Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

i think it depends on your mental state of mind. Some people are more mature and have knowledge on sex and are ready, if you know everything there is need to know and you are in love with that person, then you're ready.

Deffinately not when you type like that...

um, personally..i think anything before the age of 17 is just..sick. you may be mentally ready, but that doesnt mean that your body has matured yet.

uhhhhh there is no specific age.. it just depends who you're talking to. i think that any age under 15 is definitely too early. a lot of people lose their virginity during teen years anyway.. not like i give a crap what they do.. but i think by the time you're 15 or 16, you've had enough of sex education to know to use some damn protection so it isn't really that young.

When your parents still treat you like a kid and don't give you independence. That's when you should not :)

Definitely agree with WHIMSICAL 0NE on this one.

i definetly agree with WHIMSICAL 0NE

I have to agree with you on this one.

first of all the term is "done the deed"

you shouldent have sex if you cant get sleek & classy terms for saying "ive had sex ".

im just saying:mellow:

Aw, come on. "Done the do" always sounded classy to me.

What are you talking about? I can't read a thing!

Ok fine, I lied.
But I did have trouble reading it.


Hey just wondering what is the age where it is way too young to lose it 'cause I already had sex and I know some goody goody people are like that's way too young and others think it's fine so yeah. And I know people will say it's like against God and you should wait till marriage well yeah I know all of those but trust me I tried and I wanted it that way but it didn't happen so yeah.



















You type funny.

ii h@b t0 ag33 wiif Angelina Taylor.

What age is it, as you put it, "z wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it". Well, I could tell you age seven and it would answer your question.

How old are you?

And why would it matter if you already, "done the do."

If you have to ask, you're not ready.
I'd say that most people aren't ready for it when they're 16 or younger. That's why most people don't do it until they're in their twenties...
But it's too late now, isn't it? So I don't want to say anything discouraging.
How's this:
GREAT JOB! YOU HAD SEX WHEN YOU WERE'NT READY!
What do you *want* people to say to you?? Bad idea coming to this forum for this...

i was 20 - and i was appauling lol. now i know i'm a lesbian

Suzzette. Why are you such a damn genius. Or at least, more eloquent than most. Sorry if you feel like I'm sucking up to you; it's unintentional.

ok sorry about the way i wrote i have perfet grammar skills believe it or not... it was just way faster to write it like that anyways... im 18 now & i lost it when i was 17 & im still with the same guy that i lost it to... i love him and all and personally my mind was mature, i knew what i was doing... so yea but some of my friends were talking about that one day ;not talking about my case in particular just about that same topic ;were saying that even 17 was way to young ... i just stayed out of it ...personally i didn't think so to me if you want it and you love that one speical person and you think that you will last, then it's fine at any age as long as you're not a child ... and about the done the do and done the deed you know what i meant to me that's a perfect way to describe it and just because i didn't say it right doesn't mean im not ready and the way anyone writes has nothing to do with if your are ready or not i just wanted to see what you guys all thought about the ages but thanks

^Hey, maybe you were mentally mature. But you have to keep in mind everything that would or could happen, not just that you wanted him.

Lots of people think they're going to last. I personally know someone who got pregnant at fifteen... she had the baby and married her boyfriend. They stayed together for six years, then got a divorce.

Just out of curiosity, what do you mean by being mentally mature?

I could barely read that

Personally, i don't think a certain age should really stress this factor (?) I just think like, whenever you're ready and you love e/o, etc etc. A friend supposedly tells me that he knows some 8th graders who have done it already. that sort of scares me

by mentallly i mean that i know everything that could happen to you he lost it to me i lost it to him but before that just to make sure i had him get a test to see if he had an std in case he wasnt telling me the truth i trusted him thought but you know not just beacuse i love him i had to be smart and its better to make sure you know? ... i mean i am an adult now... 18 i lost it at 17 then i knew to use protection and at the same time birth control and all i was ready to take care of a child if i was to get pregnant and all and he was too. and about the 8th graders i've heard that too this girl that used to go to my church ended up pregnant at age 13 had the baby gurl at 14 and she said that she had lost it at 12 to some 18 year old and after him had done 14 other guys .... now that is what i call not ready and immature!!!

