DO YOU EVER SOMETIMES STOP AND THINK ABOUT YOUR LOST LOVE? LIKE IT NEVER ENDED BETWEEN YOU TWO. SO YOU SIT AND WOUNDER! WAS THERE SOMETHING ELSE THAT NEED TO HAPPEN FOR IT TO COMPLETLY END BETWEEN YOU TWO? I HAVE THIS IN MY HEAD ALL THE TIME I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH IT REALLY! SOMEONE HELP ME

please don't type in all caps.
and should this be in Relationships?

yeah i've had that, still have it actually. my first bf and me. i still have old emails and stuff from like 2-3 years ago... it's not that i think of it constantly but it's nice to look back and read those emails and it makes you laugh.
try not to think about it so much

err... like ^ said, no caps please.

I think about my first "love" all the time... I think it's necessary to go through all the pain and sadness of remembering them, because eventually it'll get kind of old... and you won't really be sad about it. at least that's what i did.
it'll take time though- be patient. don't do anything stupid like date a guy just to forget about him or anything.

in the end, there's nothing wrong with always remembering your lost love. because it SHOULD be something very significant in your life.

think about him all the time.... my theory is that if you've cared enough about someone enough, no matter what happens after, they'll still have a place in your heart, even if it was a horrible breakup, and you loathe them. A part of you will still love/care about them

Even though I'm deeply in love with my boyfriend now I will never forget my last relationship. I cant just completely forget about him..

I think if you truly loved someone, then you can't and aren't supposed to forget about them. Just don't let thinking about them take over all your time because that isn't healthy. Focus on the present, but look back on your first love as good times.

I have a lost crush, but not a lost love.

And, well, I have a way of blocking every single painful memory out of my mind, so I don't remember much anymore. Although, they're in my mind somewhere. I just don't have the mental capacity to go dig it up.

Find something to diistract you. Or maybe you can talk to him to get some closure. That's all I can say..

I always think about her from time to time, even though we are in two completely different walks of life now. Memories never let you forget. You never really move on, you just learn to live without them.

yes..unfortunately.



=MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS=

no

i have this situation too. and yeahh. i dont know. contact that person? haha, i WOULD, but i don`t know how to reach him.

^ ditto. Well, yeah. It just kinda..faded overtime. Yes, it took some time, but time heals all things, i suppose. But just know that you'll never forget something like this. Not much i can say though. I guess you just kind of adjust to it.

Funny -

For the longest time I'd dwell on my "lost love." Now he rarely enters my mind. I'm not sure how it happened, I just stopped thinking about him. It was totally effortless.

No, I don't really think that way anymore. Something better is always around the corner and your never going to see it until your over the past, so quit dwelling on the past. If you want something else to come out of it then you need to go do it, and not wait for it to happen.

eh I still think about him..
it was two years ago.
and i'm still not completely over him.


just give it time i guess.
and eventually you won't think about it as much..