Ok, I am so in love with this boy named Dustin B. and I have had a crush on him since the last week of 5th grade (which was last yr.). Ever since he has become very popular and my eniemes and friends are going out with him, I feel more for him than be4. I'm not sure if he even notices me. So I need advice. !i!i!i!i I won't respond unless I feel I have to, usually I just read !i!i!i!i

u really cant do anything cuz he has a g.F. i'd still hope that they'd break-up so i could have him, but most likely i'd just forget about it. i dont wanna like get my hopes up just to get crushed in the end.

jackie

That seems reasonable...but I LOVE him....I can hear my heart cracking apart already

and your in 6th grade?? i didnt even know what love was in 6th grade

yea...its extreme

well if he has a gf... i would forget it.. and you said he doesnt even notice you!! it would be different if he did... well i wouldnt do anything about.. lets juss say i would crush from a far...

i don't think its actually LOVE that is occurring here.

it sound like lust to me

prolly is...but u have no idea

"Wait till they're over, then ask him out"

Give him some time though if he was the dumpee that got dumped. He might still like her....First become friends with him, and when he starts to like you back, either wait for him to ask you out, or if he takes to long, ask him out! lol.

lol, yea...maybe I need to 'get' him to like me some how...I have to be charming...lolz...thats what I'm gonna do! thanks every1. I found the good choice!

^^ thats what i did .. nd it work out pretty well

shoot i couldnt spell it.

you know what just get to know him and his friends. they may seem like your eniemies..but you never know.

i guess just wait it out.... just get to know him, and be friends, even if that's the most you'll be...

yea, but there is a saying, keep ur friends close, but your eniemes closerrr

it depends if i think the girlfriends is fair ill let it go and forget about him. if not then "excuse me which girlfriends?"

I voted wait until they're over and ask him out.

This has happen to me before. We started as friends, I liked him a lot but I knew he had a GF. And somehow, he fell in love with me... Sohe broke up with his GF. And a lil while after that, we got together.

You didn't have a 'just be his friend' option or I would have voted that...

well, i say to forget about him. but i'm sure if you really love him, it's not as easy as it sounds. so if it is really that hard, then just wait till they're over. alowing him to cheat is not an option. and sabataging him and his girlfriend's relationship is really cruel. i feel sorry for you. i hope it works out for the best.

forget abt him!.. you'll find another guy.

samething friggin happend to me. but his girlfriend was my bestfriend at the time. after he broke up with her, he asked me out a couple weeks later and then broke up with me for some other girl. and me and my best friend havent been friends since. sad really cause she was a great person and i miss her.

i think youre just infatuated with him... i dont think it's love.. forget about him..

well, you have no idea if its love or what...but I am falling apart cause I love him so much. But honestly since I haven't seen him in a long time (about a week and a half)(he isn't in the yearbook either)I think I am moving on....I kno I still have feelings but screw it, he only noticed me in 5th, and thats over.

ok i got a question. why do you think its love? i was just wondering cause you cant really love someone you barely even know.

After you've sorted out your feelings on love and your guy, just hang out with him casually! You said your friends were dating him? Just hang out as the three of you and get to know him- maybe he isn't all that cracked up as you seem to think he is. Make friends with the guy and once you get to KNOW him, sort out your feelings. =]

...Did you say your friends and enemies were dating him? Sounds like you it's a case of simple jealousy. Now that he's popular, you want him. Your friends and enemies can have him, so it hurts that you can't... Separate those feelings, hun! <=]

Sorry, I'm not trying to judge you, if that's what it seems like. Just saying what it sounds like to me. ^_^;;

It's not probably "LOVE" but "LIKE"....
Advice: If you really still do want to be around him, settle for trying to be his friend. Trust me, you'll be satisfied enough w/o being his gf.

