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ReggieM
Well my personality,hobbies, and style are generally found in the urban asian community(seeing that im on createblog >.>) therefore i grew accustomed to having quite a few asian friends not to mention everyother race. But i noticed that with the girls they and there parents tend to like all of the mixed asians at my school are mixed with white and its not that unobvious to see that there is a likiing towards them.

My point is why??Not to racist or anything but they seem to put all other races down cept for them--look thru history and see all the bad stuff they did? KKK,hitler to name a few but to say that other races are below the "whites is a little unfair.

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Stefanny
Rofl, my asian parents like any guys that are nice, so I dunno what you're talking about. rolleyes.gif

Haha, sarcasm. I think it's because people judge on appearance all the time, and majority of white people are just that lucky to be good looking.
multifaceted
Because white people have money. laugh.gif

And also before, if you were a foreigner and married a white person, you will get a green card and be able to go to the United States. You didn't need to worry about your Student Visa expiring. Many Asians wished to go the the United States.

That's all I can think of.
sofakinglazy
Cause their Gold Diggers.
krnxswat
What grade you in? Grow up, man..
DivineFox
They just do, most of the girls I know are more into white guys. Just something about them...
misoshiru
Not necessarily true. My parents don't really trust white people.
Monochrome.
im hispanic and i really only date white guys,

my mom is the same way. idk its jsut prefrence of ours.
ReggieM
im a seinor in hs...but im kinda young for one but uhh that wasnt approriate. get off me.

If i was a person from asia and i needed my green card i would marry oprah.too bad she isnt white with all that money.
misoshiru
^ Excuse me? I find that comment as very biased. Especially as an international student in the U.S. I understand the difficulties that non-green card holders go through. I'm unable to find a job outside of my college, I can't get social security. You don't see me proposing to Oprah do you? I know that you may have wrote it out thinking of it as a joke, by I find it in no ways funny.
priyas
QUOTE(black_heart @ Feb 12 2007, 10:31 PM) *
im a seinor in hs...but im kinda young for one but uhh that wasnt approriate. get off me.

If i was a person from asia and i needed my green card i would marry oprah.too bad she isnt white with all that money.

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My point is why??Not to racist or anything but they seem to put all other races down cept for them--look thru history and see all the bad stuff they did? KKK,hitler to name a few but to say that other races are below the "whites is a little unfair.


That was biased, and all races have done bad things.
ReggieM
actually it was a joke but i dont really care for the outcome of it...

wtf do u mean that was biased.thats what the fvck im trying to prove... i dont see why to only to accept one particular race for something they have or havnt done. The reason why "some people" dont accept another racist is because of certain issues that might not even be true tell me thats not biased.
Gigi
My parents MIGHT disown me if I got together with a white guy, but then again, who cares. In my own experience, most Asian parents would rather their sons and daughters date people of their own race. You know, mostly for convenience. And the fact that Asian parents over here think that other Asians make more money than the white people do (which is sometimes true).

I guess, if you take money, honour, tradition and pride away, Asian parents might prefer white people? Some of them are pretty good lookin'.

Actually, my mom would probably like if I dated a mixed-race guy. Now they're smokin'.
xlitoxb
QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Feb 12 2007, 7:21 PM) *
Because white people have money. laugh.gif

Wow! heh, You took the words right out of my mouth. XD.gif
aznraver396
well, you're saying that asian girls are with white boys as opposed to being with asian guys, right? have you ever seen yellow fever? i think their theory is correct. asian boys never really have the confidence to go for the girl, so the white guy steps in and gets the girl. hahah. i think it makes a lot of sense though. plus, some asian guys are really weird and have that one girl who opens the door. you know, the one girl that talks to the shy boy and suddenly the boy finds that he likes the girl just because she talks to him. anyway, i believe it's mostly about confidence.
Uronacid
It's because we're white.... duhh....
ReggieM
ehh im over it.
mishyerr
'cause most Asian guys are fugly. :)
AngryBaby
QUOTE(Stefanny @ Feb 12 2007, 7:07 PM) *
Rofl, my asian parents like any guys that are nice, so I dunno what you're talking about. rolleyes.gif

Haha, sarcasm. I think it's because people judge on appearance all the time, and majority of white people are just that lucky to be good looking.


lol wtf?


anyway, what i think black_heart's tryin' to get at is....


sometimes, stereotype or not, asian parents are more accepting of letting their daughter date a white guy than lets say....a black guy. because you know, black people ruin lives and everything.
sofakinglazy
SarahxJoy
^ sick.gif

I've dated guys of hispanic, black, mixed, and white ethnic backgrounds.
My current boyfriend is white.
Race isn't a specific preference with me. As long as he meets my boyfriend-worthy standards, then I'll be interested (that is, if I were single).

