well yeah.. there is this one guy he likes me supposedly... and i like him kinda. im 50/50 about him. one 50 is that he's sweet and everything.. but the other 50 is that he is you know one of those kind of guys that are just get in trouble all the time. i dont know what to do about him cuhz` my friends tell me he's gonna ask me out on my birthday, next monday. please HELP another girl out.

You may want to elaborate on the idea of "getting in trouble all the time."
Is the kid shooting heroin into his arm each night and sneaking up on little girls in dark alleys, knocking them out, and resting his gentials on their chests? Or, is he calling teachers bad names, and kicking his friends and his enemies in the facessss? Like, the hell is he doing? And, if he's causing trouble "all the time" how the hell is he "sweet?"

yea ^ what kind of trouble maker? i mean it may just be a phase and get out of it and you never know a real person until you really get to know them not just juge them from what you hear. no one can really tell you what to say because it really comes down to what your heart feels, that you do really like him or you don't. if ur not sure then don't go for it and get to know him first.

skater type. he smokes weed but like not all the time. and he like messes around with the teachers by standing up on the chairs & like the class clown i guess. he's sweet like he listens to me and helped me out with plenty of my guy problems and treats me like a queen so to say.

If hes sweet and listens to you...he is most likely not an idiot. It sounds like he is a mild trouble maker at best and shows interest in you on an intelligent level and is open to you seriously (aka not just trying after a hook up) why not give him a chance? If he turns out to be less than you expect, youll live to date another day.

Personally I feel for the guy, if hes makin such a big deal about askin u out he probably digs you...I say give him a chance these type of guys make good relationships.

Skates? Class clown? Shares interests with Peter Parker?

Uhhmmm, sounds like a troubled and confused little child. Class clowns tend to be insecure little twats. Sounds immature and boring. Buuuuuuut, if you like him, go ahead and take your chances, just keep your head about you.




Actually, if a guy is truly not an idiot and "trying after a hook up" he will be overtly sweet to you and treat you like a queen. That's pretty basic. He'll do that, and he'll do it a lot, until he gets what he wants. Then everything'll change, unless..

acctually no...guys who are after sex wont be overly sweet to u and listen to ur problems. Guys who are after sex are much smoother than that...all guys who know anything about girls realise you cant come on strong with compliments and adoration...its basic guy rules that u gotta keep a little mysterious and hard to get...compliments will only dig you into a hole once she sees herself as above you. Compliments in the early stages of flirting is 4 ametuers.

PLayers will get it in 2 or 3 weeks max and will seal the deal with little more than flirting and some kino, this guy is talkin about how hes 'gonna ask her out' and building it up like its a big deal.

hes just a good intentioned kid I reckon...who should stop smoking before it rots his brain.

EYYYAH no.

i think you might want to rephrase that to SOME guys. believe me i have heard PLENTY of relationship issues on CB to know that most of the girls have troubles over guys who were so sweet and treating them like a princess, they have sex and then its over. And not all girls like "mysterious guys" that are "hard to get" i happend to like guys who compliment me and would do anything for me. AND I NEVER see a guy below me, and i would never take advantage of him just because he compliments me.


ANYWAYS TO THE PROBLEM:
girl if you have doubts you are obviously not ready for a realtionship with him. If you like someone you have no DOUBTS in your mind whatso ever that you want to be with them. if in the end you like him you need to tell him to change his ways of smoking weed because that is just TROUBLE. And if he is a class clown he obviously is screaming for attention so give him some attention.

I'd say: Go out with him- he may very well be genuinely sweet and understanding. BUT, don't get too settled in with him- keep your eyes open for anything bad while you're with him, because you're still not 100% sure about this guy.

id say go for it.
you always have the chance to get rid of him if he sucks
but he sounds cool