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biibabi
[[ I WROTE THIS TO MY EX BF AND I JUST GAVE IT TO HIM LET ME KNOW IF YOU THINK I SAID TOO MUCH OR I SAID THE RIGHT THINGS]]

Last night i wrote a letter to you and i thoguht all day weather or not i should try to send it to you but i guess i should tell you what it was basicly about.Basicly as you know i have been a pain in the ass since "that day" and im sorry,i have relized i have seperation issues and i make situations harder than they need to be,but im sorry and i was so hurt that i finally found my strength to walk away.i can honestly say i am happy for you now.Happy that you found that one girl you want to be true to and that you love.i hope she loves you back.I will always love you but we aint together so i do need to back off.I just hope you have a good life and Treat her beter than you Treated me.
WHIMSICAL 0NE
I think this should be in Relationships.

But anyways, if he reads it depending on the certian situation of the relationship and circumstances as to why it ended he could interpret it in different ways. I don't letters are ever a good thing to send after a break-up, but that's just my personal opinion.

I do find it odd that you contradicted yourself when you said he's been a pain in the ass and then go on to say that you will always love him.
think!IMAGINARILY
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I will always love you but we aint together so i do need to back off.

I found that sentence a bit weird. Not because of the grammar, though. I think that your short letter thing would have sounded better if you left that part out.
suddenly she
QUOTE(LatinQueen6916 @ Feb 4 2007, 4:34 PM) *
I will always love you but we aint together so i do need to back off.I just hope you have a good life and Treat her beter than you Treated me.


To me, that says...

"I like you, but I know I'm not supposed to (but hopefully you still have feelings for me?). I'm still pissed off."

But does it matter? You gave him the note already; you can't take it back and edit it.
ariana8716
kinda edgy if you ask me.
KissMe2408
Hm.

Well, atleast you got your true feeling out, eh?
A little bitter perhaps, but it is too late to second guess now.
Let us hope it went over well.


=MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS=
priyas
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.I will always love you but we aint together so i do need to back off.I just hope you have a good life and Treat her beter than you Treated me.

It sounds like your hinting that you want him to be with you. I hope he takes it well _smile.gif
krnxswat
f**ker. You're just trying to fish some compliments by making us, cBans, say sweet of a f**king girl you are.

eye wuz debaytin weather i shoold sey diz but u r n idiot
drummergirlmarimba
...a bit too bitter perhaps?
multifaceted
QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Feb 4 2007, 3:44 PM) *
I do find it odd that you contradicted yourself when you said he's been a pain in the ass and then go on to say that you will always love him.


That is not what she meant.

She admits that she has been a pain in the ass to him and is apologizing for it.
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I find it mature of you to admit that it is your fault and/or problem that the relationship broke up. But I find it kind of strange that you were still willing to write a letter to him and let him read it.

I wouldn't even want to see my ex in public until I was really past the emotional break down (or emotional triumph). Let alone write a letter.
Uronacid
Well... I don't really know what you did... I really can't say...

I think that it's pretty obvious that he could take what you're saying out of context. I think you should rewrite it. Organize your thoughts a bit more.
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