Ever since I was born, I was fine with my surroundings, who I was friends with, the community, the schools, relationships, etc. It started to get buried after 6th grade. During 4th-6th grade I made a lot of friends I can sure go to when I'm in trouble, who I can trust 100% of the time no matter what situation. After 6th grade graduation, I was excited for middle school. I was thinking "Oh it'll be the time where things would get more exciting" .. but like weeks later in the summer, they say we're going to move sometime this week. I was f**king mad and sad at the same time. I had to leave every shit behind and had to start over. So I moved to this town and it was totally different. The population was less, more whites, more quiet, boring ... so obviously I had attend middle school there. It was f**king miserable. I got suspended, got racial remarks from dirty white people, and had backstabbers. Before where I lived, I had about 20 close friends I hung out with, and here, I only have like 4. I begged my parents to move back but they were like "No" .. I just don't feel comfortable here. But now that I'm in high school in this town, I hope things would be fresh but it's going alright. Still f**ked it up. ever been ina situation like this?

This isnt exactly about your parents. But thanks for the life story.
What exactly do you want us to do?

Your parents made you. You were in your mom stomach. deal

Having many friends isn't always everything.

There's got to be a reason behind why you all moved? You'll make more friends, but I don't know if it'll be 20 but you'll make more. And the racial remarks would probably degrade me.

it's one of the most worst/sad/aggravating/depressing experiences in your life .. trust me.

Like Suzzette said, it's not your parents fault that you dont have as many friends as you used to. And trust me, you will be in a situation worse than this one some day in your life. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Atleast you're not somewhere where everybody hates you.

true, you just have to get used to your surroundings. if you don't like it, just deal with it. that's how life is.

it seems to me that your racist. you can't call caucasians "dirty white."
you seem kinda messed up. no wonder they all hate you

AIYAAAAH.
Dirty white peeporrr!

I AM NOT EMO. ASIANS ARE NOT EMOS. Do I look like an emo to you? STFU. I hate emos too. Your an emo if you dress like an emo, look an emo, too emotional, or listen to emo music. I'm not into all four of them.

Lol....

Way to stereotype yourself.

Pretty interesting to read. e-Comedy aint so bad.

L...O...L

^ haha.

*sigh... get over it, really. it's life, things happen.

"Asians are not emo."

First of all: http://i71.photobucket.com/albums/i159/tor...akgrl/Asian.jpg

Second of all:
Do you honestly think someone 2000 miles away on the internet gives a shit? Does it make you feel good when you take out your anger on others? If you have issues, don't come crying to us. We don't personally know you, so how can we care? It's not the town that's bad, okay? It's your attitude and the way YOU'RE approaching it. Yes, those racist comments were unnecessary. So is stereotyping an entire race of people based on the actions of a few. Maybe if you try to change your attitude and your perspective, things will get better. Playing the blame game is always easier than acknowledging that YOU are the problem, which you are.

Dude, I'm about to eat some Costco Hot dogs in about 30. I can't wait!

OMG that can't be an asian!??!!? LIFE AS WE KNOW IT IS OVER!

Lol, hes got some funny nipples.

hahahahahahahahaha

woweee

No, its never happened to me. It must be hard but, eventually, you'll get used to your new friends.

thats just life. it has its ups and downs.

you'll survive.

how can you slap a race restriction on who can and cant be emo?

anyone can be emo.thats what is great about america you can be white and like rap music
you can be mexican and love heavy metal.
why you could be black and preppy who cares

god bless america

ROFL, OMG I knew this was a Jason topic. I can just about guess your topics.

You gotta start stylin on ppl man, don't let them style on you.

The world doesn't need more disrespectful people. -__- I suggest you learn to respect your parents more and realize that it's difficult to raise children, especially with stubborn and selfish ones like yourself.

Moved to Relationships.

Damn, your still a hell of alot better off than I have been for years. Imagine being in a Democrat, Liberal, agnostic in a Conservative Christian school full of stuck up rich kids. And being the only one.

Your lucky you've only had to relocate once. I've known kids who've moved from state to state SEVERAL times. Plus, being in elementary school is different. I had tons more friends back then too. Quit trying to blame your parents. Did you ever think you might have less friends for a reason? People are probably getting tired of your bitching.

yes it's happened to me but i learned to deal. it's not your parent's fault anyway. you sound like you're the only person in the world who has to move into a new town and is familiar with no one. of course moving to a new place sucks. just get over it. it's not like you can change the past now.

