Forgotten Azn
Feb 8 2007, 12:12 AM
Im in a situation here. I haven't realized it until my gf got really mad at me. She said I was selfish, that I always think about myself. That i do not consider her feelings, what she wants, or what she's thinking. That we would do things my way instead of hers. I don't know what to do, I just feel like shooting myself for being so stupid. She means everything to me and I don't want to lose her.
Can someone offer me some advice?
tininja
Feb 8 2007, 12:15 AM
Stop always thinking about yourself and talking about yourself? Listen to her more? Basically, do the opposite of what she tells you that you are doing right now.
Forgotten Azn
Feb 8 2007, 12:28 AM
she keeps ignoring me..
multifaceted
Feb 8 2007, 12:35 AM
If she's ignoring you, then its not all your fault.
Maybe it is time to get a new gf?
Girls sometimes really only think of themselves and not think of their bfs and then accuse their bfs for not considering their feelings. So maybe you are not doing anything wrong. She's just being a girl.
Forgotten Azn
Feb 8 2007, 12:44 AM
She means everything to me and i believe what she says is right. Im not really good at this considering she is my first. I dont know what to do.
x0htheMYSTERY
Feb 8 2007, 10:03 PM
do something REALLY extrodinary!!
like iuno, at school.. like on the annoucements.. ask if yu could say something.. and then say " IM SORRY, I LOVE YOU ALOT. YOURE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO ME " or something ^^ or like.. tell her friends to listen to like a certain station and then yu call the station and ask for a shoutout and a song request of your song.. [:
multifaceted
Feb 8 2007, 10:41 PM
You try your best and if she still doesn't like it, then it is best to leave her.
My Cinderella.
Feb 8 2007, 10:51 PM
I think you should just talk to her. If she doesn't listen, I guess you're going to have to show her how much she means to you. Do more of the things she wants to do, show her that you do care.
Forgotten Azn
Feb 9 2007, 03:05 AM
thx for the advice everyone.
i talked to her for awhile and she gave me another chance
multifaceted
Feb 9 2007, 04:17 PM
I suggest this topic be close because the problem has already been solved.
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