My parents would probably like me to be with an asian guy, which is funny, 'cause I've never dated one. Most of the asian guys at my school hang out with other asians, and I don't hang out with them. I've got my own little mixed group that I hang with, so I don't really know or talk to them (the asian guys).
My Cinderella.
It's for all the beautiful eyes and blonde hair (for the ones who have blonde hair) that asians don't have.
EddieV
Well my parents want me to marry a white girl. They said when the baby comes out it's going to look good....
ReggieM
Oh yea dont forget black people are lazy, only cook/eat chicken, dont like seafood(i think? lol) and are only succesfull in nothing but sports =).
angelrevelation
All races have persecuted others in some way, in some point in time...

My parents personally don't like white guys. At least, for me to date. They want me to marry a nice Chinese boy so that there's no culture clash rolleyes.gif

I personally don't like white guys MORE, there are just more of them here than any other race.
madgamer
uh they do ?
pinacoolada
That doesn't apply to me.
Personally, I prefer asian guys...no clue why.
xmoon_lightx
well my parents say that when an asian girl and a white guy gets marry then gives birth the baby looks much more better O_O
ReggieM
yes they do over other races so stop acting like you dont know
ilauqh
You can't prove that ALL asian girls and ALL asian parents LOVE white boys. Because it's always not true. ANDD bringing up horrible things that white people happened to have done has nothing to do with this topic.. it's just being racist and blaming white people for everything and saying oh they don't deserve to be in relationships outside their race bc of the KKK. no sense man. it was pretty offensive. because i'm a white girl and i know my parents don't approve every race but they would approve if i brought an asian boy home and i really hope if asian people saw me with my asian bf they wouldn't think, oh she doesn't deserve him because white people had the KKK. wtf.. gosh.
ReggieM
i never once said that all asian girls/parents like white guys soo idk what you are talking about. I know i said SOME prefer white males over other races...????????????????

One thing you are a girl and your situation is not relevant to my topic,Second thing if you read previous post thoroughly you will see that a made reference to KKK and other things because of the fact that most people say for instance think some black people are bad or whatever and think that all the negative stereotypes are true.

Third when did i ever say they dont belong in a interacial marriage? i think interacial marriage is the best thing since.. (well idk)but neways i just ASKED if they and do they prefer white males over other races beside asian of course.
sofakinglazy
QUOTE(brownsugar @ Feb 18 2007, 3:45 PM) *
Really because I've seen some ugly ass asian/white people

Fashizzle.

Mr. Slowjamz
because how Asian guys are stereotyped in american society ....us asian guys are bunch of wussies and weaklings . and were less endowed . ok . ill stop .
ReggieM
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mocassinsx29
well in MY neighborhood, a lot of asians like white people because
1. there are very few of them here
2. the few that are here and very "CIVILIZED" [as some people here call it meaning very polite]
EddieV
QUOTE(mishyerr @ Feb 15 2007, 10:57 PM) *
'cause most Asian guys are fugly. :)


for someone that says Asian guys are ugly, you don't really look that great either...
emazing
Iono, I guess they think they're trustworthy and capable of taking care of their Asian daughters. My parents prefer Asian guys, though. _smile.gif
Frénésie
Haha. I'm not Asian. I am Black but I am more attracted to White guys. I live in Belgium and most of the Black men are ... well, not exactly my taste.

Anyway, I'm loving Suzzette and black_heart's *subtle* convo. I'm having fun guys!
ReggieM
TY =),well if u live anywhere cept from cali i dont blame you but if u do kinda awkward cuz theres very few other races.
Frénésie
I live in Europe. I've never been to the States. Invite me?
whorify
kidding me?
Asian parents talk shit about white people so much
IMO White people are the most hated on
They have the KKK, they do all the f**ked up shit pulled racist shit so much and look at the scandals all white people, ever see a mexican f**k up when hes in the CEO position? Now how about seeing a woman in a high position? NEVER! White woman? she was what? CFO at HP and she f**ked that up too. My point is that white people are hated more often than loved.

the only asian parents i see accepting white men are the ones who look like they're from the jungle and shit
coming out with swollen eye sockets and more than often from a small asian country
this is all based on experience too.
voguelove
actually, my dad would prefer that i date someone from our race.
lanbexx
its simple. asian girls think theyre being rebellious or some shit, and want to date outside their race because of what they see on media. they make up some bullshit claims that "asian guys dont take care of women" or "its about the person, not the race." however, theyre not willing to piss off their parents by dating beyond white, or at least announcing that they are.

