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anonymous1
My best friend and I like each other. If you would ask me, I think it is rather obvious, we just never told each other. Other people think so, too. But my problem is that we're both too shy to say anything. And I know if I don't do something, he won't. WHAT DO I DO???????????????
-sincerely
well you guys can't really rush things. _unsure.gif
but then again, you don't wanna wait until he stops liking you to tell him you like him...
hmmm... toughie.. sorry.
oXMuhNirvanaXo
Sometimes you have to be stright forward about your feelings and go for what you feel is best. If you know you like him and he likes you.. damn.. GO FOR IT!
anonymous1
Well, I don't know for a FACT, but he makes it look so OBVIOUS.....
oXMuhNirvanaXo
QUOTE(death of seasons! @ Feb 17 2007, 12:34 AM) *
Well, I don't know for a FACT, but he makes it look so OBVIOUS.....


Sometimes you just have to stiffen up your back and hope for the best. Try not to trip over your words. Say what you feel and it should work out fine. He is your bestfriend he should understand. happy.gif
My Cinderella.
If you feel uncomfortable with telling him face to face, write him a nice letter and then wait for his reaction.
Uronacid
I think you guys should COMMUNICATE...
oXMuhNirvanaXo
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 17 2007, 2:21 AM) *
I think you guys should COMMUNICATE...


To big of a word for her. laugh.gif

//edit.

Sorry. That was rude.
Kontroll
QUOTE(death of seasons! @ Feb 17 2007, 12:30 AM) *
But my problem is that we're both too shy to say anything. And I know if I don't do something, he won't. WHAT DO I DO???????????????


I think you just answered your own question. Look at it again, and act upon it. Shyness is an excuse, not a reason. Grow a pair in the metaphorical sense.
oXMuhNirvanaXo
QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Feb 18 2007, 2:02 AM) *
I think you just answered your own question. Look at it again, and act upon it. Shyness is an excuse, not a reason. Grow a pair in the metaphorical sense.


laugh.gif I love how you brought this up. I read over it and saw that she did answer her own question. I was about to say something about it before you posted this. Haha pinch.gif
-sincerely
QUOTE(oX_Muh_Nirvana_Xo @ Feb 18 2007, 12:54 AM) *
To big of a word for her. laugh.gif

//edit.

Sorry. That was rude.


lmao! yeah, but kinda funny... pinch.gif
anyway, you know that you have to make a move. so why not just do it? you said that it's obvious, so you have nothing really to be afraid of...
Seņorita Semi-Automatic
QUOTE(ashopely @ Feb 17 2007, 1:31 AM) *
well you guys can't really rush things. _unsure.gif
but then again, you don't wanna wait until he stops liking you to tell him you like him...
hmmm... toughie.. sorry.


I agree! Don't rush into anything. Let it happen. Love comes and goes, good friendship is worth holding on to.
Uronacid
I still stress... COMMUNICATION!!
oXMuhNirvanaXo
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 21 2007, 5:56 PM) *
I still stress... COMMUNICATION!!



laugh.gif TO BIG OF WORD!
ohmy.gif mellow.gif


editt//

I'm not sorry this time..
multifaceted
QUOTE(death of seasons! @ Feb 17 2007, 12:30 AM) *
My best friend and I like each other. If you would ask me, I think it is rather obvious, we just never told each other. Other people think so, too. But my problem is that we're both too shy to say anything. And I know if I don't do something, he won't. WHAT DO I DO???????????????


You do something. He does not always have to make the first move. We don't live in the old ages.
xBUTTMUNCHx
well if your not shy to tell us about this, then you shouldn't be shy to tell him. although i know its easier said then done, but if you wont tell him now, you might not ever get the chance to.
chaoticchrissy
do something!

i must warn you,, bestfriends yah
they seem amzing but they don't make
good boyfriends! tust that. or maybe thats
just how it was for me.. but things just end
up not workin' out.. but then again
that might have just been me..
pinacoolada
Just tell him!
Don't let it pass >.<
Kontroll
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 21 2007, 5:56 PM) *
I still stress... COMMUNICATION!!


Tarzan no understand. Ugh. Jane.

Why communication? THey'll talk when they see eachother.
priyas
tell him.
its kind of obvious.

or just sit there and wish that you were together
anonymous1
Thanks guys! I just it's just that I have a problem with wording things.. _unsure.gif
That's what I'm mostly stressing with...
Or even like, how to say it.
ItsSelvy
Hate to say it but once your in a relationship you pretty much say goodbye to being friends ever again. Is that a risk your willing to take??



P.S. you can still be friends after, but normally its either really hard to get OR not as as strong but its slightly possible
-sincerely
not ALWAYS. sometimes you're still friends with your ex. it just depends on how your relationship with them was. if it wasn't really too romantic, you can probably go back to being friends quickly.

edit: didn't see your PS, nvm.
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