Just be his friend and maybe he'll start to notice you and maybe even like you ^__________^ but don't get your hopes up Good luck

he has a gf...just wait your turn

if he and his girlfriend break up, THEN try to become friends with him. once you become, not nessisarily FRIENDS, but close enough to say "hi" in da hallway or sumfin, find out if hes if hes gunna have anotha girl. if hes not you should respect that. and if he doesnt end up liking you thats his choice and u have to respect that also.

wow.. im in the same exact situation. EXCEPT.. its worse, cuz his girlfriend is my friend. not like best friend.. but still enough of a friend that itd be considered major backstabbing if i ever did anything with . but its nt fair cuz she knew i liked him. grr. hateee her. but i wanna stay on good terms with him (obviously) so i pretend like its nothing. hurts SO much wen i see them all over each other. :'-(

If the guy I like has a girlfriend, I'd remain friends with him, and ask him out some time after they've broken up.

well mai crush had a g/f and they went out for like 9 months they jus broke up and i duno im trying to get over him well hard to explaine

^ That's true, but don't be greedy.


Well, I feel you girl. I know what exactly you're going through. I'd just go find someone else I guess.

I think you should forget about him... If he hardly notices you after a year, how do you expect him to just suddenly notice you unless it's for stereotypical purposes or you start talking to him.

I also doubt its actually LOVE. Like you said.. you're not even sure if he notices you. If he hardly knows you, how can you be sure that YOU know HIM? Relationships usually don't work out as well unless you're friends with them first.

But that's just my opinion so yeah..

Hm.
I'd get to be his friend.
Wait until they split up..
And yeah.
I don't know.

i like dis guy and im not sure if he has a gurlfriend or not and i dunt kno how to ask him....

I usually get over him.

if he has a girlfriend id just forget about it but sometimes you feel what you feel so dont force yourself but you can always try to move on

If you truly loved him, you would want him to be happie. And he's happie with his gf [ im guessing ] so you should be happie too. Does that make sense ?
N e way I think you should just leave it at that..cides yer onlee in 6th grade [ no offense ]. I'm sure there's plenty other doodes out there fer ya.

well i dont really care....ill still love him but not do ani thing stupid like breaking them up!!!

You're in LOVE with him? I don't think that's possible. YOu're just obsessing over him, not LOVE. LOVE is too much of a strong word and it usually occurs when two people BOTH care about each other alot...

Anyways I think you should forget about him. He DOES have a girlfriend. And since he's going out with your enemies, he might not be that great a person if he goes out with them. IDk. But I don't want to be one-sided on this. YOu COULD try to get to know him better and still like him secretly. JUST don't obsess over him so much! Otherwise, you'll get hurt everytime you see him with another girl. There's plenty of fish in the sea. Plus, you're only in 6th grade?! @_@ You stilll have PLENTY of time to meet other guys.

YOu should focus on education now...

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i'd forget about em

young people use the word "love" so lightly... my advice is to stop being so dramatic and get over it! ur in freakin 6th grade.. get real

move on. forget that guy.

awwwww thats hard!!!

i wouldnt want his gf to hate me so i wouldnt want to tell him and act like im trying to steal him away from her!! cuz thats wayy wrongg! they are together soo i voted on ur poll that i would forget about him... theres other fish in the sea

also.. just giving you advice.. popular guys arent always want you want grrr i so regret for doing that!! they hurt u like hell! but hey, the guy ur talkin about can be different so ya idk lol just giving you advice

yeah i dont think u are in love yet. i wasnt in true love in 6th grade LOl. i used to think i loved all the guys i went out with when i was that age.. but come to think of it, naww it was just that "big crush" thing. cuuuteee stuff

i said to forget him. don't worry. boys will come and go. concentrate on your friends and school now.

I don't mean to sound stereotypical but if he's the popular kind that goes out with anybody and everybody (which I'm assuming he does when you said he goes out with both your friends and enemies) he probably isn't ready for a serious relationship. Heck---you should be either! You're in 6th grade and you have a long time to figure out who you want to use that magic word LOVE on. Oh, and try not to obsess over crushes (or at least make that known to them)...playing hard to get (but not TOO hard to get lol) has pay offs and the guys will respect you more. Yes, Hilary is rambling again...time to shut my mouth...I could go on for years

you can't really do anything right now. but wait until you sort out your feelings first. who knows, you might not like him anymore

DONT WANNA SOUND PESSiMiSTiC OR ANYTHiN` BUT i DONT THiNK YOU CAN DO ANYTHiN` EXCEPT WAiT. MAYBE TELL HiM YOU'RE iNTERESTED

wait until ther r over and make your move!