyways..I actually like all my guy friends...they don't know it!! hehe

not really. I just act the same. I have a bf already...

Nope. I'd be the same.
My guy bestfriend for fours years said to me recently "You know, I wouldn't be shocked if I fell in love with you. better not pretty yourself too much. Coz I might just right now." << his exact words.
I just gave him a mean stare and said "try that and I'll make you hate me."
he just laughed and ever since then I've been acting quite the same way towards him. and vice versa. I don't think you need to act differently. That'd be acting like as if you haven't been friends since before.

Omg! That is so weird....I am in that position right now. It was really strange at first, actually, I still think it is, to know that he likes me. I guess I was more of shocked, cause I never thought of it that way. He's a nice, sweet, and absolutely adorable guy, and I think that me wanting a boyfriend clouded my actual feelings for him...which was that Alan was just a friend. Apparently, he's liked me for a long time, and has been wanting to ask me out. When he finally did, the night that he also told me he liked me, I said no...Not to be mean or anything, I just *sighs* let's just say it's a long story?

yeah that happened to me...cept now we arent even friends anymore cuz he jus kept asking me out. and he would call like 15 times in a row cuz i didnt pick up. it was starting to become stalker status

That happened to me...it was odd. But I tried to ignore it.

ill try to act the same lol i dont wanna act different but i think i do sometimes

I act different even if I try not too. It kinda sux cuz things start happening and the friendship isn't the same anymore. It happened to me anyways.....*sigh*

It depends. If he constantly reminds me in ANY way but PURPOSELY...I'm going to act mean (50/50 unintentionally) and cold towards him. If he keeps it but I know he likes me...I'm going to act the same so there's no need to break the ice later on. It'd be for the best, I guess.

it depends if i like him or not.. i've been in this situation before but i liked the guy too.. hahaha we didn't really go out.. not that he had the nerve to ask.

Yes, I kind of watch myself, making sure that nothing I say or do is misunderstood by him.
And it's somewhat awkward to know that I don't return feelings he has for me.

He's not stalking me about it or anything...and he's a good friend of mine. All my friends say that I'm going to regret this, maybe I am already? I don't know, and the thing is...he's going to high school next year, and I'm still stuck in 8th. So that's another reason why I said no when he asked me out

eerr i dont think i would... ill juss act the same... maybe ill flirt a little.. but pretty much it

no thats happen many times i just act the same...

I'm in that exact position, and I do act a little different, but I try not to.

well i dunno.....i think i wouldn't act different around him...

i do only if i liek them back.

yeaa.. i guess i can say that i'm kind of in that situation right now. but it's even more awkward because i have a boyfriend, and my boyfriend knows him. i try not to act different because they're usually close friends of mine. and they usually just get over it after awhile.

i kno im a guy but yea..

i liked dis girl ive known since 1st grade.. i told her.. well accidentaly kuz i wuz talkin 2 her brother about it and she overheard.. and yea..

she would never ever say a word to me unless.. 1:school 2:rides after skool 3:a few tiny stuff... and yea she started acting diff around me.. well .. totaly diff.. even though i dont show i like her.. so yea.. we dun realy know each other anymore.. its like.. da friendship has been broken.. kuz of 3 little words like.. i like you...

nah i dont act differently all i just do is just know about it

why brandon?? are you liking a guy who doesnt like you back?? haha jk jk..but yeah no..i act the same as i always did..but actually..me personally..i might flirt a bit..cos im weird like that..but heyy..i was nominated biggest flirt in my school soooooo..that explains it all...

Kind of.. because then it'd be awkward you know?

Because you don't look at him that way..

I TRYY not to act different, and just mess around like always ..

naw. i wouldn't act on it unless he makes a move or something. otherwise, this shouldnt really change much.

i tried to ignore it because it got really annoying...

i think i act the same.. but somehow i think i act differently as in make him love me more... is it because we love the attention and feel flattered?!

thats happened to me before..after my friend told me he liked me, i started noticing that he kept staring at me and i felt awkward after that.
but for me, i guess how i act, is all about how i feel about him..

that happened to me before..there was all this drama. he wasnt talking to me and he was a really really close friend of mines. i would always go somewhere else to try to get away from him..cuz i felt really awkward around him. but we settled things out..but we arent as close as before

i try not to, its not worth loosin a frinship over

I was going to post something about this. But I guess you beat me to it. LoLs. Yeah, I'm kind of in this type of situation. My friend who I've known for about two years and a half, well, everyone is telling me that he likes me, and has for a long while now. It's like everyone knew before I did. I'm not even supposed to know. So whenever I'm around him, I have to act like my usual self, and I'm getting the hint that he's going to ask me out soon, but I don't feel the same way. So to your question, I act the same around him. But for my own question, how do I turn him down without hurting his feelings?

To be honest..id probably act different..probably try not to act silly around him and act more mature..and last of all..id try to not to make it obvious that i kno he likes me..

it would be reaaaally awkward....cuz then i would think about it and stuff around him u know? and then i'd just try and pretend i had no idea...

That happened to me. I still remained his friend and treated him as a friend.

^ lol, exactly what i did. unless he makes a move or something, i'll go along with it and see if i could find some interest in him, and if i do, then sure, but if i don't then heh, obviously it's not meant to be.

yeah i would ignore them fer awhile too cuz itz soo strange to me

kinda...cuz then it'll be really weird

hmms dat hapened b4, nah i dunt really act different.. i dink.. no i dink i do. lols

yeah i'd act different.

i'd look at him weirdly and try to imagine what he thinks about when he looks at me...

*shiver* it's kinda creepy.

that happened to me, except i liked him... so i guess if i didn't i'd feel weird and go find some girl friends to hang out with.

i try not to act differently.. but yeah, i would..

I try acting like me but it dosent really work that way :X I usually try to act cool but it totally blows over. I end up acting really different for some reason

i might becvause of awkwardness- i might not even know im doin it, i just might act different- sometimes its good not to know someone likes you

well, i'd try not to act differently... there's a guy friend i have who i think has feelings for me, but i don't think he's said anything to anyone. it's just the way that acts that gives me that idea. like he'll poke me (never does that to anyone else), he's nicer to me, always very very willing to help me with math, would always tell me i'm good at something or encourage me that i'd do better than him one something we both knew that i really wasn't... and yeah... it was odd, but i tried ot act like i had no idea. i don't think any one else has noticed his actions.. so no one's gonna provoke him to do anything, so i'm not worrying about it..

i don't. if i did he might think i like him back or he might think i hate him.

Well, there was this guy that liked me. I didn't know him, but we became friends. I still felt weird around him.

I tried not to act different. Sometimes it worked and other times it was like hard cuz you knew he liked you and stuff. He always used to flirt and then then he told me he like me so i was like ok. ya know it sort of made us both uneasy and tense around each other. you know what though, I gradually started to like him too. So we're really good friends, but i think a relationship would probably break down our friendship. It's hard.

i don't know. i've never had that experiance. at least not that i know of.

That's happened to me before. i just acted normally. In a lot of the cases though, they'd tell me AFTER they stopped liking me...but i would jsut act normally. It'd be a bit awkward though...Didn't the guy like you anyway for what you were normally? or maybe for looks..