what would you do if your significant other's mom said that it's either the both of you break up or that sig. other is moving away somewhere else.

my friend's kinda in this situation right now and i'm not sure how to help my friend

hmmm break up, but continue "seeing" each other [:

That's horrible! But yeah.. pretend to go along with it and sneak behind her back. What she doesn't know won't hurt her. =] Just try to help cover your friend along the way since I'm sure she might be nervous about sneaking around depending on how the mother is.

maybe pretend you broke up, then just, don't
haha and just don't tell his mom

My friend was in that position too and they just kept on breaking up and going back together.

I dunno, usually parents have pretty good reasoning behind that stuff... it depends on why...

Kinda keep it low profile, i guess. Dont make it too obvious. they probably can't see each other very often without people knowing, but they should try to stay in touch as often as possible.

break up and continue to be in touch. long distance relatlationships dont work out too well

"Break up" but be together technically, like hang out at school and stuff.

Wait til' they're 18.

her mom doesn't like my friend is because he's not from where she's from, so her mom thinks it's bad.

is it cuz hes black.

he's asian as well
it's just htat he's not from a certain part of china where she's from.

i find that ridiculous

That's pretty much exactly what happened to me last year. Her father just simply wouldn't let me date her. Her family was moving to Florida, and she was able to stay up here. Her father just said no more to dating me and dragged her down to Florida. I shoulda' punched him in his face!

We "weren't" together for a while. That lasted for about a month. It's a really shitty situation though! :-[
-Ant

thats crazy to spend alot of money moving away over something as lame as this. I think your friend should just break up with him but keep in touch with each other. her parents and his parents should have a chat and then her mom needs to get a reality check that this is the MODERN world. But i think if they like really really LOVE each other then they should stay together no matter what and keep seeing each other no matter how far away they are to make her mom even more angry that she cant keep them apart.

tell her or him to talk with their parents asking for an explaination