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-sincerely
L3ts all e-D8!

lmfao. just kidding.

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does anybody get jealous when your crush is hanging out with another girl that's not you? pinch.gif even though you guys aren't going out yet...
& what do you do to get over your jealousy?
laniegirl31691xx
i probably would get jealous.. i mean, i'd wanna be the one with him. i would be sad to see the girl with my crush.



i would try to not let it bother me much, like try to not think about it & stuff.
rAwritsgWeg
Put this in a males situation and yea i do
angelrevelation
i get a little jealous, but i remind myself that they must naturally have girls that are friends too, just as i have guys that are friends. so just because they're talking or anything it doesn't necessarily mean anything shrug.gif
SarahxJoy
When I was single, I would sometimes get a little jealous, but I'd never say or do anything about it. It just sucks when you like someone, yet there's a possibility that they could be into someone else that they're hanging out with.
SimplicityGirl
Ooh yesh. I did when I was still crushing on the boy that is now my bf. To get over it...? I just reminded myself that while yes he's talking to THEM, I'm the one that he treated in a special way (because I knew he liked me). Er..that probably won't work in all situation. What I say is just to not think so much about it.
iDecay
All the freaking time.. mellow.gif
-sincerely
QUOTE(rAwritsgWeg @ Nov 18 2006, 3:29 PM) *
Put this in a males situation and yea i do


oohh, yeah, sorry i said 'with another girl.' pinch.gif
should have made it for both sexes..
a painefull euphoria
before i met my bf.
the guy i liked always had mexican girls around him.
it pissed me off.

it made me wanna boxing.gif boxing.gif boxing.gif boxing.gif boxing.gif
JTHMjulia
yeah, yeah I do sometimes. What I really hate, is when other girls flirt with him shamelessly. like, they're all over him and I'm just like.... pinch.gif

I can't stand it.
-sincerely
^ OMG EXACTLY.
creamyxlicious
I usually don't have secretive jealousy.

But I remember a time I was urber jealous
of this kid I had a big crush on at high school.

He was walking with this girl to one of his classes
(I was such a loser, I secretly MEMORIZED his classes!! whistling.gif )

I just had invisable flumes,
and let's just say the wall wasn't
too pleased with my reaction to that
as well as my foot that was throbbing after my pissy fit.

The horrible part was the girl turned out to be one of my friends
extermely tom-boyish at the time and only into really hot guys..

happy.gif False alarm that made me relieved and feeling like a idiot at the same time.
pinayprincess
i used to... well when i did have a crush... but when it did happen, i'd try to get myself away from my crush... resisting from him so i wouldnt have to suffer seeing him with another girl.
HakunaMatata
Yeah, I do. But like was said above, I just remind myself that it's perfectly natural to have other friends, so I get over it. I mean, I'll just up to him later, but I don't want to be rude and interrupt them. He's only a crush, after all, so I can't do much.
radhikaeatsraman
Of course I get jealous, but I do a damn good job of hiding it. XD.gif In fact, I get so jealous, I wanna rip the bitch's hair out of her scalp. Sigh. I'm so violent. If I can't handle a guy I'm not with having friends of the opposite sex, imagine how I'm going to feel if I have boyfriend with other friends that are girls!
-sincerely
^ i'll never steal your bf again. :)

lol
sprezzatura
I usually don't get jealous. I do allow guys to have friends that are girls.
However, I do get jealous if I see my crush with his girlfriend. But there's nothing I could do about it but to avoid.
StanleyThePanda
Uh, no, not really. I dont have crush's, and Im not the jealous type.
yrrnotelekktric
i wouldnt call it full on jealousy, its more like..irksome when girls talk to my crush. bleh. no biggie tho.
-sincerely
yeah. how do you get over it? ermm.gif
fameONE
If its still in the early stages of dating...

***Early Stages: Not that serious. You can see other people if you feel ever so inclined. Continue to enjoy your sex life with whomever.***

then I'm not too jealous. There's really no point in getting all worked up because it just hasn't reached that point. However, once it does get to that point, then the issue of trust comes into play. If I'm serious with whomever I'm pursuing and the feelings are mutual, then there should be an understanding of exclusivity. But if she's out until 4am constantly without giving you the courtesy phone call (at least), then I start wondering. And if she's always with other guys; enter jealousy.

Getting over it is simple (to me). Move on. If they chase, then deal with it from there. If not, move on and don't look back (unless its random, casual, goodforthemoment sex).
cab
You think that's bad when your crush hangs round with your mates?
Gawsh
My best friend has a line of followers and she has a boyfriend.
Jelous? YES!
LostinaJungle
Yeah, I use to get jealous like that.
Even though I knew we'd never work out, it still hurt for some reason, and I don't think I ever did really get over it.
I just met my current boyfriend and moved on.
Tell Your Gf Im Not Interested
Quit the whining, you f**king baby.
-sincerely
^ crazy.gif what the hell, i'm not whining. blink.gif
whatever.
kimmytree
Chhyeah. I get super pissed. I just dont show it.

Actually, I think I get kinda upset when I see any guy I know with another girl. huh.gif
a painefull euphoria
^^damn you got it bad.

even your friends?
datass
I get jealous when my crushes hangs out with other girls, yup. And when my friend rather hang out with other people than me.
itsnever4ever
oh fa sho sometimes, but only if I like get suspiscious he might like her or something
then I'm like uh oh but if it's just like one of his friends that is a girl then I'm like oh ok w/e
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