I just made the first move.
And Im nervous and scared but excited.
Sometimes, complete happiness can feel like complete terror.
AAACK.

So, how do you feel when you make the first move ?
I love but hate this feeling.

Its a feeling of accomplishment when you do but I HATE doing that lol.

I know. But the problem is i LOVE shy boys. But I'm so shy myself when it comes to boys I like. So usually I'm all hesitant and shy, and I know he's not going to do anything because he's shy but I love it.


Sigh.

Aww...thats so cute. I personally am outgoing but when it comes to guys and making moves Im very very shy. Im always scared to do anything so I like guys that arent shy at all...because then I dont have to do anything first lol.

i avoid it at any cost.

i'm old-fashioned.

Pretty much like how you described it.

Sometimes it's not always as nerve-wracking though.

i have no problem with making the first move.
its a turn off for alot of guys.
but then again im not discouraged because if they get all pissed off and intimidated by that. then they arent the one for me
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Moved to Relationships.

^ Yeah I heard most guys find it a turn off. But Ive also heard guys love it.
So, I dont really believe all I hear (:





thats exactly how I am. People are usually amazed that I get all stuttery and shy when it comes to boys I like. But I don't know. It's just like, I shut off. And I get all shy and red ):

Go you making the first move!!
Personally if I was a guy I'd be
delighted to have a girl with guts.

At first I thought I was going to have a
heart attack when I made my "first move"
luckily I choose a nice guy not to mention
someone that obviously liked me.

But I agree with the statement guys usually
don't like girls making the first move. I've told
only two guys how much they impacted my life
and how I wanted to be friends with them as long as possible.

And from that I got somewhat of a
negative response that pissed me off.
Kind of funny it's two guys that I'm still close friends with.

Eh, maybe girls making the first move leaves
an impression on a guy although
it's not always the best impression?

ohmigosh ....you acted exactly how my ex before when i was a shy vulnerable kid . most dominant women are like that . but now not anymore i totally changed after that. i was more open , and a little bit more spontanteous after that , so she wasnt into me anymore .

Aw good luck!

I'm lucky if I can even get that far. I freak out and start shaking right before. But once it's done it really is a great feeling.

Hope everything works out!

^ I knooooow ! I got all like, jittery and shaky.
It felt like something was throttling me from the inside haha.

Beaaaaaaaaaaast. Savaaaaaaaage.

Yes, Bella!

Na, I don't make the first move.Dude always does it. Hahaha

'Scuse my ignorance, but what exactly was your "first move?" What does that mean exactly? You kissed him? You told him you liked him?

I'm always kind of nervous if I do, because you never really know how they'll react.

Nahh it aint ignorance.

I engaged in oral sex with him.


























HAH ! JK.
I told him i liked him.

hahah...sheesh..I thought I couldn't be THAT outa' the loop.

Anyway..good on ya', really, hope you get the reaction you're looking for. How did you tell him? Whenever I've told or been told, I must say, it really gets your heart pumpin for awhile..

Yeah, it does. It felt... like WHOOSHING.

I basically told him I'd always been too shy to talk to him, but I thought he was cute and I'd like to get to know him.

nicely done..not too much n' not too little, how'd he react?

That is me right there! :)
Good luck. ^^

I know that feeling =P That's how I felt after asking my boyfriend out...it was just like...whoa, did I actually ASKED him out? Knowing that he liked me definitely made it a lot easier but it was just...wow. I was in an overly happy hyper mood for the rest of the day after he said yes

It was aaaaall good until my feelings started change, sort of. I still like him, and everything but Im not sure anymore. Im so self-conscious and I always put myself down and think I'm not good enough for him. So i'm trying to stop that, and maybe we can pick it up. But I dont think I can have a relationship with someone until I have confidence and believe in it. Cos otherwise it ain't gonna happen.

FOR SEEEEEEEEEEERIOUSLY. A mi tambien.

So you know how some boys find it a turn off, but usually shy boys love it 'cause well, they can't do it, so when the girl does it's like YES SHE LIKES ME TOO OMFG.

No really, though, congrats. I get that feeling everytime, too, so good luck with everything.

Awesssomme, I'm not the only girl that likes to make first moves! Girl power! It's such a rushy feeling.

Congrats, though. I hope he give's you the perfect response.