I'm pretty "average" weight I guess. I'm not exactly overweight and I'm not skinny either, but sometimes I just feel like guys only like the really skinny girls and not girls like me. Maybe I'm wrong..

But if its not weight, then what else would it be?

Your personality? I don't know..

A lot of guys I know like a girl who's just mainly healthy, whether they're petite or a little on the big side. Weight isn't everything, and if you're worried about guys not liking you becuase of your weight, then those aren't the guys for you anyway.

well weight isn't really "everything" but usally weight has alot to do with being healthy. so usually the really thin girls look really good cuz maybe they excersize alot making them healthy or they're bullimic making them very unhealthy. i personally exercise alot. haveing more muscle instead of fat is good and healthy in my opinion. but if you're fine with your body than that's good. but if you want to lose weight, eat ONLY 3 meals per day(no munchies in between, except like a fruit or something) and like excersize. first work on you're thighs. by doing the Lunge. there's a topic about that somewhere...i can't find it. anyway yah you'll get sexy toned thighs by doing that.

no weight isn't everything, and i agree with sarah. lotta guys look a personality, mainly the ones i know and just as long as they are healthy, plus never know opposites attract lol. but seriously there are a lotta girls who are really pretty but aren't like stick skinny but are healthy and guys usually don't wanna be going out with a girl who is skin and bone with an eating disorder they want to go out wiht someone who is healthy and with a great personaility

Personality and healthiness i think counts the most. So, even if you're really skinny, You're not healthy in alot of cases.
And if you're obese, you're not healthy either.

Yes, I want a girl so thin that I can use her as a toothpick.

average is just a polite way of saying "you're fat". mmkay?
:)

I'm totally in your position with the weight thing. I know what you mean.

But don't try to go losing weight or anything because of a guy, or guys in general. Lose weight because YOU want to, and hell, you might not even need to. And from my experiences, guys don't ask out only skinny or petite girls- they like girls who actually have meat on their bones. I was having this conversation with my guy friend, and he told me exactly that. He also said how when he hugs a girl, he doesn't want to feel her bones or anything.

You sound fine. You're not overweight, so why worry? Just try to maintain the weight you're at now or lose a few if your conscious about it.

Psh, don't worry about being skinny or anything. If guys don't like you for who you are, forget them. Personality is more important.

Guys despise overweight girls. Fat automatically means you're ugly in their world.

^ i agree. boys are so mean, lol. people should not be judged on their weight, but rather on their personality. Unfortunately, that is not the case in this world. Keeping your weight average is an essential to a healthy lifestyle anyways.

No

theres tons and tons of girls that are overweight girls that are really really cute. theres so many its like they have a better shot to being pretty than other girls lol but im not saying go gain weight =p.

Everything has to do with weight, moey, and surgery these days.

hahHAH thats funny.

not really.

Unless the boy's obese too.

I guess some guys are just shallow.

Most guys aren't exactly biased on looks. Its your personality more than likely... no offense

Weight isn't everything.

HAHAHA!! that made me laugh...
Anyways I really don't think its about the weigh
since Im skinny, small,and I don't have a boyfriend.
my weigh is 109 <-- not so skinny but im slim
I think its about personality...

Oh Kevin..

i dont think guys like really skinny girls, typically they'll make fun of them saying their anorexic or some crap like that. since most guys loove food.

^Haha that happens to me...but i loveee to eat. i would be an expensive date =)
Hell no. Where I come from guys like meat.

^ Where do you come from, then? Guys here are SO discriminative.

well the only advantage of having a skinny girl is saving a few bucks when you go to McDonalds

other than that, I like my girls "average"

i don't really think so. the guys i know don't really go for the overweight girls, but then again nobody finds anorexic attractive. you can't help being skinny if you have a fast metabolism though... so i say bring out the best of yourself and your personality and stop fussing about weight. :) as long as you're not extremely skinny or extremely fat, you're good. but i'm not saying those 2 body types don't attract guys fyi...

Weight definitely isn't everything, but I think that guys would rather have an average or skinny girl over an overweight one. Personality is what matters most though.

weight shouldnt matter..even if guys say they judge for eprsonality,i think they actually judge for looks first,then go to your personality.
my brother tells me that guys dont like anorexic or skinnny girls,but i think that doesnt matter at all.

so,weight DOES NOT matter.
at all. :]

the guys that i've talked to about girls' weight and all that... they all preferred girls to be "healthy weighted". with a bit of meat on them, as they said. they said they liked girls to be squishy which sounds creepy...

but personality matters a lot too, almost the same probably. because personality is what keeps them.

Weight isn't everything at all. You should be who you are and like it that way. I know I'm a fine one to talk about self conciousness. lol but I think that if a guy only cares what a girl looks like then he's not worth the bother. He's just a low life. The most important thing is that you're healthy.

healthy wise yess.

I definataly like MEAT skinny girls are so annnoying to look at cuz there isnt anything to look at. You could be not skinny but still look fit you know.

To all the girls thats say looks are nothing stfu hypocrites, i bet if u got reconstructive surgery and ur like really pretty then you wouldnt waste your time getting to know someone that is unattractive.(proably)

anyways good luck finding a guy that only cares about personality(I do and dont) it would be impossible for them to like you if they dont get to know you for a very longgg time.

Yes, it's everything. All the people in this world are fatties and need to be annorexic.

Well, actullay, today, when i was walking home with my friends nate and joe, we were talking about that and he said that he doesnt want his girl to be SUPER skinny because he thinks thats gross, and when he hugs them he doesnt want his arms to go around them then come back and touch him

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If guys just like you because your skinny, dont go out with them.

Im healthy/skinny, only because I play soccer and have a fast matableism (sp?)

most girls who think they are fat, really arent.
that bugs the crap out of me when people say they are fat and they arent.

I dont like guys that are skinny.
Nor really fat.

Just enough to love. :D





I eat like a pig..