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lonely-nl
guys will hate me for this!!!
but i really need an advice!

there's this guy! i broke his heart last year! "i didnt mean it" i swear!!!!!!!!
okey... but i really love him! i have been seeing many guys and he him self sees lots
of girls too! but i just cant forget him!
we study in the same school so we see each other everyday!
what is the best way to get a guy back???
i need a guy's advice!,
Monochrome.
This should be in relationships...

I dont think you can truely get back a guy unless you talk to him and see how he feels.
soulgetpast
invite him over its the best choice

or tell him that you still have feelings for him
Ington
How did you break his heart?

I detest when people come to cB with these stupid problems. You're the only one who knows him, anyway, you figure out what he'd like.
YaGurlSukedMe2SLeep
suck his dick
marshYELLOW
QUOTE(thomasodell @ Mar 8 2007, 1:15 PM) *
invite him over its the best choice

or tell him that you still have feelings for him


well how is the girl supposed to tell the guy she still has feelings for him?? lol like just tell hims straight out?? or leave some hints??maybe flirt a little??
My Cinderella.
I feel this is more appropriate where both genders can respond.

Moved to relationships.
SimplicityGirl
You really can't unless he feels the same way about it.

You need to talk to him about it.
moorepocket
he might takes you back, if he forgives you for breaking his heart.
Uronacid
What did you do?
lonely-nl
okey here's the story!

this is a guy my best friend had a cruch on him! she was so f**king crazy about him, but he didnt like her, a friend gave his number to my best friend without letting him know anything! my best friend started calling him and hanging up... he felt like it was her and that's why he hated her more and more! she waned to get her self out so she gave me her line to talk to him "as any other girl"! to tell you the truth at first i didnt know who was the guy!... so i talked to him as another girl but the problem is that i really loved him and what made me think that i really had to tell him the truth is that he had the same feelings! i told him the whole story, he got up set cuz he thought i was playing with him heart! but i wasnt!...
now my best friend talks to him "as friends!!!"


what made me think of him more lately is that i feel like he still has those feelings...
and everytime he sees me with another guy the next day he makes a fight from nothing just to smack that guy! it happened four times untill now! + a month ago he started calling me as another guy "the same way i used to call him"... i know it's him but i didnt face him yet!...

so... it's complicated!!!!
c4rL4
Well, i was in this situation. .
Maybe you should ask him what he wants before it's too late.
Waiting too long might just ruin things between you guys.
Most of us just wants that another chance to see what could've been and see if it would've worked out. Talk to him more, ask him what he wants. . Yenno ?
But be patient with him, if he needs time to think things through, give it to him.
Don't rush it, and don't fall for another guy too. . When someone comes around & tries to get with you, Girls are suckers for sweet talkers right ?
I'm just saying that don't let another chance pass you by.

One more thing, he might be scared to get hurt again. It may take some time to regain his trust back. Take things slow with him though . .Like, talking to him more & more. . Start new maybe ? Like how you guys met. . Or be friends & let it grow.

And if your so called "bestfriend" liked him, that's just retarded.
Mhm, you should rethink your friendship. Is she really your "bestfriend" ? pinch.gif

My best advice is to talk to him straight up. (:
Ask.

Good luck on that.
lonely-nl
thanks for the advice!
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