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pikimoo
A lot of people at my school think it's okay to have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend at the same time. And a lot of them do. I just don't think it's right. Isn't it just the same thing as cheating??
LiNHy POO
whoa that doesnt happen in my school!!!! never happen with me b4... i dont care.. there business not mine..
visualfusion
Well, it's basically the practice of polygamy... which is illegal, once in the marrage stage... so why should it be legal in the bf/gf stage?
Winter
That's wrong. That's cheating. Who's wanna get into a weird relationship with 3 people anyway?
craziplaya21
i dont care. it doesnt matter as long as its consensual
xquizit
Bwahahaha. That's cheating, maaayn.
177emories
i think thats alright
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
if it's okay with all of them and there is no lying about the relationships who cares ..
cmgchica717
See I dunno, I would say it is considered cheating but then if they all consent to it who cares so I guess I am nuetral on the matter, and I guess I can say I lean more to Its their business not mine _dry.gif
hybrid
Doesn't really matter. But I think it would be better to love one person. That way, no one feels jealous or anything. _smile.gif
xrachx
Well if a girl is bisexual..the guy usually wouldn't mind the girl having other girls (as long as they're not guys) because a lot of guys find two girls a turn on. That's just my opinion..
However, if the person wants to be taken seriously I guess she/he should just stick to one person.
Snickerz
i don't have too many bisexual friends (that i know of), most are either heterosexual or homosexual, but i could see problems escalating from someone having both a b/f and a g/f as far as jealousy, time, attention, affection, intimacy, etc. is concerned ... but to be honest, it's nobody's business but theirs, so more power 2 ya happy.gif
expoised
that wouldn't be fair, its like a straight person going out with 2 guys or girls at the same time. wacko.gif
f00LisH_h3aRt63
i think its wrong too. i mean how is it different?? but yea my bi-sexual friend he has a g.F and a b.F. i just shake my head at him. its called cheating thats whats it called.

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pikimoo
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melissa,Jun 4 2004, 11:31 PM] that wouldn't be fair, its like a straight person going out with 2 guys or girls at the same time. wacko.gif

^ thats what I thought. Even with consent.. no.
jimmyjackiechan
Swapping spit and other bodily fluids with more than one mate is ewww i think. (Cheating)
xmyapologies
woah.. i think whatever.. let them do whatever they want.. but thats scary to me cuz i dont have any of these situations at my school
inn0centmarianne
whoa that is messed up. that never happens at my school, maybe in highschool? But I never even heard about anything like this going around, I would consider that cheating, doesnt matter if its boy boy girl boy girl girl, still cheating, having more than one person that you "love" at the same time, yup, not right.
GothpunkGClover
what does it matter, as long as they aren't trasnmitting aids all over the place, and they want to do what theyr doing, its theyr problem..polls like this are offensive..no im not gay or w.e i just don't see the point. sad.gif
islandkiss
I chose no.. but I really don't care.
Yemmerz
...that sounds like some strange kind of pimpin goin on there
tinababy143
no because its cheating on both of them with each other..haha..if that made sense
Mr. Psychotic
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 1:17 AM)
That's wrong. That's cheating. Who's wanna get into a weird relationship with 3 people anyway?

shoot if i got into a relationship with 2 girls and they were both hot.... biggrin.gif
thats all im going to say!
::walks away::
LatinaLady
i say it is cheating becasue lets forget about the gender

person a is going out with c and b
its still cheating unless person c and b dont mind then thats just stupid
queen
QUOTE(craziplaya21 @ Jun 4 2004, 8:37 AM)
i dont care. it doesnt matter as long as its consensual

yepp.. if all three parties don't have a problem.. well then let them have their kinky little relationship hahaha.. however, in most other situations, at least one of the three parties would NOT be all right with it.
justdream08
they can do what they want with their life, its not our problem to care, unless you are one of those people
JessJR1022
QUOTE(pikimoo @ Jun 3 2004, 10:43 PM)
Isn't it just the same thing as cheating??

hmmm.... I agree
angel-roh
I D0NT THINK IT`Z RIGHT...THAT`Z JUS GAY..GEZ WHAT IS G0ING 0N THIS EARTH? S0 MANY PPLS WH0 ARE TURNING BISEXUALS, GAY, LESBIANS...GEZ WHATS UP WITH THAT? MAN THATS JUS BAD NASTY... AND HAVING A GF AND A BF AT A SAME TIME IS JUS MESSED UP... MAN THAT SHUD BE LEGAL L0LS!! THAT`Z REALLIE GR0SS F0R HAVING A GF AND A BF AT A SAME TIME..EWW... MAN THAT PERS0N MUSTVE HAVE N0 LIFE 0R S0METHING. WAT A L0SER!! WAT`Z G0ING T0 HAPPEN IN THE FUTURE? PRESIDENT BUSH GETTING GAY MARRYING A GUY DUMPING HIS WIFE. GEZ WTF?! L0LS... MAN THIS W0RLD IS G0ING UPSIDE D0WN!! GEZ
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hurricane_x
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 3 2004, 10:45 PM)
whoa that doesnt happen in my school!!!! never happen with me b4... i dont care.. there business not mine..

