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preciousbabyrae
i was born with abusive parents. i'd get hit from the most stupidest and such things. once i was badly beaten because i took pictures with my friends that are guy friends and what race they were. what can i say? it was my freakin last year with them and i need pictures for memories.. my mother found them, got mad, beat me until i bruised and bleed called me horrible names and ripped up my pictures. well.. guess what just happpened.. it happened again but with those picture booth pictures you take with friends. i took with my friend kendrick on my birthday weekend. she got soo mad because he was a guy and mainly because he was african american. she's really racist. i know for a fact these tears are happiness......... i dont know what to do.........
x_curse_of_the_curves_x
well you need to know this isn't your fault at all. call child protection services or your local help line
misoshiru
talk to your guidance counselor at school about your situation.
cheri_pi
QUOTE(preciousbabyrae @ Nov 6 2006, 11:35 PM) *
i was born with abusive parents. i'd get hit from the most stupidest and such things. once i was badly beaten because i took pictures with my friends that are guy friends and what race they were. what can i say? it was my freakin last year with them and i need pictures for memories.. my mother found them, got mad, beat me until i bruised and bleed called me horrible names and ripped up my pictures. well.. guess what just happpened.. it happened again but with those picture booth pictures you take with friends. i took with my friend kendrick on my birthday weekend. she got soo mad because he was a guy and mainly because he was african american. she's really racist. i know for a fact these tears are happiness......... i dont know what to do.........



That sounds really hateful (and racist!) of your parents.
My advice is to see your school counselor. They're really wonderful people who just want to help you sort out your life. I know there's nothing wrong with you, just your parents, but the school counselor can advise you on what to do in the future and can generally cheer you up :)
Also, they are sworn to secrecy BY LAW. They cannot tell anyone (even the police) anything you say to them, or they'll be fired and fined. (Unless you give them permission, of course). Ask them yourself!
It really can't hurt.

Also, I think you should be aware that that kind of abuse is against the law (beating your children until they bleed). If you wanted to, you have the power to get your parents some kind of help! I think they need it. No one should be beaten (especially for something so silly and racist!!).

Best of luck to you!
I'm SERIOUS about the school counselore thing- all schools have one. Completely confidential. Do it- it's in your hands.
jeSs1cA
I'm going to go with what everyone else is saying. Seriously, you need to find help ASAP! It's not healthy for you to be in situations like this. So, I'd say call the child protection services or go to your guidance counselor for help. If you show evidence of what your parents are doing to you, then they'll decide whether or not to get the police involved.

I hope everything goes okay!
x1227x
woah! you seriously need to tell an adult about this because this is serious. if you dont tell someone right now, it's just going to get worse & sooner or later you're going to get killed. [which we dont want to happen] call a hotline, go to the counciling office (if you guys have one) or like other people said, go to child protection services/guidance counselors. this needs to stop right away, and it wont stop unless you try to help yourself by telling an adult. i hope everything will work out & stuff =]
Stefanny
wahaa! bad parents.

call 911 or tell like a teacher, before you get VERY injured like broken bones & stuff.
NoSex
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Uhhm, trall? trol ltroltroll? huh.gif
_sarcastic_
pretty much what everyone else said.
get help fast.
a painefull euphoria
you need to get help as soon as possible.
they are nuts.
mouse_3k
hit her back
HelplessCry
yeah you got to start defending yourself if this keeps going on. i agree with most of the people above me. get immediate help before it becomes even worse.

i hope things work out for you. goodluck...
iROCKYOURSOCKS
oh my God im sooo sorry that you have to go through this...please call as soon as possible a child protection line or an adult you trust. Your parents are not fit to be your parents, no mother or father should EVER beat their child until they bruised and bled. I hope that you will be okay and please get help as soon as possible if your parents hit you again you defend yourself with anything that you can, and call the police as soon as possible when it happends. if you need a friend im here!!! flowers.gif hug.gif
dani41790
I'm sorry you have to go through all that. In my opinion, you should call child protection services and get legally emancipated.
x_curse_of_the_curves_x
don't you dare fight back just leave oh my god never fight back do you know how many people have died because they did the same thing then your mom or dad will just hit harder. please believe me.

call child protection services or go to your local shelter house. i think they take kids but they wont just throw you out. i wish you the best.
Serendipity
Talk to an adult before the situation gets worse. Find a counselor.

Try this website: http://www.girlhealth.org/family_violence2/facts.html
WHIMSICAL 0NE
I've been there. Trust me. I've found ways to avoid it though. My brother and I never called CPS, but someone who knew my parents did and they just came and "observed" and then didn't do anything.
In my opinion, if you don't want to go through all that stuff and getting put in Foster care find a way to avoid them. I know it sounds stupid, but that's what I've done for the past couple years. I know when my dad's home and I know when he's not. If I'm home and my dad is there I just pretend I'm in my room doing homework. He knows better now though to not put his hands on my mom because she's sick. He's tried to get help for it before, so I guess now he's realizing he has a problem.
Just find a good way to hide things that make them tick, don't say things that make them angery, and avoid them as much as you can.
How old are you? Maybe you could stay with friends or something.
magicfann
call child support
but it'll take 24 minutes for child support to get there, and in that time, somebody gonna get hurt real bad!
a painefull euphoria
^^^you are such a dick. at the wrong times
WHIMSICAL 0NE
^ Yeah. Most people have learned to ignore him. That's why he has like a 50% warn level.
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