Okies so my friends and I have been pretty okay with this girl until last year in sixth grade she though everybody was at her feet "praising" her. So we were still okay with her until she started making rumors about me and my friend's crush. she would tell the other girl that people thought that i was going out with him and me that people thought she was going out with him. so one day i came up to her with this girl and we told my friend about it. she said that she never heard about it and i have never heard about it either. so the year goes by and we push that behind us and then during december she made up another rumor about me! she told my other friend that goes to REACH with me, and then she told me. I totally knew I had to hate her! So later on the time goes by during winter break and then I finally had the heart to forgive. Then one day she comes up to me during a special day and said that the only person who really stayed by her side was the guy who liked me. I was like what?? and she said well you betrayed me in December and in my head i was like [bleep] you... i didn't betray her she started a rumor about me! So then time goes by more until it gets to a competition during the spring and we were in this test taking thing for something in Texas called the Lone Star Challenge.... She made the team every year until the last year then spreads a rumor saying that I cheated on the test! So a lot of people didn't trust me until they found out it was a fake lie b/c i won 3rd place for the writing test for my school.... So times goes by again and then it's my friend's birthday.... I couldn't go though... My friend called me one day and told me that people saw her eating someone else's skittles but she kept saying that she didn't... then they played truth or dare and she said no one can get out of it. then when it's her turn she either has to kiss a guy on the cheek or take her bra off and swing it around but she kept going no, no, no so she didn't do it... how can we let her down not too hard b/c most of us want to "jump" her but knowing her she'll probably turn us in but she'll spread rumors about us b/c no one knows her well yet so everybody thinks she nice...


sorry this is sooooooooo freaking long

Okay, parts of this post confused me. She said someone was dating someone else and then they all thought she was dating them? She was eating someone else's skittles?

So, this is how I took that post. There's a girl whom you've been friends with for a long time and she's been spreading rumors about you and your friends but won't own up to them and you want her off your back without doing something that would get you in trouble?

In my opinion, you should go with the old ignore. I know it sound cliche, but if you don't hang out with her you give her no amo to use against you. No reason for her to say things about you. She might make some stuff up, but if people are willing to believe her when she doesn't hang out with you guys then that's their problem.

If you want to ease into ignoring her, maybe sit at a different table during lunch, use halls that you know you won't run into her in during passing time at school. When you hang out with each other, don't invite her.

I was in a pickle like this once, haha.

For me, I had history with her so I didn't want to lose that friendship so I just kept in touch with her like every three weeks or so. And I said hi to her but never really talked to her.

Some of my friends at another school who hated a girl at their school formed an "Anti-(NameHere)" Club and everyone joined it. That's another story.

Anyways, (I'm guessing) since everyone hates this girl you talk about.. maybe you all just stop talking to her. Like if she says something like "OMG! ______ is being such a _______!" Blahblahblah.. just don't sound interested. Just say "Oh.." and then carry on a convo with someone else or something. That's what I'd do.

You're an idiot.

She's not worth it. She's not your "friend". She doesn’t support you. She spread rumors. She has no logic. She's immature little brat.

What would you do, when someone continue to backstab you? Why are you so weak? You got to be strong. You can’t let that bitch step all over you. You have to fight for yourself. Why are you socializing with her? STOP IT. YOU DONT LIKE HER. LEAVE HER ALONE. Don’t pay anymore attention to her. The more attention you give her, the more crap she'll do. And, you won’t even know all the crap she did to you.

^ haha, that covers ALL the things I would say :]

if we leave her alone that's when she tries to make other friends b/c we're still sorta newbies at Junior High and when she makes friends she gossips.

---->Today my friend was ate a little french fry from her and she told her to stop. then later she took french fries from my other friend Diana.

I NEED TO CONFRONT HER!!! CAUSE WE ALL WANT TO TAKE HER TO FRIENDSHIP PARK THEN BEAT THE _____ OUT OF HER. BUT WE'LL GET REPORTED!!!

freck i would kill this girl if i were u she sounds hekka mess up!!!! no really do some thing about it like ignore all the rumors and push her away from ur life i mean if she keeps on doing this ppl will get tired and start relizing the truth so be it...

Sounds like a spoiled brat to me... don't even give her the time of day.

Give her the silent treatment then tell everyone eles to do it and when she becomes a total loser go up to her and whisper in her ear, This is what it feels like. Then walk away about 2 steps and turn your head around and give her an evil smile. I love my little plans to make people feel bad!!

I think that you should pants her in the locker room... or in gym class infront of all the boys.

lol. too bad we're separated from boys and girls... girls and boys gym but she always changes ALONE... nobody really likes everybody plays along

please if you dont have the guts to fight her youself then dont convince your other friends to fight her with you that is just cowardly that you have to all group up to fight one person.

you dont have to talk to her or be friends with her you know just ignore her and her rumors shes just jealous and if people ask you about it just play it off.... shit not everyone is going to like you and if this gets to you so much then youll never survive high school good luck

Like I said, just don't sound interested in what she talks to you about.

That's your problem. You shouldn’t care about her. It's not about her. IT'S ABOUT YOU, dear. You need a good sense of individuality. Why do you care, if she makes friends? People will get sick of her, and she won’t make any real friends.



So what, if you're a newbie. It doesn’t make you any less than who you are. Let her gossip. People will get used to her bullshits. Rumors about her will happened too, when she makes too much friends.

i think its time for this friendship to end
in the worst way posssible
you dont need that type of disrespect around