my thoughts exactly.
june_
no, thats basically just allowing a straight guy/girl have 2 bfs/gfs
pikimoo
QUOTE(justdream08 @ Jun 7 2004, 9:18 AM)
they can do what they want with their life, its not our problem to care, unless you are one of those people

Okay... you're all saying 'it's their business'

But what if YOU were one of the people in that relationship?
BurstinStarzz
QUOTE(Yemmerz @ Jun 6 2004, 4:12 PM)
...that sounds like some strange kind of pimpin goin on there

haha yeah it does...i think it is wrong...i am sorry but being bi is almost like being gay and if God had intended on having the human race gay he would have made Eve a man!
simplysweet259
couldnt that still be considered cheating?
SarahxJoy
I think it's okay if someone is bisexual and all. Heck, I have a bi friend. But having both a gf and a bf at the SAME time...isn't right. Pick one people! wacko.gif
TBoltzbabe
QUOTE(pikimoo @ Jun 3 2004, 10:43 PM)
A lot of people at my school think it's okay to have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend at the same time. And a lot of them do. I just don't think it's right. Isn't it just the same thing as cheating??

it's not the same thing as cheating because it's like having a mom and a dad at the same time- imbalanced people haha
morgs8384
hrmm i really dont see how this is viewed as not cheating.. lol.. maybe its just me.. i can be dense like that =/
ichiban
Um okay, that's a bit strange .. but .. huh.gif

*No comment
JlIaTMK
QUOTE(pikimoo @ Jun 3 2004, 10:43 PM)
A lot of people at my school think it's okay to have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend at the same time. And a lot of them do. I just don't think it's right. Isn't it just the same thing as cheating??

what?! thats cheating.... all because ur bi it doesnt mean u have two relationships at one time.... bi just means that ur attracted to both sexes.... thats the oddest thing ive heard in a while ermm.gif
JlIaTMK
QUOTE(BurstinStarzz @ Jun 12 2004, 5:05 PM)
haha yeah it does...i think it is wrong...i am sorry but being bi is almost like being gay and if God had intended on having the human race gay he would have made Eve a man!


not all ppl believe on god.... and not all ppl r homophobes

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I D0NT THINK IT`Z RIGHT...THAT`Z JUS GAY..GEZ WHAT IS G0ING 0N THIS EARTH? S0 MANY PPLS WH0 ARE TURNING BISEXUALS, GAY, LESBIANS...GEZ WHATS UP WITH THAT? MAN THATS JUS BAD NASTY... AND HAVING A GF AND A BF AT A SAME TIME IS JUS MESSED UP... MAN THAT SHUD BE LEGAL L0LS!! THAT`Z REALLIE GR0SS F0R HAVING A GF AND A BF AT A SAME TIME..EWW... MAN THAT PERS0N MUSTVE HAVE N0 LIFE 0R S0METHING. WAT A L0SER!! WAT`Z G0ING T0 HAPPEN IN THE FUTURE? PRESIDENT BUSH GETTING GAY MARRYING A GUY DUMPING HIS WIFE. GEZ WTF?! L0LS... MAN THIS W0RLD IS G0ING UPSIDE D0WN!! GEZ
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ppl arent turned gay they're born gay
sutsami09
I consider having a gf n a bf cheating. Nobody deserves been cheated unless you aloud them to.
i ami_am
i think its cheato hammer.gif
bbyxstac3y
well iph there biosexual wat can yoo say
i mean yoo can disrepect wat they are and wat not
and iph since they like both sex y should we judge who
they should go out or not? right? well i mean sure
its kinda like cheatin but if they told each other about it
i guess there could be an agreement abotu it
bad_girl
yeah it's ok if ur gf is just a friend but if.. um yeah. then i dont think u should have both.. it'd be like two-timing. wouldn't it!?

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lilxroxy
that is cheating in a way..but it`s their buisiness, not mine.
tyedyefroggy
Where its not my place to say what they can or cannot do. I dont have a problem with that, just as long that g/f isnt me lol
HelloSunshine
QUOTE(cmgchica717 @ Jun 4 2004, 1:31 PM)
See I dunno, I would say it is considered cheating but then if they all consent to it who cares so I guess I am nuetral on the matter, and I guess I can say I lean more to Its their business not mine _dry.gif

i aggree totally with you
AngelicEyz00
yeah... isn't that cheating... kinda??
ANG33ZY
No. That's cheating.
sheddingtears
that is like cheating and if my bf was bi and he did that, i would really be disappointed.
sammi rules you
if they don't care, go ahead.

i wouldn't be ok with it.
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