Full Version: The youngest age where itz wrong to lose it...
I think the only appropriate age to lose it is when your able to support your worst case scenario. If you cant live with the consequence you shouldn't be taking the risk.
You should not have sex without being educated in uses of condoms and birth control .
Any age 15 and up. Personally, I would wait until the age of 18.
Any age 15 and up. Personally, I would wait until the age of 18.
QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jan 2 2007, 7:17 PM) 
Well, that's very nice.
In my eyes, you shouldn't have sex until you are married. That's something you should give to your husband, and once it's gone it can never be replaced. I think teens spread their legs too damn easily. There isn't a really a "youngest age". Like age 1 is too young, but age 14 is too young too. So until you are in a bond that will last a life time don't make decisions that come attached with responsibilities and consequences you can't handle.
I've had two friends that have gotten pregnant and honestly, I felt bad for them yeah..but in a way I didn't. If you can't handle adult responsibilities then don't do adult things. "Ohhh I'm wearing a condom". You can be on birth control, your guy could be wearing a condom, be on the pill, the patch whatever---and still get pregnant. Because they are not 100% effective, and the only thing that is 100% effective against STD's and pregnancy is abstinence.
Just look at your life in a timeline with the average human life expectancy.
<------5------10------15------20--------------------------------------------------------------------------------70--->
Teens are losing their virginity around 15 these days. Why would you want to f**k up so early in the timeline and catch an STD or get pregnant? I know we're not gonna all live 'till 70, but I want to. So I'm not gonna make big decisions too early in my life when I'm too young to understand them.
SO, to answer your question you are too young when you can't handle the consequences of what you're doing.
In my eyes, you shouldn't have sex until you are married. That's something you should give to your husband, and once it's gone it can never be replaced. I think teens spread their legs too damn easily. There isn't a really a "youngest age". Like age 1 is too young, but age 14 is too young too. So until you are in a bond that will last a life time don't make decisions that come attached with responsibilities and consequences you can't handle.
I've had two friends that have gotten pregnant and honestly, I felt bad for them yeah..but in a way I didn't. If you can't handle adult responsibilities then don't do adult things. "Ohhh I'm wearing a condom". You can be on birth control, your guy could be wearing a condom, be on the pill, the patch whatever---and still get pregnant. Because they are not 100% effective, and the only thing that is 100% effective against STD's and pregnancy is abstinence.
Just look at your life in a timeline with the average human life expectancy.
<------5------10------15------20--------------------------------------------------------------------------------70--->
Teens are losing their virginity around 15 these days. Why would you want to f**k up so early in the timeline and catch an STD or get pregnant? I know we're not gonna all live 'till 70, but I want to. So I'm not gonna make big decisions too early in my life when I'm too young to understand them.
SO, to answer your question you are too young when you can't handle the consequences of what you're doing.
i totally agree. Thats the sensible thing to do.
Suzette. genious. (<not sure if i spelled that right, but oh well ;x)
Losing your virginity as a skanky and immature 15 year old is totally different from losing your virginity as a mature and ready 15 year old...so it depends on the person's level of maturity.
...But I would say 12 is a terrible time to lose your virginity regardless of your maturity level; I think it would just mess you up..so I guess that's the exception for me.
...But I would say 12 is a terrible time to lose your virginity regardless of your maturity level; I think it would just mess you up..so I guess that's the exception for me.
"The youngest age where itz wrong to lose it..."
15
15
honestly..i think anything under 16 is too young..but theres some immature 16 year olds out there too..so it all depends on you. i lost mine two weeks ago and im 16. i dont regret it at all because i know i love him..and i plan on staying with him. i know anything can happen to change that but i felt ready.
and just because you know the facts about what can happen doesnt mean anything either. things happen to married couples that they aren't ready for either. accidents can happen whether your married or not.
the only reason your wondering if you were ready or not is because of what people are going to say. thats stupid. it's your personal decision..other people's opinions shouldn't matter. you love him..you stayed with him..and you still seem happy about it.
if this topic was written by a 13 year old then yeah..theres a problem. in my opinion they dont even know what dating is like. eating lunch together at school doesnt count as being in love. so i think only you know when your ready..coming to cb to ask a question like this usually just brings criticism..by some people.
and just because you know the facts about what can happen doesnt mean anything either. things happen to married couples that they aren't ready for either. accidents can happen whether your married or not.
the only reason your wondering if you were ready or not is because of what people are going to say. thats stupid. it's your personal decision..other people's opinions shouldn't matter. you love him..you stayed with him..and you still seem happy about it.
if this topic was written by a 13 year old then yeah..theres a problem. in my opinion they dont even know what dating is like. eating lunch together at school doesnt count as being in love. so i think only you know when your ready..coming to cb to ask a question like this usually just brings criticism..by some people.
i think you should do it when you KNOW you're readyy.
i know someone who lost in in 4th grade.
i know someone who lost in in 4th grade.
it obviously depends on the maturity of the individuals and the depth of the relationship, but honestly: how many 15- or 16- year olds that you know would be ready to handle pregnancy? if you're going to have sex, you MUST be able to deal with the repercussions. whether or not you're using contraception, let's face it - pregnancy can still occur. i, personally, am going to wait until marriage - but for anyone who isn't, 18 seems the best age, considering that anyone younger would most likely have an extremely difficult time raising a child.
QUOTE(PRiiNC3SA @ Jan 1 2007, 5:58 PM)
Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???
Where in the hell did you learn to spell? and May I say English please!
Oh yeah, and I say it depends on if your mature enough or not. and by judging your spelling... it seems to me your like in, what, 2nd grade? lol!
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Jan 1 2007, 10:08 PM)
i think it depends on your mental state of mind. Some people are more mature and have knowledge on sex and are ready, if you know everything there is need to know and you are in love with that person, then you're ready.
Exactly ^_^
But I think the EARLIEST anyone "should" have sex is highschool. At least your slightly more mature, and the boys aren't as openly sexual.
The most important thing would be to know EVERYTHING you can possibly know about sex and its consequences.
that took me forever to readd 
well i agree with mango.peach on this onee
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