I want to understand girls better. I'm a bit clueless.

Girls like to be confusing and complicated.
Girls hate boys that smell bad.
Girls like boys that have nice eyes and a nice personality. Usually.
Girls hate boys that are ignorant assholes! I think.
Girls like boys that attempt to understand girls.
Girls hate boys that don't understand a thing.
Girls like to blame all their mood swings on PMS.
Girls hate being called moody, even if they are!
Girls like to fight over stupid things.
Girls hate to apologize for stupid things.

Overall, being a girl is f**king awesome! And to get to know one, just find a female friend.

Girls hate when you send a messenger to tell her things.
Girls love funny guys.

Girls Don't Like Boys
Girls Like Cars And Money
Boys Will Laugh At Girls When They're Not Funny

I have female friends but I'm the kind of person that gets detached easily even if I dont want to.



Isnt this from Good Charlotte?

Girls like to feel special. (for me at least)

they don't like to be played or used.
they like compliments but over doing it can get annoying.
they don't like to be ignored or forgotten.
they like to feel special.

ah. i can't think anymore.

- they hate guys who's 2nd most used phrase is "OMG JESSICA ALBA'S ASS!". not all of us have a personal trainer, nutrition expert, massages, massive wardrobe and a make-up artist...
- they hate guys who can only talk about "____ IS SO HOT!!!" every day. because quite frankly, the guy comes off as really superficial.

- they hate guys who are overly confident of themselves. 'sorry, you aren't as macho and god-like as you think.... '

- they like guys who are funny.

- they like guys that they'll have fun with, not just stand there having nothing to talk about.

- they like guys who have at least a little bit of maturity.

Educated With Money
He's well dressed; Not funny

And Not Much to say in most conversation
But He'll foot The Bill in all situations
'Cause He Pays For Everything


Girls Don't Like Boys.
Girls Like Cars And Money
Boys Will Laugh At Girls When They're Not Funny


Paper or Plastic.
Don't Matter She'll have it

Vacations and shopping sprees
These are a few of her favorite things
She'll Get What She wants if She is Willing To Please.
His Type of Girl Always Comes With A Fee
Hey Now There's Nothing For Free


Girls Don't Like Boys,
Girls Like Cars And Money
Boys Will Laugh At Girls When They're Not Funny

And These Girls Like These Boys, Like These Boys Like These Girls
The Girls With the Bodies Like Boys With Ferraris

Girls Don't Like Boys,
Girls Like Cars And Money

Lets Go...

(music)...


Girls Don't Like Boys,
Girls Like Cars And Money
Boys Will Laugh At Girls When Theyre Not Funny

And These Girls Like These Boys, Like These Boys Like These Girls
The Girls With the Bodies Like Boys With Ferraris
Girls Don't Like Boys,
Girls Like Cars And Money

(music).......

All of these boys (yeah) and all of the girls are
Losing Their Souls In a Material World...

(SLOWLY FADES)...All of these boys (yeah) and all of the girls are
Losing Their Souls In a Material World...

All of these boys (yeah) and all of the girls are
Losing Their Souls In a Material World...

All of these boys (yeah) and all of the girls are
Losing Their Souls In a Material World...

good charlotte - boys and girls

We Like:
Candy : Chocolate...
Feeling special : only if its from the heart
To talk about everything : at any time
To feel protected : safe
Shopping : without being rushed
To eat : without you (guys) telling us how to eat
Watching dramas : romantic...action...you name it
Singing : and you (a guy) actually listening
Listening to music : diff. girl diff. taste, find out what your girl likes
Being treated like the one and only : we SHOULD be your one and only
Being treated with respect : you give, you get
Honesty : once you lose our trust, its hard to gain it back
Equal-ness : none of that, "im the man" thing
FLOWERS : all kinds, sometimes it depends on the girl
Being remembered : even at 5 in the morn, if you miss us (your girl) let us (your girl) know


We Hate:
Bugs : get them away!!
Being told what to do : we're not stupid
Lies : as you (guys) would hate us lying, so don't do it
Being left out : picking your 'boys' over us (your girl) when we (your girl) need you most
Acts of manliness (macho) : yeah, okay we know your strong, don't get too conceited
Being ignored : ALWAYS always listen
Mean guys : one's who tease and laugh (not impressive)
Hiding things from us : tell us, we'll understand
Guys who think they can get whoever they want : please, calm down. lets be serious.


THIS is almost everything...just some that I can think of.

Asking a bunch of girls what they like and don't like, just keep in mind its not going to go with every girl. For instance the girl above me said that girls like chocolate, and well I hate chocolate.

