look. i have this friend thats a girl and i keep thinkign dirty thoughts about her...i dont want to but it keeps happening and as much as i try to fight it it comes back. its like lust has overtaken commen sence.. please help. no sarcasm or off subjet ranting please.

You need to find her and rape her for you to stop thinking that because after, you have already experienced it.

if you're a boy, maybe it's just a boy thing.

i think dirty thoughts about girls all the time. :]

You can't help your thoughts, just leave it as it is; I bet everyone has it.

you'll stop thinking about it sooner or later. if you try not to think about her, then it'll just lead you to thinking about her. so i guess you could focus on other things, like school, sports, etc.

Oh my goodness... it sounds like you're just really horny, and you need to let off some steam. How old are you? This is pretty common, honestly...

Just go jerk off...It's like a quick fix... I'm serious... if you don't know how... learn. Wait until you're home alone at least.

I thought you were in the closet?!

maybe im bi?

[color=#000099]i used to think that way about 1 of my friends- just tell her how you feel or ask her out- unless she gets grossed out easy- i did that and now were goin' out besides you might get lucky!
ps eew bi is gross!

yah but the thing is i dont know if its just lust or i actually like her... there has to be SOME way to figure out......

Well, I guess you must think she's a real smoking okin. I don't think that you like her if you just have dirty thoughts about her. I guess the only way to eliminate the desire is to get to know her more/stay as far away from her as possible/jerk the gerkin.

if you dont know if you like this girl and want to find out- ask her out! if she says yes you will probably like her or not but you find out and if she says no: you will probably find out 'cause u wll be over her- or not it depens............

thats exactly what i am saying. I just gave you advice like 2 minutes ago about you thinking that you are gay and then you come up with this topic about thinking dirty thoughts about a girl. well there is the solution to your other post just show your friends this post so you wont be worried about what they think...

but its the girl who im thinking dirty thoughts about is the problem and besides everyone makes fun of me enough..the last thing i want to do is show this place to them..besides for now this is my private[for the interent anyway] place that my friends dont know about

haha the internet is a lot less private than you think it is, but anyways.....

how is the girl the problem? It's called fantasizing. You're going through puberty, that's why you're having all this confusion, etc. Don't worry about it, it'll pass. There's nothing wrong with fantasizing, and masterbation if that's what you need.

dude i was talking about your last topic that you made the "in the closet one" where you might have let out you were gay and you were worried about what your friends would think on Monday. Thats what i meant by showing them this topic. so your friends wont think your gay and you wont be worried. Besides the internet is not so private. And stop letting people make fun of you thats just wrong.

You're like 12. Don't worry about it.

as if u know so much

Should try to calm down your hormones around her.

Because everyone has control over their hormones... >.>