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iateurboyfriend
One of them.. i think i can do alot of stuff with him, and i might feel more open about myself. and more.. outgoing and not shy.

and then the other one. i know i wont stop liking.. and hes just so.. irresistable. and it feels like its going to bed hard.

and please dont say "follow your heart" because.. i TRY to. But its hard for me to.. im a Very undecisive person.. and well, i have 4 days to choose either one of them.
then second person that i was tlaking about, people say that hes mean to them and stuff.
and the first person that i was talkingabout, people say that hes So nice and stuff.
and well.. i need more opinions of who i should pick before next week on wednesday.

can you guys please help me out on this one? =[
x1227x
i suggest the first guy.

why want a guy who is irresistable and you feel like you guys are going to go in bed..?

if you actually want a committing relationship, i suggest the first guy.

the second guy... just seems like a player to me. its not about looks, its also about personality.

i think you could actually be more happier with the first one.

but, its really your decision. :]
iateurboyfriend
Okie.. well... hes not irresistable.. hes just.. like.. you Have to be right next to him. not the seuxal way.. but yeah.... xD hes not a player.. hes only had 1 gf which is.. my aquantaince >_< so yeah. =[
the first one.. he says that he trusts me enough that he is able to lose his virginity with me. and stuff.. but hes not a player. hes just.. Very open about himself.
Chii
Who do you feel like you have a future with? They both seem like great guys but surely one of them has staying power.
-sincerely
QUOTE(x1227x @ Dec 17 2006, 1:30 AM) *
i suggest the first guy.

why want a guy who is irresistable and you feel like you guys are going to go in bed..?

if you actually want a committing relationship, i suggest the first guy.

the second guy... just seems like a player to me. its not about looks, its also about personality.

i think you could actually be more happier with the first one.

but, its really your decision. :]


agreed. happy.gif
BUT
they aren't worth it if they're pressuring you to pick.
demolished
None of them.

You dont ask us to decided your relationship.

It's your commitment. You're going to experience. Take risk and responsibility.
iateurboyfriend
Welll... i mean, when i think about it.
when i think about whats going to happen and the consequences that i'll have >_< wow..
either one i choose i'll be sad.
and if i DONT choose any one of them, then i also Will be sad.
buut.. ok.. i choose the first guy.
i feel like i'll have a future with him.
splitnightsky
^ I think you made a wise decision.
and if the second guy really is your future,
he will come back.
OhMyAnniee
Yeah, they both seem good.
But is it possible that you're only lusting the 2nd guy? I mean, if he's irresistable....... there's a possibility it's just lust.
iateurboyfriend
mmm... true. i just always feel like i Always have to be right next to him.. the second guy.
and well. last night, i was thinking about stuff... me and the first one are going wayy to fast.
we dont know Anything about eachother.. i mean, it feels like it. but we dont.
and the second guy.. we know Alot of stuff about eachother. but it seems that we're only going to be friends.. >_<;;
Cujiine
Well that should be obvious. First guy all the way. It would be like choosing a celebrity over a guy you've known since you were little and who's always been there for you.
thanhmai
You shouldn't have to choose who you want. You should be with someone you know you want to be with, and they're the only one you know for sure you want.
_sarcastic_
QUOTE
either one i choose i'll be sad.
and if i DONT choose any one of them, then i also Will be sad.

if you know you're going to be sad if you chose either of them, then why choose?
jennyjenny
draw a name from a box
LaStiNg4EtErNiTy
you really shouldn't ask us to choose for you because we dont really know those guys.

but the first guy seems better.

and i agree with the other person. it's your life. take a risk.

whatever happens, happens. make sure you dont regret anything.
iateurboyfriend
ok >_> what if.. i choose. None of them? ._.
MeanBastard
Buy a dildo. That's what you want either guys for: sex. Dildo will last longer than both those guys combined. Problem solved.
asung88
second guy. u know him a lot more. and he has that sexual charisma that makes you attract to him. In the end its not about how much still youll be able to do, its who attracts you, and who you know the best about, and who you have the msot felings for.
iateurboyfriend
Oooh.. hm.. i see.
Stefanny
Go with the first guy.

Who cares what everybody thinks? lol, chyea.
iateurboyfriend
Lolll.. ok xD
I will :P XD.gif
showstopper!
Wow. Do they both like you?
lilJdawg
The 1st guy because it seems like you're more comfortable around him.
iateurboyfriend
Mmmm...
><;;
This is hard, honestly =[..
demolished
QUOTE(Cake. @ Dec 24 2006, 5:37 PM) *
draw a name from a box




XD.gif Funniest one in this thread, so far.
demolished
she doesnt deserve a boyfriend. Look at her. "oh, i cant pick one ... pick one for me, cbers !"
iateurboyfriend
x_x
hes right. -.-;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;
SandRAWRz
the first one seems like a friend and the second one seems more of a sex buddy.

but opening up can be very hard so i would choose the first guy b/c it would like be dating your best friend
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