supermonke1
Nov 13 2006, 06:35 PM
It has been a while since I had a girlfriend(about 10 months) and could anybody help me with stuff to do, how to be sweet, what to say whenever. I could use the help until I get used to dating again. Thanks to whoever helps!
smileeetina
Nov 15 2006, 02:08 AM
Compliment her once in a while.
Haha, seduce her.
alysaphobia
Nov 15 2006, 03:54 AM
DON'T:
lie
cheat
ditch her for your friends
ignore her in front of your friends
flirt with other girls a lot
tell her " ___(girl) is so hot!!!!"
etc.
DO:
compliment her
tell her she's pretty
hold her hand, hug her, be sweet :)
open doors for her
send nice SMSes just because
call her just because
pay for her sometimes.
introduce her to people as your girlfriend, not friend.
yeah... :) good luck haha
love-issosweet
Nov 15 2006, 11:18 AM
tell her she's beautiful. make her laugh. :]
a painefull euphoria
Nov 15 2006, 11:28 AM
tickle her,
its cute and funny
-sincerely
Nov 15 2006, 02:42 PM
QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Nov 15 2006, 3:54 AM)

DON'T:
lie
cheat
ditch her for your friends
ignore her in front of your friends
flirt with other girls a lot
tell her " ___(girl) is so hot!!!!"
etc.
DO:
compliment her
tell her she's pretty
hold her hand, hug her, be sweet :)
open doors for her
send nice SMSes just because
call her just because
pay for her sometimes.
introduce her to people as your girlfriend, not friend.
yeah... :) good luck haha
yes! that's the best advice.
also:
pretty NOT sexy
beautiful NOT hot
OhMyAnniee
Nov 15 2006, 05:39 PM
Surprise her with big hugs!
Like hug her from the back or something, but don't attack her!
Libertie
Nov 15 2006, 06:03 PM
QUOTE(ashopely @ Nov 15 2006, 1:42 PM)

yes! that's the best advice.
also:
pretty NOT sexy
beautiful NOT hot
In the right context, of course. I don't mind being called sexy/hot - but early in a relationship it just feels like you're being objectified (not to mention it's creepy coming from a guy you just started dating).
Don't overdo it - be yourself, of course. If she likes you, it's not necessary to put on an act to impress her.
mark0alot
Nov 15 2006, 06:23 PM
Nah, just be yourself and if she cant accpet that then she isn't the right one.
supermonke1
Nov 15 2006, 06:39 PM
Thanks to you all, I will make sure I be myself and reward her in all the ways she rightly deserves!

So its all good, any more special advice though, im still open to it!
SimplicityGirl
Nov 16 2006, 12:00 AM
Make her feel special. Say sweet and cute things to her. Flowers. Unexpected presents. Hold her hand. Hug. Kisses on the forehead, cheek, lips, neck, hand. Attention. Make time for her. Share an ice cream with her (I love to do this with my boyfriend ^^). Sing for her. Tell her you love her when you mean it. Make up cute nick names for each other. cuddle. snuggle. make fun of each other =P. Tickles. Put your arm around her shoulder/waist. Make her feel safe. Be proud to have her as your girlfriend and show that pride. Protect her. When she's cold, hug her til she's warm again. Play with her hair. Look into her eyes when you two are talking. Never forget to compliment her. Always tell her how lucky you are to have her. Tell her how much you like her. Tell her stories. Watch the stars together. Let her listen to your heartbeat, it makes her feel safe. Nap with her. Remember special days.
And of course...just be yourself =]
_sarcastic_
Nov 16 2006, 01:28 AM
be yourself that's the most important thing
and pretty much what everyone else said
angelrevelation
Nov 17 2006, 10:15 PM
it all kind of depends on her preferences, if she likes being gushy or not, or more independent... i personally love it if a guy gives me his sweatshirt or coat when it's cold
MattyK
Nov 22 2006, 10:16 PM
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Anybody heard of him ??
Cheers,
Matty
Gypsy Eyes
Nov 23 2006, 01:24 AM
Hey no advertising^
What was said above basically. But don't compliment her too much, then it sounds fake. Make a comment about what she's wearing, that works a lot.
vn_cuti3
Nov 23 2006, 08:29 PM
just be yourself !!!
My Cinderella.
Nov 23 2006, 08:44 PM
Well--basically just yeah. Be yourself and treat her right. A sweet gentleman is always nice.
me1issaaaa
Nov 23 2006, 08:45 PM
Tell her how beautiful you think she is. Trust me, I wish my boyfriend would've said that more when we were dating. He swears he did, but he didn't. I definitely wouldn't have forgotten. And just be sweet, bring her a rose or something small ever once in a while. Make sure you tell her how glad you are that you two are dating or are together or whatever stage you are in. Girls notice the LITTLE things more than anything else.
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