Three years ago(september of 2003) i met my ex-bf. he was extremely handsome and sweet.he was two years older than me(now i'm 16 he's 18)

we had sex many times and he got me pregnant. His best female friend told him various lies about me and told him also that i cheated on him(i didn i loved him very much).
So the day i wanted to tell him that i was pregnant he broke up with him and he was really angry and kinda violent. when i told him about my pregnancy he wouldn't believe me.

Anyway after some months i know he found the truth but i moved with my older brother to Paris(from London).So i never saw him again.

The thing is that i actually kept the baby and i raise my son,his name is Aaron he's so wonderful, with my brother.

Just wondering would you keep the baby or would you get an abortion?
You think i did the right thing?i always wonder..

I would put my kid up for addoption. I wouldn't have the heart to kill or keep the baby. I would find him or her a nice home to live in. I would also hope that The baby would understand.

Personally, I think you did the right thing. I don't believe in abortion; it's murder. You did the right thing in not killing him.

There is always the possibility of putting him up for adoption, but I still think you did right in keeping him. If you feel you can't keep the baby, the only option is for adoption- not abortion (that makes a good motto, no?).

I believe you did the right thing. Good job

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^ I agree. You did the right thing. I don't believe in abortion either. & if I was in your situation, I would have kept the baby too. If I had to raise a child alone, it might be too much. I would definitely ask for help. It's so nice that your brother is helping you. I think that your ex will come to find you. He'll realize it one day and want to know & see your son.

Well I personally couldn't get an abortion but even if I could I wouldn't. I also like kids. I would probably freak out but I would keep it.

Wow. You kept the baby =) that's so cute.

I would've probably put it up for adoption if I was at that age and gottten pregnant. I can never handle a baby by myself. I might have even pulled an abortion if I was that desperate. I'm not one against abortions either. (dunflameplz)
Plus I don't think I'd ever be ready for it just that soon. You did the right thing for your son though.

im against abortion.. and im not saying raising a baby is going to be easy but i'd rather go through all the struggle then kill a baby....

i'd give it up for adoption.

[font=Trebuchet Ms]I was put in the position of deciding whether or not to keep my child. I was 18 at the time and I got pregnant. I was going to keep the baby until I miscarried. But if the complications wouldn't have had happened, I would have kept the baby. I don't believe in abortion and as good as the idea of adoption is, I don't think I would have been able to deal with the fact of someone else raising a child I carried for 9 months. So I was going to keep it. But like I said, unfortunately I miscarried and lost the baby 2 months into the pregnancy.

i would put it up for adoption but you made the right choice!

you should always keep it good for you

*mad props*

I would never hurt that baby... :]

If you can't handle taking care of a kid put it up for addoption. There is always someone who is looking for a baby.

I would put it for adoption.. Unless health issues were making it difficult. But yeah, I can't have a child right now. You did the right thing, though. Good luck :)

I'd probably go with what the others said and put it up for adoption. At this age, I can't even take care of myself.

I would never get a abortion, even if it ended up happing like what happend to you. I would keep it and raise it to the best of my ability. And if I didn't find it to be a really good time in life to raise a kid then I suppose I would end up putting it up for adoption. I would be rather sad about this but in the end I would understand of course.

What you did was nice, and I'm glad over the years its always getting better

you did the right thing i had to other friends (which im not really close to) that got pregnant one knew who the dad was and the other didnt (unfortunately) but they still had the baby and was really happy about it they got their own close friends to take care the baby and stuff

Your brother and you are truly amazing.

Your boyfriend is very immature and irresponsible.

Oh, thanks! My brother was 20 when i got pregnant. my mother had died when i was three years old and my dad died some months b4 i met my boyfriend.

Anyway i adore my brother he's the most amazing man i've ever met. He helps me with Aaron(my son) and he studied hard at the university at the same time.
You know although our parents left us a great inheritance so Julian(my brother) and I would never have to work, my brother has goals and wants to work and doesn't like spending money without working. I mean he's so nice.

Now, about my ex- bf.. the thing is i guess he didn't act nicely at all. But Aaron takes after him so much: same cute freckles, same deep blue eyes, same blonde hair..It's so tough to forget him when I see everyday Aaron who looks exactly like him. My bro says that I've got blond hair and blue eyes too so it's not that Aaron takes after only my ex-bf but i think he says that to make me feel better. It's so obvious that Aaron is like a yound David(David is my ex-bf)
Plus, Aaron has exactly the same scar on his cheek that David has.
I still love David although I know i shouldn't..what can i do to forget him? any ideas?