QUOTE(Statistik @ Jan 6 2007, 11:54 AM)

it's one of the most worst/sad/aggravating/depressing experiences in your life .. trust me.

LOL no

I'm 17 and I've moved 11 times in my life, and I'm doin fine. Hey, here's an idea! If you weren't such a douchebag, maybe you'd have friends!



But probably not.


Edit// I should probly put some helpful crap in here. Your parents didn't move for the sole purpose of 'ruining your life'. They probably moved to put your family in a better economic situation. Moving ain't bad, you can still keep in touch wit your friends.

big deal at least your still in america
i was stuck as a kid moving to puerto rico,then mexico then i had to move to the US.then later on as a exchange student move to the UK and now im in ireland.
and im only 17 =]
so my point is. make the best of what you have

Who gives a shit? In 3-4 years you won't even CARE whether you made friends with particular people or not.

I've moved. A lot. I changed continents. I'm sure it's for good.. stop whining.

^ Haha, I had to move to Ireland too. Most of the time I just moved around California.

...maybe if you stopped snapping at people for no good reason and being such an ass you'd make more friends.
People move all the time. Quit whining. Try being more open and friendly. Embrace your surroundings. Get off cB and work on your social life a bit if it bothers you that much.

^Lol. Just be nice to people. Talk to people and stop whining on cB and become social with people who actually live near you. Then you'll have plenty of friends. Just suggesting. don't get offended by anything i said...

I act how I acted before I moved here .. finding an asian person hanging out with white people are rare here. that's why I hesitate to go around them. I just go to this school to get educated.



I'm crying? I can't share some stories? See there's a RELATIONSHIP section on createblog. It's an online community. People are feel freed. In case you didn't know, I asked if some of you guys had any of these experiences, dumbass.

ok theres no need to critcize on how he feels . just state him the facts . maybe part of personality has a sensitive side on him and maybe could of ultamitely affected him and through his events.


hmmm i think i can quite agree. but it can lead to your parents fault , and can also lead too your fault . who knows , if you need some talk you can pm me later

You're what, twelve?
For future reference, calling someone "dirty white" will probably never help you out of any situation you're in.

okay oaky okay dude first lets not go there k ? u have no idea wat my parents done to me k.
1 GET OVER IT!!!
2 IT AINT GONNA SOLVE ITS SELF
3 theres such a thing as aim go talk to ur old friends
4 GROW UP
5 thats life deal with it if u cant then thats just sad
6 plz dun post another topic like this cuz everyone gonna start flaming each other

p.s ADMIN close this topic before some flaming war begins.

Are you kidding me? I't be completely different if you started a topic about how you've had a hard time adjusting to moving, and making friends in your school. Then that would be totally understandable, and people would give suggestions/help. But when you come off a a totally spoiled ass, and drag your parents into claiming that they ruined your life, hah. YEAH RIGHT, LIKE SOMEONE'S GONNA FEEL BAD FOR YOU.

All I can do is laugh.

Yeah, this really should be closed...

You can choose your friends but you can't choose your family... XD

well, changes happen in life. DEAL with it.

1. like what the others said above, maybe if you changed your additude, you would have much more friends.
2. maybe if you stopped calling them "dirty whites" they'll stop being mean to you.

jason, treat others the way you want to be treated. i'm pretty sure you learned that rule in elementry school. quit crying about it, and be thankful that you even have parents and that you're fortunate that they are still owning you. karma's just gonna hit you back in the face and then you'll start to realize it, so you better start to show some respect.

i really dont think that they moved to intentionally ruin your life. they did it maybe for another reason. i dont get why they would spend money to ruin your life. they're your parents for god sakes. they would rather keep you happy.

HAHAHAHAHA. I love that. Thank you.

Okay, I'm not going to be all sensitive and dumb crap like that. Dude, chill out. Your parents didn't ruin your life. I know families that move every three to four years. Listen, you're going to be miserable if you think miserable. Make the best of it. Life's not over. Deal with the situation and grow a pair.

I love it when people who have the most things, have a good life, and are comfortable to quote you, complain. If you think your life revolves around your teenage years, your wrong.



HAHAHAHA. Josh....Such a kidder.

First off, quit whining like a little bitch because that's how you come across to me with that post. Second, don't expect anything to change with an attitude like that.

try goin through that every some odd years ive been to 13 schools and im a senior in highschool...life goes on

wtf so i have treat people nicely on the internet? wtf wrong wit u

I don't see why the concept wouldn't apply on the internet.

^ true

This is why noone is really contributing to how your parents ruined your life.