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What are the most common mistake(s) made in a relationship, often resulting in a break-up?
QUOTE(krnxswat @ 02-5-2004, 06:23 PM)
What are the most common mistake(s) made in a relationship, often resulting in a break-up?
miscommunication. in my case, the lack of communication. oh yea...her parents have to like you too. lol.
QUOTE(mer @ 02-5-2004, 06:50 PM)
miscommunication. in my case, the lack of communication. oh yea...her parents have to like you too. lol.
Oh snap. That's the first thing I thought of. But wanted to see what you guys thought.
Mer, I think we're meant to be.
or if you flirt with another person then would probably be a cause
Jealously.
Assumptions.
Assumptions.
i would say 'forgetting an important event' .. but to be realistic.. you'd have to be really absent minded to forget a birthday or big annivarsary...
so i will say that a common mistake is not voicing your concerns... like keeping things that bother you bottled up til one day it just bursts and you give up on the relationship
so i will say that a common mistake is not voicing your concerns... like keeping things that bother you bottled up til one day it just bursts and you give up on the relationship
not trutsing one another
disloyalty
miscommunication
some times different personalitties juss dont go together...
disloyalty
miscommunication
some times different personalitties juss dont go together...
QUOTE(krnxswat @ 02-5-2004, 06:51 PM)
Oh snap. That's the first thing I thought of. But wanted to see what you guys thought.
Mer, I think we're meant to be.
Mer, I think we're meant to be.
haha. we are bros in mistakes. if that makes sense. actually, it wasnt even my mistake.
cheating...............
QUOTE(krnxswat @ 02-5-2004, 06:23 PM)
What are the most common mistake(s) made in a relationship, often resulting in a break-up?
Criminy, everyone's said most of the ones I'd think of.
The only ..uh..uncommon ones I could think of were:
Lack of intimacy (not necessarily sexual) and not knowing the person terribly well before you started a relationship with them.
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miscommunication. in my case, the lack of communication.
i think she is right because most of the time, when you get in fights, it`s because of assumptions, lack of communication and misunderstandings...
iph two people can communicate, understand each other, buh still get into fights, i think there is a problem
QUOTE(mer @ Feb 5 2004, 6:50 PM)
miscommunication. in my case, the lack of communication. oh yea...her parents have to like you too. lol.
thats true
QUOTE(angelxsmile @ Feb 8 2004, 11:39 AM)
"i think she is right" because most of the time, when you get in fights, it`s because of assumptions, lack of communication and misunderstandings...
iph two people can communicate, understand each other, buh still get into fights, i think there is a problem
iph two people can communicate, understand each other, buh still get into fights, i think there is a problem
im a guy! lol. genders are mistaken a lot here in these forums.
jealousy, lies, and assumptions. which are all due to lack of communication, no?
jealousy, cheating, misunderstanding/miscommunication, lose of interest...
...holding the relationship with closed hands (metaphor)
meaning... holding too tight unto the realtionship as tho it means everything to u. it may seem that this is good because it means that you love ur partner more, but it will only cause to jelousness wen he.she talks to someone else, or obsession. obession= not good in a way because you will lose interest faster and if something bad happenes, you will fall hard and sometimes get hurt really badly...
also, you could possibly annoy ur partner if your too overprotective. not a good sign... keeping the relationship loose and fun in the begining will always be the best. ^_^ or at least for me
meaning... holding too tight unto the realtionship as tho it means everything to u. it may seem that this is good because it means that you love ur partner more, but it will only cause to jelousness wen he.she talks to someone else, or obsession. obession= not good in a way because you will lose interest faster and if something bad happenes, you will fall hard and sometimes get hurt really badly...
also, you could possibly annoy ur partner if your too overprotective. not a good sign... keeping the relationship loose and fun in the begining will always be the best. ^_^ or at least for me
Have room for rationality and understanding.
Assumptions. It only makes an ASS out of U and ME. hahHaAhAha
Oh but it's quite true
Assumptions. It only makes an ASS out of U and ME. hahHaAhAha
Oh but it's quite true
--lack of communication
--not being honest
--not being honest
not having trust.. expecting too much.. stupidity!!
most common reasons:
jealousy
lack of trust, resulting in the jealousy to take control
miscommunication
differences in how people go about things, like arguing, one person might be loud wheree the other one gets very emotional with loudness etc then it just dont work out
too much time together
or not spending enough time together etc
oh yeah, and selfishness and not listening, lol
jealousy
lack of trust, resulting in the jealousy to take control
miscommunication
differences in how people go about things, like arguing, one person might be loud wheree the other one gets very emotional with loudness etc then it just dont work out
too much time together
or not spending enough time together etc
oh yeah, and selfishness and not listening, lol
maswushot, you just summed it all up!! 
not much more to say except,
thinking about yourself too much. thingking that your tears mean more than that someoone else's... thinking that your the only one hurting inside. thass one biggie as well...
not much more to say except,thinking about yourself too much. thingking that your tears mean more than that someoone else's... thinking that your the only one hurting inside. thass one biggie as well...
Lying..cheating. Cheating is the big thing. or maybe someone moving. or falling out of love..or assumption......
the biggest mistake is taking each other for granted, i think.
Breaking up over stupid reasons like mistrust or miscommunication [etc. etc. etc.]. Or maybe, just lack of commitment.
QUOTE(bdbuie @ Feb 20 2004, 6:29 AM)
the biggest mistake is taking each other for granted, i think.
I like that.
And realizing how much s/he meant to you, after the break up.
Flirting with the person't best friend, Abusing the person, Not taking the realtionship seriously...
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Feb 5 2004, 6:23 PM)
What are the most common mistake(s) made in a relationship, often resulting in a break-up?
cheating, lying, arguing ab0ut petty things rather than taking the time t0 talk it 0ver and w0rk things 0ut t0gether, n0t putting in equal eff0rt.. the list c0uld g0 0n .. everyb0dy is different and has their 0wn variety 0f typical mistakes based 0n their lifestyles..
1. a weak foundation in the relationship.. ie, "love at first sight"
2. miscommunication
3. lack of trust
4. cheating (basically...)
2. miscommunication
3. lack of trust
4. cheating (basically...)
not being honest
going too fast or too slow.
thats a problem.
thats a problem.
I would say too much jealousy... A little jealousy is good, i think. And the one thing I CAN'T stand are lies 
If that guy is stupid . . then I think if you embarrass yourself in front of him he won't love you anymore . . . happened to a friend of mine .. .
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