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doomXL
i dont know if im gay or not....i saw these questions and if you got some right you could be gay and i did. im a yaoi fangirl but im...a boy. i dont think being gay is bad i just dont know how to tell..any help?
mishyerr
you'll probably know after you have sex.

and if you're gay, it's okay in my beliefs, but Christianity does not believe homosexuality is okay; so if you're Christian, :/
doomXL
im athiest....and im not having sex for awile cry.gif
ilauqh
QUOTE(mishyerr @ Feb 7 2007, 8:34 PM) *
you'll probably know after you have sex.

and if you're gay, it's okay in my beliefs, but Christianity does not believe homosexuality is okay; so if you're Christian, :/



I'm Catholic which is I guess the most strict branch of Christianity especially about Gay Marriage. I do know one or two gay people that are Catholic and do survive. They unfortunately cannot get married to their gay partner or be openly gay within the church but they survive living as a Catholic even though they are gay. I personally don't think they made the decision of whether to be straight or gay nor did they decide what religion to practice, it was their parents' decision.

Anyway, I wouldn't worry too much about being gay, you'll be able to find out sooner or later. If you turn out to be gay, it's fine too :) Of course there is the "experimental" stage which you could be entering where you believe you are gay or bisexual, however, later in life you "outgrow" this stage.
sapphic
I'm gay too- female, but still. It's hard to work it out, but no one can really help you. Let the answers come to you or experiment.
multifaceted
Were the questions in a quiz that they have for you to post on some blog?

Don't listen to them. Listen to yourself.

You might be bi-curious, or bi, or gay, or straight. You might need to experiment more.
krnxswat
Being gay is bad.
Uronacid
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Feb 8 2007, 12:58 AM) *
Being gay is bad.


yup... XD
doomXL
oh no...today at rec everyone was asking me who i liked and i said noone [why does noone belive me?]. one of them asked me if i was gay and then they all kept bugging me about it.
i accidentaly let out a maybe and well......im dreading school on monday cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif omg.gif
krnxswat
You f***ing homo. Get over it.
My Cinderella.
Be nice, Seon Ho.

As Cat said, I doubt you should really take a quiz online seriously. The only way you'll actually know is when you have a crush on somebody.
iROCKYOURSOCKS
QUOTE(doomXL @ Feb 9 2007, 12:18 PM) *
oh no...today at rec everyone was asking me who i liked and i said noone [why does noone belive me?]. one of them asked me if i was gay and then they all kept bugging me about it.
i accidentaly let out a maybe and well......im dreading school on monday cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif omg.gif



aww dont worry!! people are just stupid like that. And there is nothing wrong with you if you dont like anyone! and if they keep bugging you just tell them to mind their own damn business and worry about their own lives instead of other peoples. GOOD LUCK!
bigandhairy-aka-shaneyney
QUOTE(doomXL @ Feb 9 2007, 2:18 PM) *
oh no...today at rec everyone was asking me who i liked and i said noone [why does noone belive me?]. one of them asked me if i was gay and then they all kept bugging me about it.
i accidentaly let out a maybe and well......im dreading school on monday cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif omg.gif

that really sucks! your gonna have a tugh time on monday i feel sorry 4 u- maybe you should kick there asses unless your not so tough- then you should should just say what you want- personally i think you might be bi or maybe you should "expierement" a little you cant lose anything from it- those kids that were messin with you are probably the gay ones when you you back to school on monday pretend you were joking- make with what you got wave.gif
jaeminnie
QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Feb 10 2007, 4:48 PM) *
Be nice, Seon Ho.

As Cat said, I doubt you should really take a quiz online seriously. The only way you'll actually know is when you have a crush on somebody.

Yeah, have you ever liked a boy? If so, you probably are at least bicurious or bisexual. If you haven't yet liked a boy but like yaoi, you might just be bicurious for now.

Give it more time.
doomXL
QUOTE(Wo0yaPo0ya @ Feb 10 2007, 8:34 PM) *
Yeah, have you ever liked a boy? If so, you probably are at least bicurious or bisexual. If you haven't yet liked a boy but like yaoi, you might just be bicurious for now.

Give it more time.


ohh...i have made 3 yaoi tributes on youtube, have written an ed-roy fanfic/lemon
and my backround is a picture of ed kissing mustang....bicurious seems to sum it up..i think _unsure.gif
mai_z
bicurious means nothing. You're still young, you still have time to think about it, experiment, and test the waters.

To me, being homosexual is a continuum, you're not strictly gay, straight, or bi. It's the degree of each trait that defines you. Don't worry about it. Not liking someone doesn't mean you're gay, and eventually, things will sort themselves out.
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