Asian parents tolerate it because its thought that at least many white people come from respectable backgrounds. they'd rather have their child date an asian, but realize that they have probably given up on their child anyways, so just somewhat influence their dating decision.

and i dont know what the hell you guys are saying. most white asian mixes are ugly, especially guys. most of the time you'll just get a face that is like a jumble of pieces that doesnt exactly fit right.


from personal experience, its mainly southeast asians that idolize whites. otherwise, theyre pretty much disliked by the more "oriental" asians.
Trinie
hmmm i've never dated a white guy before. but i guess i just never met a white guy that i liked. but if i did, i think my parents will accept them for who they are anyway. my parents are pretty open.
hiromi
QUOTE(lanbexx @ Feb 26 2007, 5:44 AM) *
its simple. asian girls think theyre being rebellious or some shit, and want to date outside their race because of what they see on media. they make up some bullshit claims that "asian guys dont take care of women" or "its about the person, not the race." however, theyre not willing to piss off their parents by dating beyond white, or at least announcing that they are.


I highly disagree with what you're saying right there.
I'm dating a white guy, and I don't find it "rebellious", nor do I see it on the media. If it IS on the media, then i must be mistaken, but still. I don't claim that asian guys don't take care of their girls, because I know asian guys who care for their girls so much (even though the girls treat them like crap).

Most likely, for the states at least, it's because we're grown up in a society where there's alot of white people. Many of us are "white washed", maybe not to the extent that most people identify "white washed" as, but we still grew up with american ways. If that's the case, isn't it going to be easier being with somebody who grew up with american ways as well?

at least, that's what I think. But to go out with a white guy to be badass? no.
mouse_3k
because white people are...stereotypically innocent. Azns think blacks are thugs, mexicans are killers, and so on and so on. White people are generally the people that stay outta trouble, but whateva. I dont like white boys and parents should let their kids date whoeva the hell they want.
Spazzzmatic
bitterasianmen.com

In my personal opinion, white boys are naturally smart, Asian boys often just work really hard. Plus, white boys are hotter.

But my parents would definitely like an Asian guy better for me.
sofakinglazy
Lol, some people are wayyyyy to insecure...
ReggieM
white boys stay outta trouble wtf where are u living not in cali, nerds maybe but most COOL white guys party and drink thats not staying outta trouble
rAiningXstArrz
I'm half Filipino/half Chinese.. and i do not like any type of aAsian boys whatsoever.
seriously.. I don't know whats wrong with me, my sister is like 9 years older than me and shes been dating Filipino guys all her life while I prefer white guys.
Recently I've dated a Jewish guy, a Scottish/Irish/British/French guy, and currently a Swiss/Russian guy... I think the first last Asian guy i ever liked was around 3 years ago..
I'm not sure why, but I just find white guys so much more attractive.. actually, I find any other guy outside my race more attractive. Honestly, I just think Asian guys are ugly. Which sounds really mean.. I guess I'm racist to my own kind? But I mean, Asian guys have really nice personalities.. I would consider them as best friend material.. but not boyfriend! i know this is kinda shallow, but I could never imagine myself enjoying a kiss by an Asian guy. It just seems so gross.. like kissing a brother... Incest! But yet with a white guy.. I'm extremely turned on! It's their hair, eyes, everything that seduces me! I think I rather have an exciting, passionate lust-filled, risk taking relationship with a white guy than a dull, passionless, parent approved relationship with an Asian guy.

Conversation with my mom:
Me - *Drooling out the window at some white skater guy*
Mom - I see a pattern in the boys you've like.
Me - Hm?
Mom - They're all white.
Me - Yup.
Mom - What if you marry a white boy?
Me - Don't be surprised!
Mom - Just don't marry the ones that expect those mail order bride types..
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