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voguelove
wow..this thing has only been going on for 2 days. and already, theres 3 pages.

you guys, just leave her alone.
imagine having a tight group of friends who you had to leave. he's just venting to us.

although, id have to say that the whole sterotyping thing is just..a tad overboard. we're turning it into something HUGE.

i listen to "emo" bands. (death cab, the early november, ect, ect.) but im definitely not emo. _smile.gif
Simba
Jason (Statistik) is a male. _smile.gif
AngelinaTaylor
^ REALLY?!?!??







Haha, I know.
miceylulu
I think you have come off as a miserable person to others in your new town. You moved with a bad attitude and some people might really like their home. But you were like, "This sucks, I hate everything, RAWR." So, that's a possibly reason why they don't like you.

And it's not your parents' fault. They didn't make the people you're surrounded by.
I Shot JFK
Look.

I moved to a whole new country and had to start again. I sulked for, oh, about a year. And things only got better when I realized that we weren't going to up stakes and move back. I still keep in contact with people I knew, and there is no reason why you can't do it with your old friends. if anything, Nicki and I are possibly closer now than we would have been if I'd stayed there... who knows?

The bottom line is dont waste your life wondering 'what if I'd never moved', because you have. If you don't feel immediately comfortable with most of the people there, power through. Yea, it might be awkward and suck at first, but if you keep at it with a decent attitude (i.e not saying things like 'asians aren't emos', which creates a bad impression), it will only get better.

And even if you never become part of a huge crowd, so what? You said yourself you 'only' have 4 or so close friends, but friendsarent generally measured in numbers... quality over quantity and so forth.

Oh, and on a side note, blaming your parents won't help. Been there, done that. Chances are, they miss elements of where ever you lived before, and having someone whine at them wont generate any sympathy.
x1227x
QUOTE(Statistik @ Jan 7 2007, 7:16 AM) *
wtf so i have treat people nicely on the internet? wtf wrong wit u


what's wrong with YOU? maybe if you changed your additude you would make more friends and that is why everyone bashes you because you never like to admit that you're wrong. i dont get why you wouldn't treat people with respect online and in real life. -sigh- if you dont want to treat people with respect online, then maybe you should get off this forum because cB doesn't have time to deal with someone like you, jason.
JerzDevil
QUOTE(x1227x @ Jan 7 2007, 2:59 PM) *
what's wrong with YOU? maybe if you changed your additude you would make more friends and that is why everyone bashes you because you never like to admit that you're wrong. i dont get why you wouldn't treat people with respect online and in real life. -sigh- if you dont want to treat people with respect online, then maybe you should get off this forum because cB doesn't have time to deal with someone like you, jason.


i don't act like this at all in school. just ask anyone who goes to my school. they'll just say im a chill, laid-back, focused kid. Attitude has nothing to do with making friends here. I am acting the same way as I acted in schools where I used to live before, and I made plenty of friends there. Here, it's kind of hard here because many people don't share the same interests as me and a lot are white people
miiichellley
Well, you can't force the whole world to cooperate with you but the best you can do is start talking to the people who haven't dissed you yet and maybe you could pluck some friends out of that. come on at least try. And white people and asians are not 100% different. I'm sure you share interests with some of them..
latinprep12
wow i'm sorry i know what you went threw i moved from manhattan, new york city to a small town called wildwood in florida and in new york i had friends for 13 years in that area and then i moved and it was so so different, but its all up to you to make the best of it.
x1227x
QUOTE(Statistik @ Jan 7 2007, 12:18 PM) *
i don't act like this at all in school. just ask anyone who goes to my school. they'll just say im a chill, laid-back, focused kid. Attitude has nothing to do with making friends here. I am acting the same way as I acted in schools where I used to live before, and I made plenty of friends there. Here, it's kind of hard here because many people don't share the same interests as me and a lot are white people


I'm not shocked that you haven't been beaten up yet with that kind of additude.
PINAYSTER
not your parents fault.
but if you don't seem to look past that.. then get away from them i guess
you're in high school?? so your parents have kept you living up till then..
they gave you life and yet you hate them.
wow.
miiichellley
Yeah..anyway if you still think it's all your parent's fault at least be glad they chose to take care of you and not dump you in some orphanage.
JerzDevil
QUOTE(x1227x @ Jan 7 2007, 3:31 PM) *
I'm not shocked that you haven't been beaten up yet with that kind of additude.