Every girl is different, and if you want to know girls better, especially just one. I think you should just talk to her. I think a lot of girls like it when their guy makes them feel safe and gives them attention. Makes them feel as if their the only one out there that they want to be with it at times. etcetera etcetera

o0o0ops, i forgot to put that not every girl has these likes and hates(: sorri

girls like:
having as much fun as we can [doesnt matter with who]
cute simple things eg, lollipops, teddies and colored pens :)
men to be in charge no matter how much we try to dominate
to be open
as much attention as possible
being a bitch and getting our way :)
the bad-ass guy with the sweetest heart ^___^

girls hate:
being ignored
partypoopers
guys who change
period
the fact that we're less stronger then guys
bragging people [although we might do it too]
sluts
guys who try and brake our spirits
a self involved guy [hairgel and skin oil.. ew]

Girls like being told they're beautiful.
Girls like to feel as if they're the last person on the planet.
Girls like to feel wanted and special.
Girls like when guys approach them first (for me anyway).

Girls hate corny pick-up lines.
Girls hate players.
Girls hate bad B.O.

girls like feeling needed & useful
girls like guys who are thoughtful
girls like when guys remember their birthdays. ha.
girls like being manipulative
girls like power - but dont want to feel like they can walk all over you (where's the chase?)
girls like it when guys try new things with them
girls like it when guys go along with what they want to do even if they secretly dont want to


not all girls like shopping - pink - makeup - chick flicks - stereotypical things
(so please try not to assume we do)



didnt you already know this?

Girls hate big egos.

Thats pretty much the main thing.

Not all girls want sex.
Be a gentlemen.
Dont be mean to a girl if you like her, thats just plain stupid

I figured out that I'll just figure out what most of the girls likes and hates, like most girls like funny guys, etc.

Here's my traits, can you pls tell me which to improve and to keep? im sorry for not being a man, i have a bigger ego in me.

-helps anyone who is in dire need, tries my best to help him/her with all I can
-Im not a natural speaker
-i want to be funny but too afraid to be a jerk, the say im funny, but i think its at certain times
-its either im shy or ignorant, but mostly shy,
-i dont brag, i repress myself, feelings, actions
-half of the time I think girls like guys who has loads of cash, impressive guys, wears expensive shirts, talkers/jerks, cute/hot perfect guys
-I always keep on understanding people
-mostly listens to Hip-Hop, Rock, Techno

^Just be yourself. You sound like a good person and there's no need to change for other people to like you because not everyone will so oh well. But in order for people to like you, they need to get to know you also. One suggestion is turning up the volume in your voice and let the world know who you are. Like go with the flow & just go nuts.

any advice on defeating my twin ego?

I have a hard time tuning up the volume and going nuts but i can go with the flow though.

lol. rhymes.

Yet they hate boys who have no confidence

You are yourself, if a girl is really willing to get to know you, she will accept all of you. And from what you've listed, you aren't all that bad Girls like straight up guys, instead of trying to act funny, just be yourself, and next thing you know, you'll have all these wonderful girls around you!

ouch.


Thanks, I'll just be myself and hopefully someone will recognize. :/

I personally hate all the girls at my school who look and act like f+*@#$ barbie.
They all need to F@#$%^ wake up and see that you can't get threw life with just looks.
That pisses me off the most! And men who wear tight not cool jeans. ewwww. Some people can pull it of like skaters and goths but some can't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It all depends on the girl but... for a general idea, check out the "turn-on" and "turn-off" topics.

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...=166363&hl=

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...=167692&hl=

Wanna be's annoy me too, but as long as they dont do anything to me were all good.






thanks for the links, this is very helpful!

girls like it when guys:
-tell them they're right
-tell them they're beautiful
-are understanding
-are funny
-pay for everything
-dont get scared of periods

girls hate it when guys:
-are arrogant
-dont care about them
-act differently with their guy friends then with you
-dont care about anything (i have alot of experience w/ that. my ex-bf didnt care about ANYTHING!!!)
-dont express their feelings

thats all i can think of right now!

girls also like it when guys remeber something about them that was only mentioned once or twice...

depends on what kinda girl ur talkin about
cus i mean some girls out there like voodoo and witch craft and anamal sacrifices.

It all depends on the girl; if you want to understand a certain female; simply get to know her and ask whatever it is you want to know...u can't really generalize females...because some females are just B****** so it wouldn't matter what they liked or hated; you still wouldn't want to deal with them

wow stereotypical.