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Winter
Finally realised love is really blind.

My ex is actually so ugly. pinch.gif

My best friend used to go, 'Ashley, he is not cute, he is freakin ugly!'

But I always thought he was the cutest.

So yesterday, I saw his prom pics and I finally realised that he was sooo ugly!

I was so blinded when I was with him. I mean, I still love him, but things are not the same anymore. Now I can really see. Does that make sense? wink.gif
dukesoccer07
Thats how it is with my ex girlfriend
XxKrNqTcUiTyxX
well, i htink itz better if a person is bootiful on da inside not da outside. i woudlnt mind dating a realli reali realli ugly guy if he was smart, charming, nice, and funny happy.gif andi would never date a pretti boi whos a total jerk
Kathleen
Haha that happened with my last boyfriend. I still think my one ex is hot. rolleyes.gif
CEP
Yeah.. it is.

-1.75/-1.80 eyes - glasses and contacts = me with my ex.

really blind.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
Winter
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jun 1 2004, 9:37 AM)
Yeah.. it is.

-1.75/-1.80 eyes - glasses and contacts = me with my ex.

really blind.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

Brilliant math equation Jose. happy.gif
Kathleen
Hmm...but still, the ex that I still think is hot...I actually thought I was in love with him. Hah. What a joke. _dry.gif
hOeyx3
it does make sense.. don`t worry wink.gif

most of my past boyfriends were NOT GOOD LOOKING AT ALL.. haha pinch.gif but i was with them nevertheless happy.gif
LiNHy POO
ooo yeh!!! thats i felt with guy b4... and everyone was thinking the same thing too!!! i agree very much that love is blind!!
xquizit
Hahaha, I know EXACTLY what you mean. I look at older pics and I think to myself, what was I thinking? But you what I think it is... if you had a bad experience wtih that guy, then more than likely you're going to find him a lot less attractive.
LatinaLady
QUOTE(Winter @ May 31 2004, 7:02 PM)
My ex is actually so ugly. pinch.gif

My best friend used to go, 'Ashley, he is not cute, he is freakin ugly!'

oh goodness i am tthe same with youi was going out with this guy last year and i thoughthe was very good looking after we broke up i looked at him straight up andi saw he was UGLY not cuz i "hated" him but he was really ugly. i would post a pic but im embarressed, but also everythign happens for a reason
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
it happens. maybe his personality is what overrided how you felt about his appearance. but until you're out of the relationship you don't see him in portions but rather a whole. he may seemed a lot more attractive to you while you were together and in love with him. it's true you often see people a lot differently once you're outside of a situation/relationship/friendship, etc.
Winter
QUOTE(xquizit @ Jun 1 2004, 1:09 PM)
Hahaha, I know EXACTLY what you mean. I look at older pics and I think to myself, what was I thinking? But you what I think it is... if you had a bad experience wtih that guy, then more than likely you're going to find him a lot less attractive.

It wasn't a bad relationship. It ended really great. Kinda like what latinalady96 said.

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oh goodness i am tthe same with youi was going out with this guy last year and i thoughthe was very good looking after we broke up i looked at him straight up andi saw he was UGLY not cuz i "hated" him but he was really ugly. i would post a pic but im embarressed, but also everythign happens for a reason


It's not coz you hate him or something. It's just he's so damn ugly lol... I'd post a pic too but I know he has friends in here... *looks around nervously*
f00LisH_h3aRt63
yea damnit love is blind and that sucks. i mean even though i kniow my judgement is kind of impaired when im all caught up in my feelinfgs but i ignore it everytime. yes my friends told me that my ex was an ass but i didnt know it until he went and broke my heart. but hey i still think hes hot. laugh.gif but hes still an ass.

throb.gif jackie
psychoticangel
haha true to that! took me a year and a couple of months to realize how ugly mai ex was o.0 inside nd out. I guess when you're in love you defend the person you love... even if what you're defending for is wrong. *shrugs* stuff happen.
kewljeans
ahah i know what you mean! all my friends and family members were like.. what do you see in him?! his insides are ugly and his looks dont make up for it either.. ahah
Unspoken Sorrow
MY EX WAS SO FREAKIN UGLII..HAHAHAH..I DIDNT REALIZE THAT..BUT NOW..I GOIN OUT WITH A HOT GUY..BUT IM LIKE 3 INCH TALLER THAN HIM..BUT HIS REALLY SWEET..EN EVERYTHING..
dani41790
hehe that happend to me, i didnt realize that he waz soooo ugly until i stopped dating hym.
shortay_baybee
love is blind _dry.gif
xquizit
sure is. just look at my sister. she's blind as a bat when it comes to "love"

shifty.gif i hope she reads this.
F_L_I_P
"Love isnt Blind! its Near sighted!"

sorry i read it off the back of Love Hina.
177emories
yeah when ur with someone, or when u love someone u look past JUST their outter apperence...
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