by mentallly i mean that i know everything that could happen to you he lost it to me i lost it to him but before that just to make sure i had him get a test to see if he had an std in case he wasnt telling me the truth i trusted him thought but you know not just beacuse i love him i had to be smart and its better to make sure you know? ... i mean i am an adult now... 18 i lost it at 17 then i knew to use protection and at the same time birth control and all i was ready to take care of a child if i was to get pregnant and all and he was too. and about the 8th graders i've heard that too this girl that used to go to my church ended up pregnant at age 13 had the baby gurl at 14 and she said that she had lost it at 12 to some 18 year old and after him had done 14 other guys .... now that is what i call not ready and immature!!!

It's good to know that you seemed pretty ready and all when you lost it and that's a good thing.

^ and yeah, that is absolutely immature. And she goes to church? that's all the wrong combination.

yea she went to church that's the sad thing but then again i cant say much im a pastor's daughter(but then they do say oreachers kids are the worst ;p) anyways she only went because her parents made her go she hasn't been back in like a year

i tottallyy agree

how long did it take you to write all that

and what the hell is "ik"

i can't read a word you say

I think its pretty understandable to wait til' your married, although I personally think if your around 14 or under its a bit to young to have sex. Although it also goes along with how mature you are as well, and what kind of relationship you have with the person you choose to lose it too.

abstinence, my friend. (wait till marriage)
mike calls me a nun for that, but w/e.

by the way, do you have to type like that? haha, just saying.
agreed with the below.

Agreed, haha.

girls make such a big deal abt sex....the reason girls r afraid to hav sex iz that there is so much pressure created by religion, view of self in society, friends, etc., that, once u finally have sex, u realize how much of a waste of time worrying abt it was. 3 simple rules:
use protection
dont be
use protection

besides stds, sex isnt that big of a deal...society just makes it out to be.

^ your parents would get mad if they found out

that is awesome. i am so printing it out.

Hahah.



Anyway, I think anyone under 16 should really not be having sex, and those who are under 16, most likely aren't mature enough. Hell, most people who are having sex aren't ready.

^ It's because people (teens) are so pressured.
And really curious, especially

it depends

any age is appropriate as long as you are responsible enough to deal with the consequences

i cant really understand you but hmm when you are mature enough i guess

QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Jan 1 2007, 9:20 PM)

Deffinately not when you type like that...

HAHAHAHAHA OMG.


yeah like. 14. haha.
i'd wait til your married.

okay. first. please stop typing like that. it would be really helpful

secondly, i myself and waiting until married.

i think thats the best choice.

ehh..first of all; its hard to read what your saying

second of all, i think junior high years are too young to "do it"
but thats just my opinion

The youngest age that is wrong to "lose it" is the age you are when you are still unready to "lose it".

I have no idea why I'm putting "lose it" in quotes either.

I think you should wait until you are married. That way you know you really love this person and are willing to make a commitment to them, instead of just feeling a bit frisky. I definitely don't agree with today's teens having sex just because they're curious. Curiosity killed the cat! And having sex is not safe - pregnancy, STDs, and the possibility of complete mental breakdown when they up and leave.

This doesen't really only apply to girls..

Moved to the lounge.

Mods, if you disagree, feel free to re-move this.

Agreed. But really.... It just depends.

Excluding rape, anywhere from 1 to 17.

IF THERE'S GRASS ON THE FIELD IT'S TIME TO PLAY BALL IF NOT YOU CAN PLAY IN THE MUD

Haha I get it. That's a good one. I give it 3.5/5 stars.

Anywho! I think it is wrong to lose it if you're below 18.

When your questioning it still then its not the right time. You should be 100% ready to do it, with no questions to go along with it either. I say when your under 16 its still a bit young, maybe even waiting til your 18 or older or even married.

We have similar topics like this in Relationships so I will move this there.

Man, I hate reading this... learn to talk to people on the internet...

I think that sex should be a mutual thing, and people shouldn't have sex unless it's mutual.

14.
Thats when I gave it up.
Guess it just depends on who
you are.