You quit thinking about him, even though its awfully hard since you do have a son to reflect upon. Although you son can't exactly have the same scar that David has, atleast I wouldn't think so. Unless its some growth scar. -shrugs- I would normally say distance yourself from the guy but it sounds like you've already done that much. There isn't really anything you can do to get over him, in the end your always going to remember him because you had a son with him. Just give it time and perhaps he will fade from your life.

Although I have a question, are you ever going to let him meet his son? Or just let it be? I mean a lot of kids when they grow up and realize that their different because they don't have two parents end up wanting to meet their other parent.

You did the right thing. Now your baby will grow up and know who it's real mother is, instead of being hurt by the fact that he was put up for adoption. Abortion is just wrong, the baby did nothing; so I respect you for not doing that.
My friend is 14 years old and she has been pregnant before. Her mom forced her to get an abortion. But now she is pregnant again (same guy) and will not let her mom force that on her again. I think its a little too early for her to be pregnant, but I support her decision to keep the baby. Well good luck!

How did you got all the money to support your child? it's pretty expensive? did you go to Cosco? Their diaper is cheaper and same brand.

i'd keep it. =]

I definitely wouldn't get an abortion, but I'm not sure if I would keep him/her or not. Maybe.

YOU BITCH! I CANT BELIEVE YOU HAD SEX WHEN YOU WERE LIKE 13.
YOU SHOULD HAVE GET AN ABORTION. I HATE YOUR BUSTARD SON.

I HOPE HE DIES AND YOU DIE WITH HIM.
YOUR BOYFRIEND ACTED OK.

wHAT DID U THINK TAHT HE WOULD EVER STAY WITH WHORE LIKE YOU????????

YOU F***ING BITCH I HATE YOUR KID. YOUR KID IS NOT A NORMAL KID. HE'S NO FATHER, HE'S SON OF THE BIGGEST WHORE EVER. HE'S A BUSTARD. I HOPE U DIE

um... jeez... a little tense...

A LITTLE TENSE?????? SHE'S SUCH A SLUT AND SHE COMES HERE 4 SUPPORT?????????
U SEEM NORMAL URUNACID. U DO AGREE WITH ME RIGHT SHE'S HORRIBLE I HOPE HER KID DIES. RIGHT?

Um... No, I don't. I believe that a life is a life. I don't know her that well, and I don't know what her problems and issues are, and I don't have on opionin on things that I do not know. As far as I know. She had a boyfriend, she had sex with him, they ended up with a child, and he left while she took care of the baby instead of killing it. I have mad respect for that.

If you happen to know more about the situation. Maybe you should explain. Instead of stating that she's a whore over and over again. You are giving me any logical reasoning behind your claims.

i dont know anything else except that she's such a slut. id unno her but she shouldn't be here in cb. here there are nice people and not sluts like her. i wish her bustard dies.LUCY GET OUTTA CB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Whats your deffinition of "slut"?

People who have sex?

I have had sex... so have many of the most active members on CB... are you insulting them too?

I personally don't think you have a foot to stand on... :/

*sigh* people like you need to learn or ignored.

I think that many will agree when I say this:

FVCK YOU!

Josh, drop it.

Suck Me - The fact that you made an account to come and bash Lucy is very immature. If you have failed to read the community guidlines one of the rules is that you may not member bash people. In which you are going against completely.



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Lucy you are a amazing person for making the choices you made. choosing to not give up your baby. Just ignore this guy, he doesn't have anything better to do then just come online and bash random people. Don't delete your account, we dont' find you useless and not want you here, we love new members and I think your a great person. So just stay and be the bigger person in this situations. Believe me I've had worse happen to me on this site then just a few words If you would like to talk further in to this feel free to PM me.

As for Suck Me- you may PM me as well if you have any questions, as long as a admin or any other staff member.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
CHRIST!SHE'S SUCH A SLUT AND YOU CONGRATULATE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LUCY LISTEN THIS: YOUR SON IS THE BIGGEST BUSTARD AND HE HAS NO FATHER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No one reply to Suck me, just ignore him completely.

Thanks for your cooperation.

LUCY YOUR SON IS THE BIGGEST BUSTARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!HE'S NO FATHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IF U DONT REPLY TO ME IT'LL MEAN THAT U AGREE THAT YOUR SON IS A BUSTARD!!!!!!!!!!!!

