is it considered cheating if your boyfriend talks about doing sexual stuff to your best friend when they're both online, and they sort of roleplay out what they are doing?

truly i think it is..hes probably tryig to get with her..

Um... YES!!!! Kick his arse.

well according to him, he was "joking"....


day1ofmydiet: me and evan
day1ofmydiet: we talking a week or 2 ago
day1ofmydiet: and we started talking about sex
day1ofmydiet: and how
day1ofmydiet: we'd make all these movies together
day1ofmydiet: and wut we'd do in each of them
day1ofmydiet: one owuld be like
day1ofmydiet: lord of the orgasm
day1ofmydiet: and then
day1ofmydiet: we started doing little play by plays
day1ofmydiet: this is my face when i do this ;-)


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Definitely cheating! He wouldn't do that if he respected you...

kick him out..you can always listen to roxy!

yeah i think that would be considered cheating... and ummm isn't that kinda like cybering if they are roleplaying it online? i dunnno...

what emmories said..thats pretty nasty..id be all scared and go whip lash on him!

Aww...Michelle...perhaps she's just saying it like that to make you get mad at him, since all of this is going on and whatnot.

kick his arse, he thinks ur soft. :D dont know what i used that line. lol

it's not really cheating because he isn't physically doing anything with them .. but even the thought of him talking to a best friend while they're on line doesn't strike my fancy .. it makes it hard to trust him because god knows what they must talk about behind your back .. i've seen it happen before and the results aren't always good .. so try to sort this out as early as possible or it may turn into something you wouldn't look forward to dealing with ..

its a sign that he wants to cheat!! watch out!!

well first, he has to do something first besides talk...

well i called him early this morning and he said he wasn't serious, and sabrina said he wasn't serious... but i mean...? augh 9203dslkjf093jcc32 fdgfdgsdfgsdfgdfsgdf

well i guess their not serious than... but than i know what you mean... go kick his ass for even talking about it hehe.

what did that mean..? =P

lord of the orgasms... how embarassing. i just dont know what to make of this whole thing... i mean if you were in this situation, where that girl used to be your best friend but now she's basically your worst enemy... it makes it hecka worse. and the fact that she goes to his school... and i dont... that makes it worse too. i dont know what to do....

Aww...have you told him how upset you are by this at all? You seem to talk to each other a lot...

yeah for like three minutes, i called him before school and didn't say anything, and he was like... what... and i was like explain lord of the orgasms to me. and he was like oh my god michelle that was a joke and i was like well whatever you arent supposed to say shit like that even if it's a joke blah blah blah then he starting freaking out because he was going ot be late, and finally he was like I HAVE TO GO, I LOVE YOU MICHELLE, BYE and he hung up

WOW that is just unusual, seriously it sounds like he is on the verge of cheating or ending the relationship...There is no way in hell I would put up with my bf doing that. I would kick his ass and be done with him

yeah like she said... but than i wouldn't break up with my bf if i loved him... talk to him at a better time where he could actually talk...

you should think to yourself about this one. talk to your best friends and ask her how she feels about your bf...this is a weird situation...

Yes, but they're in the middle of this huge argument.

aaaaaah well i talked to evan on the phone and he's sick today because he's so upset... so i don't know what to do. he thinks i'm going to break up with him, but i'm not... i just want him to understand to not do this anymore... i mean it's really, truly, not cool at all. i just dont know what to do though... i can't talk to sabrina because yeeaaaah im done with that, plus she does stuff like that with guys all the time, but evan... idk..

okay, chick is tryina move in on your man ... she may not even like him like that, but the fact that she goes to his school & u obviously don't, and she knows you & him are ((**sorry, typo )) together ... she's just trying to make you jealous ... but at the same time, your b/f shouldn't play back ... he knows you two aren't talking (for whatever reason) and should respect your feelings ... i dunno, seems to me like he has the potential to cheat ... but that's neither here nor there ... technically, it's not cheating

that's true... but it was distressing all the same i guess

ok im not sure im getting this anymore..

actually its all okay now i didnt want to see him so sad, because he was really upset... and when i say really, i mean really. he made himself sick and yeaaaaah... i'd rather not see him suffer over one mistake he made.

why would he do that in the first place thats why he has you. i dont think its cheating but its stupid to me

yes.