well i know you will kill me but im a boy. but im not like most boys. i dont do porn, i dont think about sex, im a goody goody, and a nice guy. well i was the 6th grader and she liked me and i liked her. well when we finally put our differences aside and got together the girls started treatiing me like a hero but....the school paparazzi hounded us for days. eventualy she asked if we could just be good friends[for we were friends before the incedent]. im not sure she wants to be with me but the paparazzi[or peer pressure for that matter] is just to much or if they didnt have anything to do her us breaking up. please help me-griffin

it probably did have something to do with why you broke up.
if it did. then thats really shallow.
and wrong. and im sorry.

thanks. alot boys pick on me cause im as they would say it "a sissy boy" or a "gay little wimp" but i persivere. I never actually thought i was gonna get a girlfriend but alas. but its her desion and i respect that. as long as we can be friends im satisfied. i still have feelings for her but i wont bug her about it. i guess im pretty lucky anyway since why it lasted i was the only boy with a girlfriend

im sorry things didn't turn out the way you wanted them too.
but.
soon. i bet you'll be the boy the girls like.
that happened to me.
but differently obviously seems how im a girl. lol.
but yeah.

WOW. I'D SO WANT A GUY AS RESPECTFUL AS YOU. OMG.

i agree.. with the "paparazzi" situation, it probably was that that had caused your breakup. maybe you can talk to her friend to friend<-- keyword, to know the real reason so that curiousity doesn't kill the cat. As for that you don't want to bug her, I read once in a book that you should sometimes put yourself ahead of others. I think this is the point right now. You seemed to have really liked her [even for an elementry relationship] so might as well make the best of it, eh?

Every guy thinks about sex. -_-

it is peer pressure... sometimes you get too much attention or sometimes other girls may be jealous and be talking about her behind her back b/c it's really lucky to have a bf in an older grade. i guess she couldn't stand the smack talk

I have to admit that you sound extremely mature for a sixth grade boy, and it's a shame that she let someone like you go for such a stupid reason.

thanks. i probably should have seen the outcome of this from the beginning. but as you guys said better make the best of it
we still take after school drama with each other so we can talk there privately[thank god] as for the one about sex true but not in pornographic ways. when i think of sex i think of a deep relationship with someone i can trust.
as my friend[by that i mean my a-hole bully] would say " sex means anything other than orgasm?!" without him i wonder if id be able to laugh as much as i do
thanks dramas tomorrow so ill tlk to her. what i could talk to her about however is beyond me. goodnight crazy

You won't in a couple of years.

5th grade? Damn, I didn't date till like early 9th grade....


Don't worry, that'll change soon.

for salcha4u the damn i know the other kind. americas population is oversexed already we know stuff we shouldent know till high school[knowledge is power...know madder how "interesting" it is.] anyway i have thought about from time to time just not so much that im drooling and acting drunk[man guys suck..if anyone if the boys locker finds this burn it] thanks for the comment though. every comment is appreachated-good night and good luck

I didn't read any other posts But if other people are really going to effect your decisions and such then I guess I wouldn't be in a relationsnhip to begin with. Because then all your decisions are going to be effected by what others think, which will end up quite bogus.

Talk to her about it, if she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you then just accept it and move on, your both really young. Your still searching for what you really want out of the oppisites and such. -shrugs- Its just a teenage infatuation.

thanks for the comment. i kind of went over the irony of this in my earlyer posts. its not that i care about what others think because i dont its that the school paparazzi keeps hounding us and its imppssible to be alone for than 2 minuites. well thanks for the post anyway. everything and all is appreaciated

Ahh! 6th grade! You're way too young to worry about dating and girls and relationships!

Go to your room and do your homework!!!!

lol actually I kinda agree on that one.
You are in 6th grade, You have your whole entire life to worry about relationships.
Be a kid, and just enjoy it now, before it gets way too complicated.

Ah, and about your situation.
Forget about peer pressure and what your friends think and what not.
Just tell them to keep out of your business.
If you like this girl then go you.
I wish you the best.


=MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS=

I reckon, I dont think youve hit puberty yet buddy...

Yeah, which is why I am so much taller than you.

Thats okay it just makes it more easier for me to punch you in the crotch...

Sure.

I'm glad we've found common ground

Yeah, just that Im a littler high off.