You wouldn't want to see them TRYING to beat me up. They beat me up, and I do violent actions, I'm not guilty at all. It's like ping pong. Something hard is thrown at me, I throw something hard back. What caused me to? That first move.
x1227x
Well maybe if you didn't act like the kind of jerk you are, you wouldn't be beaten? Ever thought about that?
JerzDevil
^My personality online is nothing like my personality in school. Trust me.
x1227x
That's pretty hard for me to believe. Also, I dont necessarly think that they moved to make your life miserable.
AngelinaTaylor
Man, considering all that drama you create, it's amazing how you're not a chick.
lovescream
QUOTE(Statistik @ Jan 7 2007, 12:18 PM) *
i don't act like this at all in school. just ask anyone who goes to my school. they'll just say im a chill, laid-back, focused kid. Attitude has nothing to do with making friends here. I am acting the same way as I acted in schools where I used to live before, and I made plenty of friends there. Here, it's kind of hard here because many people don't share the same interests as me and a lot are white people

okay. you don't have to POINT OUT the fact that they're white..
you live in america. mellow.gif this place is filled with white people. should it matter that they're white?
xTINAA
Parents ruined your life...? I'm pretty sure they GAVE you life. And it's not like the reason why they moved was to make your life miserable. Grow up...things like this happen to everyone all the time. You gotta learn to deal. Saying things about white people who supposedly say things about you, doesn't make you any better by the way.
datass
Ohh. That sucks, I moved and lost all my friends too sad.gif
I Shot JFK
Jason, out of genuine interest, why ARE you pointing out that they're white?
krnxswat
dumbf**k, no one gives a crap about you in real life AND on the internet, HOW MUCH MORE PATHETIC CAN YOU BE!?
Duchess of Dork
How old are you? Not to be disrespectful, but you seem quite young. How could your life possibly be ruined yet?

Look, no one has that much control. The only person with enough control to ruin your life is you.
turntabletux
Statistik,

When I was younger I moved around everywhere. My dad was in the Army so we had to move between states all of the time. I moved around from Kentucky, South Carolina, New York and New Jersey for years until I finally went and settled in New York.

I was really comfortable in South Carolina. I had a lot of friends, most of which were close. But whenever the Army wanted my father somewheres else than that is what happened. To this day I only have 2 really close friends. I guess the only advice I would have is to roll with the punches. I still search local libraries for the guidebook to life ^_^
-Ant
x1227x
QUOTE(Duchess of Dork @ Jan 8 2007, 10:15 AM) *
How old are you? Not to be disrespectful, but you seem quite young. How could your life possibly be ruined yet?

Look, no one has that much control. The only person with enough control to ruin your life is you.


^ I believe that he's about 14-15 years old.

-Sigh- Jason, everything happens for a reason, just deal with it like everyone else does.
multifaceted
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jan 8 2007, 1:10 PM) *
dumbf**k, no one gives a crap about you in real life AND on the internet, HOW MUCH MORE PATHETIC CAN YOU BE!?


same with you... no one gives a crap about your gf and your so called anniversary and your life.

ask yourself how much more pathetic can YOU be?
krnxswat
QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Jan 10 2007, 10:40 AM) *
same with you... no one gives a crap about your gf and your so called anniversary and your life.

ask yourself how much more pathetic can YOU be?



Uh..... actually they do? So, you can just shut the f**k up :)
I Shot JFK
QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Jan 10 2007, 3:40 PM) *
same with you... no one gives a crap about your gf and your so called anniversary and your life.

ask yourself how much more pathetic can YOU be?

I would like to point out that quite of a lot of people gave advice and commented on the anniversary that no one gives a crap about...
Uronacid
QUOTE(I Shot JFK @ Jan 10 2007, 4:48 PM) *
I would like to point out that quite of a lot of people gave advice and commented on the anniversary that no one gives a crap about...


yeah, me and my friends added alot fo comments about his 17 month "anniversary"... because it was such a huge joke.. LMAO

QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Jan 10 2007, 10:40 AM) *
same with you... no one gives a crap about your gf and your so called anniversary and your life.

ask yourself how much more pathetic can YOU be?

Quoted for truth...
Shahin
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jan 8 2007, 10:10 AM) *
dumbf**k, no one gives a crap about you in real life AND on the internet, HOW MUCH MORE PATHETIC CAN YOU BE!?


Whoa there. Chillax.

QUOTE
same with you... no one gives a crap about your gf and your so called anniversary and your life.

ask yourself how much more pathetic can YOU be?


Damn....well...you got him.

QUOTE
How old are you? Not to be disrespectful, but you seem quite young. How could your life possibly be ruined yet?

Look, no one has that much control. The only person with enough control to ruin your life is you.


He's like twelve. Or something.
priyas
^^i thought he was in highschool. so he's prolly older.

