My b/f broke up with me around a month or two ago and he still acts as if nothing has happened. He keeps talking to me and stares at me a lot. If I ever look at him, he's looking at me. I don't know what we are...I told him I don't want to be friends because he lied to me a lot while we were still together...and I don't even know if I still like him, but I'm just so confused. I don't know how to talk to him about it because if I do, he's just going to start thinking that I still like him and I don't want him to think that.

just tell him to be friends with you then!! KEKE maybe he just wants to be friends.... xcause he dumped you, right? so i dont know... just dont try to make it too awkward i guess

i say tell him straight out that u guys are friends and friends only and stop staring lol

maybe i should, but if i do, i wonder what he's going to think. i mean..he doesn't talk like mushy or anything but he just talks so much.

yeah he does!

ugh maybe he's just teasing you..

oh i'm so confused...should i just tell him that i don't want him to talk to me or something?

i think.. he still likes you .. but.. if u find out hes just kidding around.. hes a freakin jerk.. if u dont want him to talk to u anymore.. why not avoid him?

I agree.

ok.. tell him to stop staring at least lol try to make a joke so maybe he'll feel that ur friends with him.. next time u catch him staring u go, something on my face? lol i dunno make it friendly and get another guy friend who u can be friendly to him too so ur ex can see that u treat other guys just like him

Yeah I guess I should do that... thanks, you guys.

it's best that you just ignore him .. he broke up with you for reasons you may not ever really know .. but you should take it as a sign that he's unstable .. he may still look at you to see your reaction and how you handle things but just keep your cool and do what you have to do .. he'll eventually just leave you alone .. if you start bringing up stuff to him he'll most certainly make some sort of deal out of it and it may cause unnecessary pain in the azzes ..

thanks everyone. i'll take your advice.

you don't need that type of guy, and it's good that you had the willpower to leave like that. Maybe he realizes his mistakes and what he's missing out on-you. It takes time for people to get over things, and maybe it's taking him a longer time to get over you.

hmm seems like he misses u a lot but doesnt know wat to say cus u dont trust him cus he lied to u way too much... so yeah try and talk stuff to him. well like candy says... it's better to ignore him...even tho he stares at u, jus ignore him i guess. like u said that he dumped u, then theres no reasons to like him back again. if u keep ignoring him then he would think that u dont like him at all...and he prolly will learn his lessons, but it will hurt his heart somehow.

i guess you guys are right. thanks so much!

LOL. yeah u should say dat

there's nothing wrong with talking if it's just talking... that means he still confides in you and wants to tell you anything everything. me and my ex still talks.. a lot. we even go out and do whatever. but we're just friends. he probably stares at you because there is still something there... he still has feelings. but yea, you've already told him that you want to be friends. so that's good enough right? you're friends.

say, stop staring at me!, and then, kiss him [jus playing!]. just talk to him about it, en tell him straight out that "i dont like u believe it or not, i jus want to know blah blah blah"

i just be blunt and stuff
but i am a very mean person though