^ You've been warned. Stop bashing.

i'm not gonna be kind. your son Lucy will never have a father!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!he's a bastard!

you did what you thought was right at the time... i've had two abortions and though i am not proud of them i know i did the right thing... i was in a relationship with someone who did drugs and was always steppin out on me... i'd always hear about him and other girls but i didn't leave... why... the typical "because i loved him" answer... i made the mistake of letting it happen twice though... i was young the first time and he was so deep into his drugs that he didn't want to grow up... i didn't want to raise a child on my own because every child deserves BOTH parents... whether they are together or not...

i have since left that relationship (we were together for 4 years, i am now 22) and am married to a wonderful man who has a child with someone. he is a great father his child and we are currently trying to have a baby. i look back and know that i made the right decision FOR ME... you can never regret the decision you made... because though it is hard you have a part of you that can put a smile on your face just by thinking of him... it's an unexplainable feeling that no man will ever be able to give you... never regret your child... ever... in some ways i regret what i did... it gets hard sometimes and yes i do cry but thats my deal and my guilt that i live with everyday... never again will i do that...

i personally think that you should contact his father and let him know whats going on... he should be involved in his childs life... if you keep your child away your son will hate you later on... GUARANTEED.... because YOU kept daddy away... let him know about your son and take a DNA test if you have to to prove it's his... if he stays away then have him sign over his rights... that way when your son gets older he will know that you tried to allow his father in his life and he didn't want anything to do with him... that way it'll never back fire on you...

you never know..... the father might've changed and is now willing to take responsibility... you'll never know unless you try..... you made the decision you made... don't regret it... all you can do is work with what you have and make lemonade outta lemons.........

good luck.

^ I agree with you in some ways that the kid should know who the father is, thats why I asked some questions to it in my first post on this. I don't think the kid would go as far as hating her because he never met his dad. Eventually of course I do think he should meet his dad eventually, when his dad is mature enough to believe that it is his kid and he wants to meet him. Because by the sounds of it he didn't really want to know that the kid was his, perhaps since shes been gone hes thought more in to it? Who knows?

Omg, no, I hate abortions!! They make me sad. I mean, what if we was that baby? I'd take on the responsibilty of what I've done.

mad props to yah girl!! i wouldn't have an abortion either. i would definitely keep the baby with the help of my family. :)

We broke up because his best female friend, Sarah kept telling him lies about me. She told him that I cheated on him and he believed her.
The day he told me to break up he was really mad and when i yelled at him that i'm pregnant he wouldn't believe me.
Sarah kept telling him that my pregnancy is a lie.
My brother and i left London and since then we leave in Paris.
I kept talking with my friend Jake. Jake went and told David that I was telling the truth about my pregnancy and he advised him to check if Sarah was telling him the truth about my cheating. Sarah siad she was sorry she had made a mistake and all. And David forgave her.
Also Jake told him that I would keep the baby.
Now David and Sarah are together. I sort of hate her.



Well, I'm not going back to London.so i guess Aaron will never meet his dad.

My bro teaches Aaron reading(my bro can be such a show-off sometimes, i mean he read somewhere that Dakota Fanning learnt reading when she was 2years old and now he's been like a paranoid about Aaron learning to to read ) They were reading a tale and out of the blue Aaron started asking me :mummy where's my daddy he died like in the tale?where's he? is he nice?he loves me?

And i didn't know what to tell him.. any ideas?

Um... tell him his daddy loved him. Just make him happy. When he's old enough and he will understand, tell him the truth.

oh, he keeps asking me if daddy is gonna come to play with him and all the time questions like: where's MY daddy and all..And then he was like :does daddy love u like the girl's (in the tale) dad loved her mummy?

Awww... tell him sweet things, but don't lie. How old is he? He sounds so adorable!

Yea don't lie to him, I mean you can tell him sweet things now. Although when he gets older you should tell him the truth, he'll understand more then. Since you live with your brother though, your brother is kind of going to take the role of the dad to your kid. Which I suppose isn't to bad if your brother isn't a bad guy.

He's 2 years old (born on the 4th of July 2004). Oh, yeah he's so adorable! I visited your myspace and I showed him a picture where u look a bit like Harry Potter so he was like: oh mummy hoW u found Harry,why his hair is blond? in the movie he didn have a computer i think.

LOL! He was so funny.

what kinda sweet things without telling him lies?

-Whispers- Josh loves kids. Just to let you know.

Just tell him that his dad cares about him but he lives somewhere else. Which I'm sure both of those things aren't lies?

^my son thinks Josh is Harry Potter!lol!

his dad doesn't care about him...
he never asked if i was ok or sth like that..

What? Not true. My boyfriend never met his father and he doesn't hate his mom. He hates his dad cause he didn't try.