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pengu1n
dude. id be in hell right now if it was lol
ryfitaDF
ofcourse it's a sin. it's why it's so enjoyable.
koreansaga510
lol but it doesnt say in the bible right?
Mini
i think alot of guys would be in hell right now if masturbation was a sin. pinch.gif

just pray to Jesus. He'll forgive u.

anyways, im buddhist but yeah.
illmizzkim
QUOTE(adoggydog195 @ Jun 2 2004, 11:38 PM)
It is a sin for us Catholics because...
One of the Ten Commandments is Thou shall not have sex before marrige.
As nasty as it is, it is having sex with yourself.

For Catholics.. no. Now it's not. It used to be a sin because hundreds of years ago, people used to think that there were tiny humans in semen. But we all know now that semen has sperm, and not tiny humans. They used to think that the tiny humans were ejaculated into the woman's womb and that's how they were born. They thought masturbation was a sin because it "killed people." And the whole.. "masturbation = sex before marriage".. It was disproved because it was proven that humans have healthy urges that are better of fulfilled by yourself than with someone else.

And if I'm wrong, then my religions books must be wrong as well, since they were all approved by the Catholic church before they were put to press...
Relentless
well.. i dont noe if its a sin.. its probably a habit to other people..
JlIaTMK
NO its a healthy habit lol laugh.gif
i dont no y it would be a sin
AZN_DRAGON
yes it is a sin...
lilb
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Jun 2 2004, 4:02 PM)
Anything that feels good is a sin!! haha

that is not true. I am sorry but the way you put that kind of disturbs me...if you are living a life trying not to sin......then a lot of other things can be good.
swe3txprincesz
i dont kno bout yu guys but i aint goin to hell
uLoVeMikeRoch
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Jun 2 2004, 4:02 PM)
Anything that feels good is a sin!! haha

LMAO thats so fricking true
brina_xposed
QUOTE
Anything that feels good is a sin!! haha


HAHA that was funny... but i dunno. i do it sometimes. hehe.
TR4NC3F0RM3RZ
I heard somewhere that masturbation helps prevent prostate cancer. Sorry if I'm getting off-topic here. But like, don't you need to masturbate so you don't get "blue balls"? And you end up ejaculating in "wet dreams" anyways... How you know if you're enjoying it or not at that time, wouldn't know, I'm not awake in my sleep.
Manuelo
Its everytime you masterbate 10 cats die, so sad...Its so hard to control your urges though...lol
perdyperdybirdy
I have no idea. I'm gonna go ask a priest dude.
magnificentmike
i highly doubt it is..how can playing with urself be a sin, i mean its like suckin ur thumb. only..a bit different, but i hope its not happy.gif
Note
QUOTE(koOoaznboi_510 @ Jun 14 2004, 10:00 PM)
lol but it doesnt say in the bible right?

no, it does not.

::jerry::
lidoaznboi89
if your some religion.. its a sin.. because its something something.. so yeah.. its a sin if you believe about it.. cause your basically doing yourself.. talking about... thinking about it.. its all a sin.. so can you finally stop it.. stop talking about it
KrNc0nfus3d
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jun 2 2004, 2:04 PM)
It all depends on what you believe in. For instance, I am a Christian and, yes, it is a sin.

yea its all about ur religion cuz im a christian too nd i learned in church it was a sin but it was funny cuz our bible teacher spelled maturbation wrong lol...
AngelicEyz00
like i said before... anything that feels good is a sin!!
Mrsaltyballs
yes it is a sin.... jesus said if u look upon a woman with lust youve comitted adultery
CEP
QUOTE(Mrsaltyballs @ Jul 13 2004, 3:03 PM)
yes it is a sin.... jesus said if u look upon a woman with lust youve comitted adultery

This is coming from "mr. salty balls"
laugh.gif

hahahaa..hahahaah

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
capsule
masturbation IS a sin....like er...mr. salty balls said, jesus said that anyone who lusts upon a woman is committing adultery...this applies to protestants + catholics.
(Matthew 5:28)

