Ever been in one of those situations where you didn't really know if someone asked you out or not? All day I've been out of it, trying to figure out if he was asking me out on a date or what. But I really didn't post here to complain about anything, just wondering.

Haha, not really? This reminds me of those situations where someones waving and it looks like they're waving to you but then you realize they're waving to someone behind you or something. I hate that. It makes me feel stupid.

I've been in a situation where a guy seemed like he was asking me out and then he changes the subject the next minute and never brings it up again. It's like... 'OKAAAAAAAY THEN."

I guess I'm one of those people you have to be blunt with, because I AM blunt. But it hasn't really happened to me. Neither has the waving thing ^^ that or else I've done that and was too out of it to notice. Haha, it's better that way. Saves me the embaressment.

yeah. i hate that SO much. and the only thing there is to do is talk to them about it.

Haha, that IS confusing! I hate the two words "going out" because you never know exactly what it means.

ask them about it

start off with... "remember (yesterday, last week, etc.) when you were talking about .......... what did you mean by that?"

lmfao he wont talk to me anymore...not that we talked much to begin with. odear...

so you liked him or what?

if you like him then just ask him about it, casually, and see what happens.
that's all you can do...

Well, that probably means that he wasn't asking you on a date.
I dunno though. Maybe he just got embarassed about it.

before i got into my current relationship. i debated if he in fact was asking me out,or just wanting to hang out.


it took me 2 weeks into the relationship to notice we were actualy dating.

lmao

Well, just talk to that person.
Don't assume anything, in some situations, such as this one, assuming can be a very bad thing.

hate when peopel think im flirting but im really not. Always f**king happens.

That happens to me a bit as well.
I get accused of flirting [with both genders mind you] & when I deny such, I get yelled at.

Theres no winning sometimes ...

Some people are just full of themselves and some people are flirtatious by nature.