QUOTE
dumbf**k, no one gives a crap about you in real life AND on the internet, HOW MUCH MORE PATHETIC CAN YOU BE!?

thats mean!.
Shahin
^^oh well, was a guess.
x1227x
^ Correct me if I'm wrong but I think that he's about about 14-15.
moninja
he's 15. does it really matter? can't you guys just let the problem go? mellow.gif
drummergirlmarimba
im sorry, but are you freskin serious? just cuz you move you talk as if your parent literally ruined your life. toughen up. and plus... how can you have 20 CLOSE friends?... iono sounds like ou're paranoid to me. also... sry, no offense, but how is that so bad? you think you're life is ruined... my friend whos 16 has 3 jobs + school everyday, and the jos arent for her. its for her PARENTS, who gamble away so much of their money, that they cant even pay for the rent for their house. so my friend pays for them. and she lives by herself. what do you think of that?
Shahin
QUOTE(UHH @ Jan 10 2007, 6:42 PM) *
he's 15. does it really matter? can't you guys just let the problem go? mellow.gif


Chillax, we were answering a question. And be fair, everyone has to have their turn.
krnxswat
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jan 10 2007, 6:39 PM) *
yeah, me and my friends added alot fo comments about his 17 month "anniversary"... because it was such a huge joke.. LMAO
Quoted for truth...


Dude. You need to stop talking and embarassing yourself. The more you open your mouth, the more I can't help but feel sorry for your sorry self. :*(
Uronacid
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jan 11 2007, 4:02 AM) *
Dude. You need to stop talking and embarassing yourself. The more you open your mouth, the more I can't help but feel sorry for your sorry self. :*(


Damn, your making me feel sorry for myself... you should leave the site. Your hurting my self-image. rolleyes.gif

I think you should post another topic about how sweet you are to your girlfriend so you can receive praise for it and feel good about yourself. Man, I wish I had the balls to do that. whistling.gif

Like my good friend Jeremy said:
QUOTE(The Abominable C-Pillar @ Jan 8 2007, 11:21 PM) *
Watch as your plans take fruit. I'm sure that's the only reason you posted this one. But if she really means something to you, try some damn subtlety.


You did exactly what he said you would do. You're so pathetic that the entire time you were on your "anniversary" trip in your attic, you took pictures so that people on CB could see how "great" you are. Way to pump yourself up. I hope you feel good. xD

Stop using this site to tear people down and build yourself up. Stop making fun of the new members in this community. Either that or... you could... well, you know... suck it.
Duchess of Dork
Hey - Sean and Josh, could you guys please take your conversation to PM? Pretty please?

Most of us are just over seeing you guys argue. shrug.gif I don't want to do the warn thing or close a thread thing because of the bickering.
Uronacid
QUOTE(Duchess of Dork @ Jan 11 2007, 10:45 AM) *
Hey - Sean and Josh, could you guys please take your conversation to PM? Pretty please?

Most of us are just over seeing you guys argue. shrug.gif I don't want to do the warn thing or close a thread thing because of the bickering.


No prob
krnxswat
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jan 11 2007, 10:39 AM) *
Damn, your making me feel sorry for myself... you should leave the site. Your hurting my self-image. rolleyes.gif

I think you should post another topic about how sweet you are to your girlfriend so you can receive praise for it and feel good about yourself. Man, I wish I had the balls to do that. whistling.gif

Like my good friend Jeremy said:
You did exactly what he said you would do. You're so pathetic that the entire time you were on your "anniversary" trip in your attic, you took pictures so that people on CB could see how "great" you are. Way to pump yourself up. I hope you feel good. xD

Stop using this site to tear people down and build yourself up. Stop making fun of the new members in this community. Either that or... you could... well, you know... suck it.


Wow. You are so unbelievably wrong. But, sure, why not! :)
mocassinsx29
Wow, now that's a lot of e-Drama! Anyway.

People have it a lot worse. All I can say is study hard and go to a good college (or not so good college, don't matter) and start anew.
corohehe
damn crybaby. this little bitch never shuts the f**k up about his gayass life. he thinks he's gangster too or something, when he's just a little weak bitch. f**k i swear he never stops bitching.
show_me
QUOTE(Statistik @ Jan 7 2007, 3:49 PM) *
^My personality online is nothing like my personality in school. Trust me.

Its too much fun making fun of jason. Trust you?

Trust you like how you made up holla-front interviews lol!
corohehe
^rofl. he probably did make up that gay interview. he copied and pasted snoop dogg's words for his own.
justchecking
Thats life. As you grow up friends change and situations change. My parents moved towns when i began high school and yeah i had to leave alot of friends behind. Within weeks I had made new friends and my best friend till today i met at high school.

Your life is not ruined, you just scared of change. Change though is inevitable.

You need to take life as it comes and not dwell on the past and there are tougher challenges ahead for you. If this bogs you down, you got a surprise coming when life throws some real curve balls at you.
anjelikar
yeah, but like i dint move i just go to a whole diffrent highschool in a whole diffrent city 1hour away not as bad but still sucks majorly
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