So my Sadies is coming up... and I was planning to ask this guy. I like him but I'm pretty sure he just sees us as friends. Normally, he's mean to me but he can be nice. I'm scared that if I ask him, he's going to:
- think I'm joking & laugh at me.
- say no.
- not hear me.

Yeah. But all my friends think I should ask him, though only one of them know that I actually do like him. Then again, there's this other guy that I would ask but whenever I ask him about school events, he always says he's not going. I don't like this guy but everyone else says we're cute together. This guy would also probably take it that I'm joking with him and start laughing.

So I don't know what to do! Who do I ask? Or, which one do I ask?
I'm really scared that whichever one I ask is going to laugh at me. I'm not the type of person that would cry in public but it would really wreck myself inside.

If he laughs, smack him on the shoulder and get all up in his grill. Either one.


That's just the way I do things... it's effective for me.

Don't ask the guy you don't like just to be cute, unless you just want to go as friends.

ok lets analyze the obvious here:
DO NOT go with the guy you don't like, you'll have a miserable night
DO go with the guy you like. even if he sees you as just "friends" then he still shouldn't have a problem. guys love confident females. ASK him, he's your friend, whats the WORST that could happen!

good luck!
hidden_soul

definately ask him!

Go for the gold, ask the guy you want to go with! Be confident, but have no expectations. If he says no you won't be disappointed, and if he says yes you'll be really proud of yourself.

Well, tell me this? Are you going to die if he says any of those choices? No...So, get some stones and ask him. It's not like you're not going to be friends anymore.

whats a Sadies?

Sadie Hawkins. It's a dance where the girl asks the guy (even though girls already ask guys.. but yeah.)


I've decided to ask the guy I like, but to go as friends. I mean, it's not like I'm dying to be with him so going as friends first would probably be nice

Great decision! You should probably get to know him as a friend first anyways. Maybe you guys'll end up being more.