I have a guy that I like romantically, and he knows, but he told me that he's looking for "a close friend he can spend his free time with, and yes, sleep with too." <---Those were his exact words. To me it sounds like a gf, but I asked a friend and she says something different. Can I get more opinions, please???

he just wants a girl to be "friends with benefits" with.

^agree..
he probably just wants to have "fun" with a girl with no strings attached

^ That's exactly what I think.

You should forget about him unless you want to get hurt or don't care that he would be using you.

Oh........why couldn't he just tell me point blank: "I'm not ready for a relationship" or "I just want a friend with benefits", instead of making me asking people what the hell he's talking about???

LOL, May people rox! But seriously, I know I'm not a good canadiate for that whole "FWB" thing--which I told him, yet he still talks to me....oh well, life goes on, right?

Exactly what the others said. I'm pretty sure he means a girlfriend (without the whole thing of being together.) Just for pleasure and happiness. I'm no fan of FWB. I don't think you should do it---but if you do, go ahead and be careful.

He doesn't want to be with you, just wants to f**k (:

^LMAO

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haha ditto to that. he's not looking to be commited to a girl, but he badly wants sex, i guess.

wow, this is quite confusing.

it really does sound like friends with benefits,
and a 5 year old talking.
like he doesnt know what he wants.

i personally don't like fwb, but it's because i like long-term.
if you want to have fun and know how to control your feelings, then fwb is good.

i say, trust this guy to see if it's worth of yourself and your body.
ask yourself, do you really think this guy is worth it?

you'll answer your own question.

Let me dumb it down for you: he wants to get into your pants and then dump you.

i agree with everybody who's posted, this is definitely a FWB scenario and nothing more. :[

i'd really stay away from the guy until i got over my feelings for him, and definitely not make a move or step into the FWB relationship.

hope it works out for you...

no it means he just wants easy ass so if you wanna be easy, go wit him

This is the kind of ***hole that will, tell you that he wants to be with you, but is not ready for a relationship, manage to sweettalk you into ****ing him, and then go around calling you a s*ut

My advice? Get him the hell out of your life before you get hurt.

Unless you want to be trash talked and have your heart broken.

i hate friends with benifits with a passion
and thats all this guy thinks he can get

i dont get why men and some women find this acceptible
hmph