How can i get my site advertized? I want more hits and I want people to know about it but how?? Also, I LOVE nuclear century yet I cant find anything about their hosting on their site, does anyone know? I know I'm not good enough for them yet but maybe as an option someday?!?! thanks!

Try contacting them and asking them where they are hosted?

I would say post your site link buttons at plugboards. Get your site listed and those listing/whatever you call them sites. http://yoursite.nu you can probably get some hits there if you join and get your site reviewed. If its a blog places like despair, exposure, and excentriq (sp?) can get people to comment you etc. Add stuff to your site though, content etc.
Check out peoples domains, some people post their own tips for it.