However....man, there's also something called "forgiveness" here. Jesus will forgive you if you are really repentant over what you've done...if u've got masturbation problems, then try n stop, cause i've heard way too many problems comin from it when you eventually get married. u don't have to stop all at once, just try n taper it till u can stop it entirely. and yea..its possible (1 Corinthians 10:13).

btw...it does mention masturbation in the bible, just not verbatim "thou shalt not masturbate". it mentions lust as a sin. if u gimme that BS excuse that you can masturbate w/o porn or fantasizing or anything like that, it's still wrong because it says in the Bible that self-abuse is a sin.

like i said, just cause u masturbate doesnt mean you'll go to hell. however...keep it up, and chances are, you'll end up becomin those sex-obsessed people who end on Maury to see whether their kid is really theirs....overexaggeration, but masturbation aint a good thing.

wow...im soundin like a pastor now. :X as for buddhists n such....i aint good in that area
Longhorn
for catholics, it is a sin. and note to adoggydog195---learn the ten commandments, man!! haha lmao there is no commandment "Thou shalt not have sex before marriage (learn how to spell)!! Masturbation is an offender against chastity and not being chaste is a vice so if u are not chaste, you sin...in order not to be chaste you have to do oral, anal, masturbation, or pre-marital sex.
ryfitaDF
everyone commented about that but not what i said cry.gif .

mine's so much more offensive!

let me state it again.

ofcourse it's a sin! that's why it's so enjoyable.
patrick004
QUOTE(masu_misairu @ Jul 13 2004, 6:13 PM)
However....man, there's also something called "forgiveness" here. Jesus will forgive you if you are really repentant over what you've done...if u've got masturbation problems, then try n stop, cause i've heard way too many problems comin from it when you eventually get married. u don't have to stop all at once, just try n taper it till u can stop it entirely. and yea..its possible (1 Corinthians 10:13).

like i said, just cause u masturbate doesnt mean you'll go to hell. however...keep it up, and chances are, you'll end up becomin those sex-obsessed people who end on Maury to see whether their kid is really theirs....overexaggeration, but masturbation aint a good thing.

I was going to say something similar to what you said. You always can replenish yourself of your sins.

I'm not sure if masturbation is entirely a bad thing but too much of anything can be a bad thing. Addiction is a disease,
SkYlIneZx4xLiF
if it is then im surely goin to hell u knoe......but if it isnt then im happy happy.gif
lolita kitty
erm, wats masturbate?
squisheebananas
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jun 2 2004, 12:35 AM)
If it is, only priests would go to heaven. Maybe nuns too.
Don't you just hate it when people spell " masturbation " wrong?
Seriously, you don't Master, bate. What the hell's a bate?!

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

well.. actually it depends on what you believe in. like, im a christian and we believe that anybody who believes (in God) will go to heaven. so its not nessisarily just the priest going to heaven.
UnNamed
yes it is...coz wen u jerk off it means ur a nerd who cant get sum n fantasize on gurls u like or sumtin....ofcourse its a sin jerkin off means u hav lust 4 da person ur fantisizing about...n lust is a sin...OMFG i sound like a pastor on dat 1...meh _dry.gif
Scrollninja
i didnt do it - rolleyes.gif hmm, a sin? nah wouldnt be a sin. people make that stuff up, if it were a sin. i guess all the boys would be in hell. mad.gif probably ruin satans realm , getting sleepy yawn.gif . well, see ya'z lata.

boredox HEEHEE
waccoon
QUOTE(UnNamed @ Jul 18 2004, 3:51 AM)
yes it is...coz wen u jerk off it means ur a nerd who cant get sum n fantasize on gurls u like or sumtin....ofcourse its a sin jerkin off means u hav lust 4 da person ur fantisizing about...n lust is a sin...OMFG i sound like a pastor on dat 1...meh _dry.gif

