No, this topic has nothing to do with dating overweight folks.

But it does have to deal with dating. Is it just me or so it seems that everytime I have a girlfriend or one of my friends do, I tend to notice weightloss. Is this normal?

um.. depends.

what do you mean?

well.. maybe you're just being a little paranoid about it? dunno. they probably want to seem skinnier and slimmer to you so that you don't come to think that you or one of your friends think they're fat. you know a lot of girls are too self-concious.

wait.
does the weightloss happen to YOU? or does it happen to your girlfriend.

if it happens to you, maybe you're just overly stressed out, but that's pretty much only assuming that all your relationships are abusive, troublesome and stressful. and if it happens to your girlfriend... well, i think you might just be imagining it, because there's certainly no real fact that states girls will try to lose weight every time they get into a relationship.

Uhm, I've never seen that happen. I've always seen people gain more weight -laughs- Although perhaps you were kind of sad before, and then you were in a relationship and the sudden happiness has made you want to be healthy or something, in which I guess that could be normal.

No i'm saying that the boyfriend loses weight. LoL and no i've never been in an "abusive" relationship.haha. geez im only 17.

you can be in abusive relationships at any age.

but as for your question, its prolly because of the stress.

either that or you get laid enough to work off all the calories. XD

so its in the girl that you see the weightloss?

maybe its just something they cant help, like a gym class or something,

maybe its stress.

Might be all the calorie loss from all the hot exciting sex.

i think it does sometimes. for me, i'm kind of heavy, and if i like a guy thats super skinny im afraid he'll think lesser of me because of that.

but that's just me.