there is this guy who asked me to winter ball in december. long story short he made me miserable, and i have tried to tell him to stop bothering me in a nice way.

he's like not "f**king off." even though i implied it. what should i do?

stop implying, and tell him to f**k off

i agree.. be assertive but not mean, get the point across but don't imply
the longer you wait, the harder it will be for him consume!

i told him he wasn't my friend . <<but he still ims me. follows me at school.

Not just that, tell him you don't want to have anything to do with him anymore (if that's really how you feel), and make it clear.

Sounds ilke a stalker. And uh, I don't mean it in a funny way.
You need to be confrontational and get up in his face, and tell him to keep the f**k away from you.

I pretty much agree with everyone.

Tell him exactly how you feel. [That you want to be left alone by him] &explain -briefly- why. Don't let it keep dragging on. &If he gets to be too big of an annoyance... Talk to someone at school, a teacher or something. :]

Make one of your big manly friends get him to leave you alone ;D

Hahahhaa. That's great. But true. Don't be afraid to sound mean.

When people don't get it, you have to give t to the straight. Simply say, "I don't think you get it, I DO NOT LIKE YOU AT ALL. YOU HAVE NO CHANCE WITH ME. DO YOU UNDERSTAND?"

slap him in the face. keep on doing that until he gets the message

a simple kick in the balls. and a "i hate you " will suffice lol

^ OH MY GOSH YOU TOOK MY REPLY! HOW COULD YOU!!!?!?!?!?!?

wow that's real creepy. but yeah get all up on his face and jut tell him to leave you the fck alone cuz hes creeping you out. yeah that sucks =/

Tell him straight up.

i agree with everyone... just tell him to f*** off...

Live with it. If he likes to follow you around, tell him to buy you lunch and save your own money.

sometimes the blunt truth is the best way....if you don't want to hurt his feelings then you're gonna have to deal with it

good luck
hidden_soul

Block him off on AIM, try telling him again to back off, if he doesnt then you can just go walk different ways to classes or avoid the places you know he'll be there.

Haha this is funny, atleast for me, one of my best friends hated themselves to death, they even got in a fight, guess what, when the prom came, they won and the next day they were like "the perfect couple", so what i'm saying its that maybe you don't "know" him much.... in the end if he really is an stalker weh get some help from other people since you can't do anything 1 on 1 :/ mho

hahaha

agreed

Just tell him what you feel.... don't hold back

thank you everybody. i took your advice. he is out of my life :]