*punches you in the crotch*

we're both so happy and mature...

Just take it slow. I mean, you shouldn't pretend that you two being together never happened, but act like you guys had never gotten together. So you guys at back to where you both were before. You know?

You're 12? 13? Wow man. Don't worry about relationships so much. Enjoy your childhood while you still can.

I agree with her. It'll only make it awkward between you guys if you pretend that you two being together never happened. So I think the best thing to do is...oh i don't know I'd just be repeating hardxcoreL0VER if I said it. All I have to say is: Best of luck my friend.

I started dating in 6th grade too.

ur in 6th grade u shouldnt be datin NE wayz

ditto to that

goood point. like ive said before as long as shes happy im happy anyway where still friends so that works out quite well. maybe il bring the subject up to her again eventualy..maybe. the fact that we were together for even a short amount of time has still made my life better and about dating...well its not so much dating as it is...i dont actuslly know what it is.. maybe skate night..she might go with me well thanks for posting-good night and good luck

in case nobody's realized, he's in 6th grade

stfu baddie, go back to worrying about if you have enough memory on ur calculator to fit more games

(thats what we did in 6th grade and look how i turned out)

maybe the 7th post of its kind..and yet ive already stated THERE IS NO DATING GOING ON and as for my age..does it really have any afect on love...besides the fact that most[thats the key word here] boys get perverted as they get older[very very very very very perverted for that matter]. besides om iconoclasic[means different for thos that dont read]from the other boys. read my forst post. so if know have nothing good to say please dont say anything..-goodnight and goodluck

Iconoclastic*

Its so cute how you try to use vocab to sway people to believe you are maturer than you are. That in itself makes you synonymous from the others. Also, iconoclast usually means a person who rebels, not someone different.

And an iconoclastic is usually someone who rebels against religion....you didn't use it in the right context at all. GG

I agree with this

And what paparazzi..no one gives a damn if you have a girlfriend or not...you are not famous

worry about your books and stuff like that...not a girlfriend

Must you continually lord over how verbally superior you are to many of the cB members?

I mean really... do you derive any joy out of it?

Yea for the person that made this topic, I wasen't only referring that you shouldn't care what others think. You both are pretty young, and if the relationship doesn't want to really work then don't worry about it to much, you got a lot more life to learn.

whoa. stop hating on the guy for whatever language he's speaking... at least he's trying to not sound dumb.

if she asked you to just be good friends, i think the main message is she doesn't want a relationship with you anymore. that's probably due to peer pressure ("paparazzi", fyi bud there is no paparazzi at school in 6th grade, you are not famous and nobody really cares that much) or due to her just not liking you. if you're really bugged about it, you should just ask her why she broke up with you.

trust me, you're only in 6th grade (and she's only in 5th ) so you'll go through a lot more as you get older. don't worry too much.

Yet he's failing :)

well then i still kind of yoused in the right context. god pisses me off


well thanks..as for papparazi there are these fumb boys in my class that feel the need to right everything down that interests them[just about everything] and i refer to them as the papparzi..im not famous..im glad im not

paparazzi? are you kidding me?

oh, yes i guess you are a MAVERICK

please note the LARGE word i used there, took me ages to find it, tyvm

i am obviously superior to you cuz i use a seldom-used SAT word AMIRITE?????


edit - i'd like to point out that i have had : 3 verbal warnings, a 2 week ban off cB, and a 30% warn level, i bet i make andie proud <3

double edit - omfg, i passed my 666th post and didnt even realize it, my pokemon will suffer for this

umm... strange. those boys have too much free time.
hah yup. hope it all goes well for you though.

/double posted, srry.

It's kind of sad how everyone's picking on this poor 6th grader

Yeah, hes like a booger.

aww those guys are just jealous just wait another year or so, and people won't be so immature.

Haha.

I'm going to start with something a LITTLE off topic.
When you say you're "going out" in middle school, it's usually just like telling the world that you like each other and hang around together. You'll probably hold hands, sit next to each other at school, and go to a movie at the most.

People just get over excited about the whole fact that you guys like each other.

Try to avoid people who'll bug you and the girl. The "paparazzi" won't bug you as much if you don't react back to their gossiping or over excitement towards you and your "girlfriend."

I didn't even know what a girl was in sixth grade. Seriously.

haha, that's hecka funny XD