They knew each other before they even went to jr. high school. Somehow, the girl fell inlove with the boy. And secretly the boy loved her as well. But the stupid boy chose a different girl over her, and then broke her heart. Even after that, maybe they were never lovers, but they were great friends. He went to her house every day after school. Watched cartoons, went pizzarias, slept together on the same beds and leaned on each other when one of them were tired. They we almost lovers, but it never came to it. The boy always made her cry somehow, but then he always wiped away every tear she cried for her. The boy had noone by his side but the girl understud him better than anyone. They were always there for each other, whether on the phone or in each other's arms. That was 3years ago, now is now. The girl's feelings faded away but the boy's feelings grew stronger and stronger. They grew closer and closer but the girl only think of him has brothers and sisters. The boy couldn't bare seeing her with any other guy so the guy confessed his love to the girl and said he's sorry. The boy was so scared he would lose her forever. But things worked out, they were still best friends even though the girl knew the boy loves her. They continued to call each other everyday, but even so - the barely spends time with the boy or even sees him in school. Later, the girl fell for a guy. The boy hates his guts and hates the fact she loves him. The girl thinks he's being jealous but he tells her she deserves better. No matter how much the boy gets mad, she always finds a way to make him smile again. The boy is lost. what should the boy do?

Shouldn't this be in the writing section?

Your problem is.....you're too much of a romantic. It doesn't work like that. If you want that, then open a book. But be real. Seriously. It sounds like he's a friend and nothing more.

The boy should grow some balls and act like a man.

i can relate. i liked this guy a really long time & we always hung out & had lunch together & stuff. we would always flirt in that 'mean' way, where we'd make fun of each other, but know that neither of us meant anything we said, etc. as time went on, i honestly thought he was going to ask me out. we never actually confessed that we both liked each other so much, although it was pretty obvious. we talked on the phone everyday. one day, he told me that he was going to go to a dance with this other girl, i was secretely really upset, yet supportive. they're going out now & have been for three months. we ended up confessing our feelings for each other when him & her first began going out. it was a really confusing time & i kind of became the girl on the side.. but we never did anything like kiss or anything that would be 'cheating'. we still had a really close friendship on the phone while him & the girl just began going out, & we still have a close relationship, yet it's not the same as it was. we can never hang out at school because his girlfriend is really suspicious of me & thinks that i'm trying to steal him away from her. i really really hate her. so the only contact we have are the quick hugs when she's not around at school & the phone conversations. it really sucks.

anyways, the point is; i still have major feelings for him & he does for me too, maybe a tad bit less since he now has a girlfriend. i'm personally hanging on to those feelings because i know that eventually things will work out. i don't know if that's stupid or a waste or time or what but i'm doing it anyways, because that is what my heart is telling me. you could possibly do the same if you feel that you have a chance of winning her over from that a-hole. i don't know, just do what you think is right. sorry i was no help, i bet. just trying to be supportive though, because we sorta have similar situations.

stay best friends. he messed up already. of course she deserves better. i think best friends are way better.

the boy will grow up to become a man oneday like all boys do, theres no need to hurry. let the boy cherish his youth!

the boy has a way with words. he should write her a poem. =)

Well, I'm going to answer you as if you're the boy.

The mean version:
It seems like you wasted all this time on a relationship that wasn't there... you assume way to much. How do you know that the girl ever thought of you as her lover? I think that you need to go on a field trip to reality so you can know how the world really works and won't be surprised when you get "f**ked in the ass".

The nice version:
It's alright, you're going to be ok. Just hang in there buddy. Go for a walk on the town and get your mind off things.

Reality
Look man, you are wasting your time and emotions on this one girl who got over you because you clearly chose another girl over her. You need to get rid of your feelings for you. If you can't get over your "more-than-a-friend" feelings for her you have to stop hanging out/talking with her as often as you do now. You need to let those feelings go before you can continue friendship with her or you're just going to be a jealous thorn in her side. Let go. You made a mistake, and you need to learn from it. Don't make that same mistake again.

The boy needs to continue to be there for the girl, even if he doesn't support her decision of dating the not so nice boy. The girl probably won't grow to have feelings for the boy again, but still, if he cares at all, the boy should be that good friendly support system (and in an optimist world- the girl could even fall for the boy again). The boy should also start dating because who knows, maybe the boy will find a girl who's on the same page as him and will make him happier than ever.

Good luck boy.

sorry, but the boy should move on. he picked a different girl over the girl to begin with, and he doesn't have the right to be visibly angry about this new relationship. inside, he can hurt, but outside he should be a good friend and support the girl. he can't force her to like him, anyways.