I guess 98% of the male population are nerds who can't get any then.
Woohoo to those 2% that dont. Cmon, we count on them to populate the earth!
warmgun
it's a sin and i'm going to hell.
stealthllogic
im buddhist, so i guess its okay for me to jackoff.. lol
malfunktion
No. Its just like fondling with your toe. Except your toe doesnt get you sexually excited, unless you like jerking off with it...
J.K
my religion says its a sin...i teach sunday school and one my students came up to me after class and was like...nuna, i masturbated but i'm too embarassed to tell the priest in confession tongue.gif
AzN_DuDe01
i have no idea.....
iheartsimba
of course not
capsule
QUOTE
No. Its just like fondling with your toe. Except your toe doesnt get you sexually excited, unless you like jerking off with it...


strange people who would.... blink.gif
WishinguponmyStar
I think everyone has their own beliefs and I don't think its a sin because they would have told us by now. Also I had a teen class and they said that masterbation is better then having sex cause you can't get pregnunt. The teachers even said that our bodys need it so I don't think its a sin.
Gribbie
Everybody masturbates or touches themselves atlest once. _dry.gif
Levy2k6
in LifeTeen (i'm catholic) i think we talked about and it is a sin.. i still do it anyways...

its a sin because something about giving ur self pleasure... oh well idc.
jaeman
Yeah. Masturbating is such a sin, you'll go to hell in the blink of an eye.
Rayj
It is, but i couldnt go without it.
inthemudhole
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jun 2 2004, 12:35 AM)
If it is, only priests would go to heaven. Maybe nuns too.
Don't you just hate it when people spell " masturbation " wrong?
Seriously, you don't Master, bate. What the hell's a bate?!

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

^Lmao.

Errmm. I think it is... maybe..

I'm goin' to heaven, then! _smile.gif
rnrn897
well in christianity it is. to think of som1 sexually.
yea, ive done it - but ive stopped ermm.gif
Levy2k6
if masturbation is a sin.... god forgives everyone! so its all good.
hangooksaram
This is from a Christian perspective.

We have a big responsibility here. God has given us sexuality. He instructs us concerning our sexuality. We are men. The vast majority of us have strong sex drives. How do we honor God with that? Specifically, how do we honor God when we are alone, and desire sexual gratification? We will answer this.

To answer this, we must first understand the dynamics of masturbation. It is my opinion, that masturbation includes the following:

Sexual urges
Sexual thoughts
Sexual pleasure

When you combine those elements together, lust results. Now, some claim they think about happy thoughts and not sexual thoughts. If this is you, please refrain from trying to argue in this thread. 99% of men think sexual thougths while masturbating (also, married men, please do not ask if masturbation is ok for you). My goal is to find sound instruction for the vast majority of single men. So again, lust is a result of those three elements combined.

The verses I will post focus on three main topics:
Self control
Your old nature
Sexual immorality

I will list the topic and the verses in different posts. If you have a problem with one of the three aspects, then quote the post that talks about it, and present your ideas.

Let's try to behave decently with each other. For myself, I will do my best, please be patient with me. Thanks everyone.
hangooksaram
Self Control


Proverbs 25: 28
Like a city whose walls are broken down
is a man who lacks self-control.

Titus 2: 6
Similarly, encourage the young men to be self-controlled.

Galatians 5: 19-23
The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

1 Thessalonians 4: 1-5
Finally, brothers, we instructed you how to live in order to please God, as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God.



notes:
The Bible instructs us to be self controlled.
The Bible instructs us to control our body, not to be in passionate lust.

questions:
When masturbating, are you showing the spiritual gift of self control?
When describing self control, do you use masturbation as an example? Why not?
hangooksaram
Old self/ old nature


Ephesians 4: 17-24
So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more. You, however, did not come to know Christ that way. Surely you heard of him and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.

Colossians 3: 5-6
Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.

Matthew 5: 27-30
"You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.


notes
-Put off the old desires. Put on your new self which is righteous.
-Put the earthly nature to death!

questions
-When you think a lustful thought while masturbating, what are you essentially doing?
-Do you consider masturbation to be righteous?
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