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fagget
What in the world can be wrong with that?
If everybody was doing bukkake by college, is it wrong if you chose not to?
Steven
QUOTE(BLAZINASIAN @ Nov 1 2007, 10:14 PM) *
What in the world can be wrong with that?
If everybody was doing bukkake by college, is it wrong if you chose not to?

Depends if you're asian or not.
fagget
Touche.
littleswallow
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. Why would there be?
Castaway
i'm waiting for the right girl, hopefully the girl i end up losing mines to did the same =]

ooberSANDRA
i think that age shouldn't have anything to do with virginity.
everyone's different, and i think everyone should lose their virginity when THEY are ready, not by a certain age. because it's not about the sex, it's about the love between the two people. (: , at least that's what i think. so it's definitly NOT wrong to be a virgin in high school, though most people i know, try not to be. which is stupid.
xFaith
Definately not wrong.

Actually, it's a plus for me =)
sourire
Aw. You're quite the impressionable one aren't you?
It depends on what you think ulitmately.
RCKstarh
i dont think its wrong if u wanna save it for marriage. and i hate it when ppl say omg! ur a virgin??!! when ur like 20 something...some ppl actually wanna wait
SLACK3R
No not at all. I'm a freshman and I find it completely dumb that half of the freshmen aren't virgins. I'm waiting for marriage. (:
itsnever4ever
no, you should never be pressured into "doing it"
your time will come, and you will know when you are ready.
and most people i know are virgins
barbieeedollxo
no its not.
EmoEyelinerx
No, its not a bad thing but its also not very common for a guy to be a virgin in high school. I dont think anythings wrong with it but.. its just.. different..
Insurmountable
I don't think theres is anything wrong in being a virgin and in high school. Although I remember being a virgin and getting picked on a lot about it and it was really stupid to deal with after a while but you just get use to it and figure pretty much their just jealous because I still have my virginity and their stuck remembering the ugly person they lost it too.
Uronacid
I was a virgin in high school. I had plenty of chances to get sexed up, but I just never took them. Here's what I think. I just didn't like any of those girls enough.
  • You're a looser if you're trying to get laid, but you can't.
  • You're a looser if you just got laid because you were desperate to do it.
  • You're a winner if you're holding out.
  • You're a winner if you had sex with someone because you loved them.
iinstantGLAM
Nothing's wrong with that. In my school lots of kids feel pressured to open their presents too early.
They are trying to impress people they don't like. How foolish!
I'm the old-fashioned type of girl, I won't lose my virginity until marriage. I feel that it's worth the wait.
RyanWasHere
It can go one of two ways, if you lose your virginity early on, you either become extremely jaded and think sex is nothing and is as easy and non-emotional as pouring a glass of water, or your going to have sex with someone you "think" you love, and when they dump you and start having sex with someone else you think it's the end of the world. As weird as it may sound, scenario number two is the better, you'll grow tremendously from it. I thought I was in love and when we decided to take a break and we saw other people, I thought it was just a break, so no I wasn't having sex with this new girl, but then I find out she's having sex with this new guy, it crushed me...but I realized something, it only made me emotionally strong, and looking back on it I realized she was just a f**king slut all along.

Sure not losing your virginity in high school will lead to the occasional "weird sex talk", where every guy boasts about how many girls they've had sex with, and your the odd virgin out, but think about it, just because your a virgin, it doesn't make you any less of a man or a woman, I've slept with many girls while going through my "player" phase, I regret every single one it doesn't feel good to be with someone just to "get it over with", and not be a virgin anymore, so wait, find someone you love, or think you might love, share that with them, and grow from it & this isn't coming from some parent or someone with some vast knowledge of the universe, I'm only 16..well almost 17, & I'm on the same field as you, I just happen to be on the other side, and looking back, I wish I was still over there with you.

In the end, it's all up to you, but one way or another it will happen and if things don't happen perfectly, don't beat yourself up over it, it happens to us all...it's part of growing up, and growing up emotionally.

** And I know this is my first post in literally months, and yes, I'm back thumbsup.gif **
StandardEdition
QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Mar 12 2007, 09:10 PM) *
I think you're doomed. I lost my virginity when I was seven.

Sorry. :\


oh plz that is such an effin lie.
I dont think you're doomed just becuz you dont get sum in HS.
its actually the more mature thing to do and the smarter thing to do.
livwho
No. There is no right and wrong. Don't feel pressured to have sex because everyone else is. It's your virtue, therefore your decision.
omgomgKATHY
I remember krnprydeee..
*laughs*
good timees.

and there's absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin in highschool.
ANG33ZY
It's not wrong at all..
doiink
only for you it is. YOU FAIL
CowerPointyObjects
I'm a virgin in college. Whatever. I'm not waiting until marriage or anything, but I see no reason to go out and f**k a random guy just to get it over with, either.
vehvih
Advice to virgins out here:

GET EDUCATED ABOUT SEX (not how you do it dummy, but how you do it right and healthy <3) INSTEAD OF WANDERING AROUND WHETHER ITS WRONG OR RIGHT TO BE A VIRGIN.

^^^^And because of that, ever wonder why people tell you, you need to get laid?
icecreamisyummy
youll have more kids in you wait until marriage...so if you dont want a lot of kids say screw aroudn in high school
























ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha





i had sex once in high school and man did it feel good not having to worry about STD's or whether or not i was pregnant. believe me you dont wannna go thorugh that, so if yo think you wont be able to deal with it...dont.






although you are missing out on some AMAZING SEX!!



:-D
EddieV
Not wrong but may be shunned upon by some people.
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