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NatiMarie
Right now, I haven't been so cheery. Have any of you felt that your friends just don't consider you in anything?
What I mean is this...like they make plans, and don't include you in it?

Lately this has been happening to me and then I start feeling so lonely and left out. I mean, before it was great for me but now everything is just going down hill. I don't know, but today I feel so sad. Usually I don't care but I'm slowly getting deteriorated and losing all the energy that I once had. I'm going so sensitive and I my palms get so sweaty. Before they never did, but I don't know, I feel so tense and just sad. I don't know why I'm going through this. It sucks because I feel like the 'friends' that I thought were going to be there for me...aren't.

My eyes are slowly opening and seeing that all the stuff they tell me, saying that they understand me, means nothing. They don't care, because I'm usually the one trying to make plans for us to get together. Why am I the only one trying?

I'm sorry I made this long...I just had to vent out. I need someone to talk to... sad.gif

I can't take all the things thrown at me...I don't know what to do...
hybrid
Aww, cheer up! I know how you feel. In fact, right now, I'm in the same state. sad.gif

But cheer up! _smile.gif Happiness will come.. soon. happy.gif
xrachx
Hey babe,
Cheer up! *hugs*
I have been through this a few times and I know it's hard (currently undergoing it a little bit) but you'll get through it. It's just a bad chapter of your life...many good ones to come. _smile.gif
And it's good to get it out..it may sound hard but sometimes its actually nice to talk to a parent or sibling. I usually avoid this but when I do actually open up it lifts a weight off my shoulder.
Otherwise you can always open up to us CB members.
xx
X serenity
i've felt that way, but then i always say, "what about me???" laugh.gif .. maybe you just need to tell them how you're feeling? cheer up though. _smile.gif
Godsend
well, hav u ever felt heartless like me, feeling lyk u dont care about anythang in da world? but i'll get over it...in a year or two...
177emories
awwws that sad =( you should talk to them and let them know... and maybe ur not included for some reason... u should ask why...
Winter
I feel the same. I used to be in the top class but slowly, my grades started dropping so now I'm in a lower class. My friends in the top class don't include me in their mall trips anymore...

But it's cool you know. Coz then you know who are your real friends. Like now I'm pretty tight with some of the girls in my class. Before that, I thought they were a couple of b*tches but thy're actually really nice.

You sound like the me of some time back. Girl you gotta get out of that state before you end up like me. Even though I'm depressed and all, I do realise my condition is not very good...
NatiMarie
Thanks everyone. you're comments made me feel better. Thank you *hugs everyone*
Note
aww thats so sad! sad.gif
i gave my opinion away so you should rethink 177emories post. i agree with her.

::jerry::
NostalgicRockChick
Yeah that's happening to me too right now. I used to be really good friends with some people, but now that I don't have any classes with them this year, it's like they're forgetting about me or something. They always hang out with each other, but they never ever call me. Usually I'm the one that has to talk to them. It sucks, but I have since made better friends.
jimmyjackiechan
Ha, hello Nat!

Sorry haven't talked in awhile, been working like crazy.

ne ways, I feel yeah. At times I feel the same way about some people. I found a clique of friends who do listen rather than do that.
AzNl2iCeB0i69
..yea i know how that feels... right now... i feel all alone ..no1 to talk to.. but dat never gets me down.. i concentrate on other stuff.. like my studies and other coricular(sp?) activities.. just to keep myself busy and forget about my problems..
silver-rain
aw, cheer up! I know how you feel though- in middle school- my "friends" left me out of everything. but then i went to high school and lost those friends and got new ones. but my new friends don't include me either, but they don't exclude me. so its all good.
islandkiss
omfg yes. my so-called friends, "e" and "a" always do that. they suck ass.. stubborn.gif
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